Depends on my mood
usually if I'm sad or insecure I want to be the little spoon haha
usually if I'm sad or insecure I want to be the little spoon haha
Gender and Spooning
04/25/2012
as long as im being touched
04/25/2012
We like to switch it up. Most of the time I end up being the little spoon, but right now with my preggo belly I find it more comfortable to be the big spoon. My husband seems to like it, but says it feels kind of weird when the baby starts kicking and he ends up with an unexpected back massage!
04/25/2012
I love little spoon, but I like being big spoon too. SOOO... my hubby is daddy spoon, I'm mama spoon, and I hold our baby spoon. But if it's just the two of us he's usually big spoon.
04/25/2012
I like being both spoons, and luckily so does my SO! We usually switch a couple times as we're falling asleep.
04/25/2012
I'm a woman and I can be big or little spoon, it depends. I enjoy both equally.
04/26/2012
I love being the big spoon, because I can hold onto her boob
04/26/2012
I like being either spoon and I'm genderqueer. It's hard for me to sleep in either position though, specially when I'm the little spoon because my partner's breath/stubble gets at my neck. For cuddling though I'm game for any position
05/01/2012
Little spoon here, always. (If only because it's anatomically awkward for me to be big spoon.)
05/01/2012
I'm female and prefer being the little spoon, but we frequently reverse it because it's a different experience. My boyfriend says that when I'm spooning him, it's like I'm his jetpack
05/01/2012
I think we spoon each other equally.
05/01/2012
At the moment I'm "medium spoon." Lol. We co-sleep and my husband holds me, while I hold our baby. It's really cute!
05/01/2012
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I identify as a women and sometimes its nice to be the little spoon, but sometimes I am protective over the man in my life and can be the big spoon. When I am with another woman, because I am so tall (5'10") I tend to be the big spoon.
Originally posted by
CoffeeCup
A number of men I have been with have mentioned to me that I am the first woman they have met who prefers being the big spoon. None of them ever said it in a negative way, in fact, they all seemed to think it was awesome that I like being big spoon.
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A number of men I have been with have mentioned to me that I am the first woman they have met who prefers being the big spoon. None of them ever said it in a negative way, in fact, they all seemed to think it was awesome that I like being big spoon.
But it has always made me wonder, is it really that rare? less
But it has always made me wonder, is it really that rare? less
05/03/2012
I'm male and prefer to be big spoon. It could lead to other things.
05/03/2012
I identify as a woman and I prefer being the little spoon. However, I'm both taller and heavier than my beau is, so it can sometimes lead to negative self talk.
05/03/2012
I like it either way, but I guess being behind her more.
05/03/2012
phozersexy
We have been together a long time and she recently started doing it and I thought it was kinda hot..
05/03/2012
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I prefer being spooned
Originally posted by
CoffeeCup
A number of men I have been with have mentioned to me that I am the first woman they have met who prefers being the big spoon. None of them ever said it in a negative way, in fact, they all seemed to think it was awesome that I like being big spoon.
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more
A number of men I have been with have mentioned to me that I am the first woman they have met who prefers being the big spoon. None of them ever said it in a negative way, in fact, they all seemed to think it was awesome that I like being big spoon.
But it has always made me wonder, is it really that rare? less
But it has always made me wonder, is it really that rare? less
05/03/2012
I identify as a woman and I love being spooned, but I like being the big spoon too.
05/03/2012
We alternate a lot. Usually I'm on my back and he latches on like a koala bear. I love it
05/03/2012
i find this very interesting
05/04/2012
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I'm glad some one else finds it interesting, too.
Originally posted by
indiechick
i find this very interesting
And apparently, women who strongly prefer being big spoon are a rather small minority.
05/05/2012
I prefer to be the big spoon, but sometimes depending on things going on in life itself, being a little spoon is comforting
05/07/2012
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I am a woman and I like to be the little spoon, but sometimes I like to be the big spoon too
Originally posted by
CoffeeCup
A number of men I have been with have mentioned to me that I am the first woman they have met who prefers being the big spoon. None of them ever said it in a negative way, in fact, they all seemed to think it was awesome that I like being big spoon.
...
more
A number of men I have been with have mentioned to me that I am the first woman they have met who prefers being the big spoon. None of them ever said it in a negative way, in fact, they all seemed to think it was awesome that I like being big spoon.
But it has always made me wonder, is it really that rare? less
But it has always made me wonder, is it really that rare? less
05/10/2012
I like being either spoon. In this relationship, I somehow tend to be the little spoon.
05/10/2012
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I like to be little spoon, though I have been big spoon. lol
Originally posted by
CoffeeCup
A number of men I have been with have mentioned to me that I am the first woman they have met who prefers being the big spoon. None of them ever said it in a negative way, in fact, they all seemed to think it was awesome that I like being big spoon.
...
more
A number of men I have been with have mentioned to me that I am the first woman they have met who prefers being the big spoon. None of them ever said it in a negative way, in fact, they all seemed to think it was awesome that I like being big spoon.
But it has always made me wonder, is it really that rare? less
But it has always made me wonder, is it really that rare? less
05/11/2012
I'm usually big spoon, but I love being little spoon too.
05/13/2012
we take turns
05/13/2012
I'm a guy, typically my partner likes me to spoon her, but sometimes I like when she spoons me.
05/16/2012
It changes from night to night, we snuggle until we get comfortable
05/17/2012