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Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Elaira
give a blowjob?

I mean, to me, it seems like there really is no way to be romantic about it. Sure, the favor can be romantic, but the act doesn't seem as such.

So, what do you think?
Absolutely.
12/01/2011
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
Yeah, some would find oral to be unromantic... But some also find sex in general to be unromantic. It's all in how you go about it.
12/06/2011
Contributor: Caprieclipse Caprieclipse
it can be romantic, but not my fav thing to do!
12/08/2011
Contributor: switzerland switzerland
everything we do is romantic. it's always making love.
12/10/2011
Contributor: bunnygrl bunnygrl
It definitely can be, like some other responses I've seen on here I have to agree with a slow pace. It is about the connection and enjoying making him feel good, and not being overly slurpy about it, lol.
12/14/2011
Contributor: Megan Jean Megan Jean
I think the total intimacy of it makes it very romantic.
12/25/2011
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
I hate making eye contact because I feel like I'm serving the guy. Sheesh, no romance at all.
12/26/2011
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I don't see it as a romantic act no matter how slow and sensual you go. It's the union of togetherness that makes it romantic not the act itself.
12/26/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I'm sure it can be romantic, but I'm not sure if I'd want it to be.
12/26/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
I think it can be, and sometimes romance is nice, but othertimes, dirty and unromantic is hot as well
12/27/2011
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
I've certainly never given a romantic blowjob.. but during sexual activities I don't tend to be concerned about being romantic anyway.
12/30/2011
Contributor: Doah Doah
Of Course it is! why wouldn't it be? she doesn't have to do it for me, and when she does, it can be construed as in such a manner!
01/10/2012
Contributor: Maiden Maiden
I think it just depends on the people involved. I have given some "romantic" sensual oral sex and it can be lovely. Still, I think my man enjoys the "nasty" kind with the gagging, slurping, and hard, fast paced stroking. That is the type we both prefer, and I wouldn't really call that romantic. I guess it all depends on the mood and the person.
01/11/2012
Contributor: Daemonin Daemonin
I think it's about the connection and how it's done. It isn't always romantic, but we don't always "make love."
01/11/2012
Contributor: chuckthompson453 chuckthompson453
Quote:
Originally posted by Elaira
give a blowjob?

I mean, to me, it seems like there really is no way to be romantic about it. Sure, the favor can be romantic, but the act doesn't seem as such.

So, what do you think?
I've seen it done, not easy though
06/01/2012
Contributor: neffingnuts neffingnuts
I think when you're with the right person, any sexual activity can be extremely romantic, because you're being exposed to their raw feelings.
06/02/2012
Contributor: bella8933 bella8933
I agree .. it´s when you are with the right person.

If he´s a guy that does not care about you and is basically trying to USE you for sex etc .. then it is not romantic because there is no real connection to that person. False.

Whereas if you are with someone ... that you really feel something for ... and he feels the same about you then ... you want to take alllll of him in the most intimate way. You want that closeness.
06/03/2012
Contributor: alittlebit alittlebit
It just depends how she does it. Blowjobs can often be more sensual than penetrative sex.
06/03/2012
Contributor: giftdgecko giftdgecko
depends on what you view as romantic I guess. When viewed objectively enough as a single act most things in sex kinda lose their romance
06/03/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by Elaira
give a blowjob?

I mean, to me, it seems like there really is no way to be romantic about it. Sure, the favor can be romantic, but the act doesn't seem as such.

So, what do you think?
No, I don't think so.
06/04/2012
Contributor: digit88 digit88
Quote:
Originally posted by Elaira
give a blowjob?

I mean, to me, it seems like there really is no way to be romantic about it. Sure, the favor can be romantic, but the act doesn't seem as such.

So, what do you think?
it can be done
06/04/2012
Contributor: Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
yes, if there's a connection
06/04/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
I feel you can be really sensual when giving oral sex. That makes it romantic to me. Inversely you can be not so romantic and more rough and hot with it.
06/05/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Kind of, it can be done as an expression of love, though it's more of a sensual thing.
06/06/2012
Contributor: Heatherbipoly Heatherbipoly
Quote:
Originally posted by indiglo
Oh I think it can most definitely be romantic. You can try to avoid slurping, if that seems unromantic. Lots of tongue, and going slow, taking breaks to give kisses, looking in his eyes, etc are all romantic things to do, and make the mood more ... more
feel the same way
07/10/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
I think it's all in the talk and technique. Making it more playful, and sensual can make it romantic.
07/10/2012
Contributor: curiousnwilling curiousnwilling
I get what you mean. While it can be a romantic thing to do, and it's certainly erotic, while you're actually down in there...its just not very romantic.
07/28/2012
Contributor: Izzaba Izzaba
Yes, I try to make it that was as much as I can sven some time a Blow Job is just that. If you play with it and take you time getting him there as long as he enjoys whe you are doing it can be.
07/29/2012
Contributor: True Pleasures True Pleasures
I would assume there is, but nothing is ever to romantic around here. It's more like a free for all. lol
07/29/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
It can be just as sensual and intimate as cunnilingus can be. It's all about going slow and being gentle and loving.
07/30/2012