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Males: Can You Orgasm During Sex?

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Contributor: spiced spiced
I had a problem — at first — with almost every new partner I ever had. I'm sure it had to do with being tense and self-conscious. The first few times my wife and I had sex, I couldn't cum at all, and with two of my former girlfriends, I came only after a LONG time (hour or more). In every case, when I finally did cum, the results were impressive!

After having sex with them a few times, I always learned to relax and I then could choose whether I wanted to cum quick or last a long time.
04/11/2013
Contributor: dancingduo dancingduo
I honestly have trained myself not to orgasm...its caused a few missed opportunities...but I normally do not have an issue with it.
05/09/2013
Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
It usually takes him a long time. Sometimes he doesn't cum at all. I think it's because he's focused on satisfying me and doesn't really care whether he orgasms or not.
05/10/2013
Contributor: Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
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Originally posted by Istanbull
I can even ejaculate without the orgasm so I can keep going and think of it as sloppy seconds.
Except for the first time I had intercourse, I have always been somewhat slow at achieving orgasm, at least as compared to many young men, whom I am led to believe have problems with climaxing very quickly. Most times I can cum ok, lately it has been a problem though, in fact my wife and I had sex 3 days ago, she had several climaxes, I never did get off, and still haven't, even with trying to masturbate. Maybe age has something to do with it, I am past 60 years so I do not know.
06/20/2013