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Contributor: jg19 jg19
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
I totally agree with you!
I can see how it might seem unromantic. But I think all those sounds when my wife goes down on me are part of the sensual experience.
08/23/2011
Contributor: Booktease Booktease
Quote:
Originally posted by Elaira
give a blowjob?

I mean, to me, it seems like there really is no way to be romantic about it. Sure, the favor can be romantic, but the act doesn't seem as such.

So, what do you think?
I have only had a few experiences with men, but I'm guessing that if oral sex with a woman can be romantic, then oral sex with a man can also be. I think oral sex is sort of a romantic gesture anyway. Its giving someone pleasure and that, in and of itself, is pretty sweet. I know that one thing that makes oral sex seem more romantic between Bee and I is if there is a lot of soft petting and caressing during. For instance, gently stroking her sides, her stomach, or her breasts. You know, loving caresses.
08/23/2011
Contributor: Booktease Booktease
And I agree with someone's suggestion to look him in the eye. Sometimes just looking at Bee while doing it makes me feel more connected to her and makes the event more romantic in general.
08/23/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
A BJ is more erotic than romantic to me, but what does it matter, my man loves me for giving it!
08/23/2011
Contributor: jg19 jg19
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
A BJ is more erotic than romantic to me, but what does it matter, my man loves me for giving it!
Passionate, erotic, and romantic. What exactly is the difference?
08/23/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
i'm kind of on the fence about it. while it is a pretty pornographic act to me, i think that by looking in his eyes periodically and perhaps kissing it every now and then... treating it like it's a delicious ice cream blob of your favorite flavor, it could be romantic.

maybe at a stretch...

08/23/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Quote:
Originally posted by jg19
Passionate, erotic, and romantic. What exactly is the difference?
Erotic as in "strongly affected by sexual desire" -- that's how we feel when I'm giving my man a blowjob!
08/23/2011
Contributor: IslandGoddess IslandGoddess
Quote:
Originally posted by MeliPixie
Sure it can be! ^_^
Thats what i said
08/23/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Yes, sucking a dick can be done romantically.
08/23/2011
Contributor: Diablotin Diablotin
There is nothing like a slow romantic blowjob, with eye contact, tenderness and lots of love.
08/23/2011
Contributor: Purpleladybug Purpleladybug
I think you can make anything romantic if you are both into it and each other!
08/23/2011
Contributor: FaerieLove FaerieLove
Take your time in candle light in some sexy lingerie
08/23/2011
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
I think it can be
08/24/2011
Contributor: Linga Linga
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
For My Man and I, every act that pleases either one (ie both) of us is unquestionably romantic. Pleasing him pleases ME, so it is "romantic." Of course, I'm a realist. I don't expect a Kathryn Heigel laced Pretty Woman type scenario ... more
Perfectly said!

I have never subscribed to the line of thought that says you can't have rough, naughty, hard and dirty sex and still call it love. It doesn't matter what we are doing , we love each other therefore it's making love no matter how nasty it gets.
08/24/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
i'm kind of on the fence about it. while it is a pretty pornographic act to me, i think that by looking in his eyes periodically and perhaps kissing it every now and then... treating it like it's a delicious ice cream blob of your favorite ... more
Sex in every form is a "pretty pornographic act" innit?
08/24/2011
Contributor: PuddlePuppy PuddlePuppy
Quote:
Originally posted by Elaira
give a blowjob?

I mean, to me, it seems like there really is no way to be romantic about it. Sure, the favor can be romantic, but the act doesn't seem as such.

So, what do you think?
Just go slow and be as sensual as possible.
Romance isn't about being sexy or getting off, it's about love. Take time, make him feel good... And most of all be as sensual as possible.
08/26/2011
Contributor: Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
My husband loves when I make eye contact during any sexual act and I feel really connected to him when I do that, so it feels very romanticto me.
09/06/2011
Contributor: Lucky21 Lucky21
Oh, it's been done romantically.
09/06/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I love to give a BJ which I find both romantic and sensual. If he just ripped his cock out and stuck it in my face, of course not. Had this experience with a former partner.....guess that's one reason he is former.
09/08/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
I'd say yes. But it'd be more about the scene and set up.
09/08/2011
Contributor: Nissa Nissa Nissa Nissa
Quote:
Originally posted by Elaira
give a blowjob?

I mean, to me, it seems like there really is no way to be romantic about it. Sure, the favor can be romantic, but the act doesn't seem as such.

So, what do you think?
I agree. Take it slow even if its like painfully slow.. keep as much eye contact as much as possible.
09/08/2011
Contributor: mizzmilla mizzmilla
Quote:
Originally posted by Ryuson
I feel like the connection is romantic, and if you take it slow can be really sweet, but that it really depends on the couple!
I totally agree.
09/08/2011
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
I suppose the intentions of sucking a dick can be romantic but honestly the act with all the slurping sounds and such just doesn't seem like it could be.
11/20/2011
Contributor: aimtoplease aimtoplease
Of course! Just gotta the right way
11/20/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
Yes I believe it can be romantic although it definitely isn't always.
11/20/2011
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
For me it's usually romantic, actually. I love him, and I really get into the idea of doing that for him. Sometimes it is less romantic than others for any number of reasons, though.
11/20/2011
Contributor: GoneBabyGone GoneBabyGone
I think it can be romantic in a lot of ways. Sometimes there is sweet romance and sometimes feisty.

You have to go into it with the feeling you want and that makes the difference. If you think about it being romantic or "try" to be romantic it often end up just being awkward.

The best bet is to just set up for it and go with the flow.
11/23/2011
Contributor: JDear JDear
I think as foreplay it can be romantic when you take it slow and focus on the most sensitive parts and just get things going. But there isn't really anything romantic (in my opinion) about slamming my face up and down on his cock all the while probably not looking to attractive. Well maybe I look attractive to him. Anything can be romantic but usually when he just wants me to suck him off it's just because he likes it and I don't mind doing it.
11/23/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
Quote:
Originally posted by Elaira
Apparently I'm the only one who finds it to be different. Haha!

My roommate and I just had this discussion, actually. We both agreed that there's a romantic side to it, and then there's actually trying to get the person off. Those ... more
Not at all, I find it unromantic. It seems like a dirty little girl thing, but I guess that is why they like it. There is nothing romantic about it, to me either.
11/23/2011
Contributor: HomuHomu HomuHomu
>romance
Myeh, doesn't even exist in my life. Who needs it? :S
11/30/2011