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Males: Can You Orgasm During Sex?

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Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by Kayla
I was a bit curious on this one. I saw a "Q&A" on another blog that said that the woman was having problems with her man not being able to orgasm during intercourse.

So I guess my question is: Males - Can you Orgasm During Sex? ... more
95% of the time I do so easily in less than 30 minutes. 5% of the time I cannot. That is usually due to exhaustion, stress, alcohol, etc.
06/17/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by Fun Lover
I have that same problem
Getting older is quite the adventure, isn't it.
06/24/2011
Contributor: Bonesdance Bonesdance
It depends somewhat on position, but it's usually never the least bit difficult for me to come during intercourse.
06/30/2011
Contributor: markwashere markwashere
It depends on the girls personality and how much has been built up before sex. I have trouble plenty of times and a few times i just could while other times i could be considered 5 second man. lol. Depends on the situation more than the physical stimulation...
01/13/2012
Contributor: dhig dhig
i used to have issues (mental, not physical) but my lady helped me through them. it's no problem now!
01/13/2012
Contributor: Cherrylane Cherrylane
For several months my ex couldnt cum at all during sex. Or otherwise with me.

Basically our first experience was pretty horrible and he had mad anxiety issues about it that prevented it, and every time it continued it made the anxiety worse. But it finally happened and once it had we never had another issue with it again.
01/13/2012
Contributor: Eliyahu Eliyahu
I have that problem. Medication that I take for spine/nerve related pain makes orgasm difficult to impossible most of the time, but I've found that if I don't take them within a certain amount of time before sex, I'm just fine and have no problems getting off.
01/13/2012
Contributor: EdenJP EdenJP
Quote:
Originally posted by Kayla
I was a bit curious on this one. I saw a "Q&A" on another blog that said that the woman was having problems with her man not being able to orgasm during intercourse.

So I guess my question is: Males - Can you Orgasm During Sex? ... more
Yep, no problem
01/13/2012
Contributor: switzerland switzerland
my man can finish, no prob. sometimes he can last, and sometimes he just explodes.

my ex on the other hand, could not finish at all. it took us awhile. it put a damper on it, that's for sure.
01/16/2012
Contributor: richsam richsam
Quote:
Originally posted by Kayla
I was a bit curious on this one. I saw a "Q&A" on another blog that said that the woman was having problems with her man not being able to orgasm during intercourse.

So I guess my question is: Males - Can you Orgasm During Sex? ... more
yes
03/10/2012
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
I orgasm during intercourse with no problem. Handjobs are second easiest, with blowjobs being third. My problem would come with the blowjob. Sometimes I cum easily, sometimes it's a struggle and other times my wife will give up and stroke me off with her hand.
01/15/2013
Contributor: leilani leilani
Quote:
Originally posted by Kayla
I was a bit curious on this one. I saw a "Q&A" on another blog that said that the woman was having problems with her man not being able to orgasm during intercourse.

So I guess my question is: Males - Can you Orgasm During Sex? ... more
my hubby says he only had problems in the past, mostly because he is not into the girl. he says sometimes i think it is difficult, but the things is i sometimes get him off and try for a round two lol... so im glad he has no problems with me... (there been times he was a 5 min man)
01/15/2013
Contributor: butts butts
My partner is very much in control of his orgasms, he usually can with no problems. Once in a while he'll take a long time, that's usually if we've just woken up or something. Or he can choose to take a long time
01/16/2013
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by Kayla
I was a bit curious on this one. I saw a "Q&A" on another blog that said that the woman was having problems with her man not being able to orgasm during intercourse.

So I guess my question is: Males - Can you Orgasm During Sex? ... more
never heard of a guy having trouble
01/22/2013
Contributor: Boyfriend Boyfriend
yes with no problems
01/22/2013
Contributor: tunacan75 tunacan75
99% of the time, yes!
01/22/2013
Contributor: Xerobound Xerobound
Quote:
Originally posted by Kayla
I was a bit curious on this one. I saw a "Q&A" on another blog that said that the woman was having problems with her man not being able to orgasm during intercourse.

So I guess my question is: Males - Can you Orgasm During Sex? ... more
I had a virgin who at first couldn't. He was so used to masturbating.
01/27/2013
Contributor: tortilla tortilla
hubby has no probs
02/06/2013
Contributor: ImaGodiva ImaGodiva
My husband never has any trouble, and he's one of those "make sure she comes first" guys.

I did have a casual sex partner years ago who had trouble sometimes, and once he faked an orgasm... as if I wouldn't know? Note: I asked my husband about this and he says it probably happens more than women think, however it's probably more that the man would just act like he's done than that he would actively fake a rollicking orgasm. He says he has done it several times, usually at the end of a relationship when the feelings aren't there anymore.

Very interesting topic! I've always heard of women faking orgasm but didn't realize it's something men do too.
02/06/2013
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
Quote:
Originally posted by Kayla
I was a bit curious on this one. I saw a "Q&A" on another blog that said that the woman was having problems with her man not being able to orgasm during intercourse.

So I guess my question is: Males - Can you Orgasm During Sex? ... more
Yes - with some difficulty
02/06/2013
Contributor: chicmichiw chicmichiw
My guy looked at me funny and said, 'uh easy'
02/06/2013
Contributor: ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
Mine has no problems
02/09/2013
Contributor: Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
He has no probs.
02/09/2013
Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
For my hubby it's too easy. He's very sensitive so it doesn't take much. He has to really work on holding back sometimes.
03/04/2013
Contributor: xmanx xmanx
Yes
03/09/2013
Contributor: MrWood MrWood
I take alot of medications for pain,bc of back problems, and they really affect my ability to orgasm sometimes. I don't have any problems getting an erection at all, but my sensitivity isn't what it used to be. Sometimes we can go at it hard for an hour and I still wont cum, and other times I have not problems at all. I can usually tell after we get started whether or not I will orgasm or not. I wish I could every time bc she loves it when I cum inside her and I need (love) the release. I make sure she knows that it has nothing to do with her, but my own issues.
03/13/2013
Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Kayla
I was a bit curious on this one. I saw a "Q&A" on another blog that said that the woman was having problems with her man not being able to orgasm during intercourse.

So I guess my question is: Males - Can you Orgasm During Sex? ... more
i voted for my husband,
03/13/2013
Contributor: Jaybird Jaybird
Quote:
Originally posted by The Awesome Penguin
The only time I've had trouble is when using a climax-control condom.
Same. Decided not to use those again. It was a very ...odd experience.
04/05/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
My partner never has a problem having an orgasm.
04/06/2013
Contributor: Bubba29 Bubba29
i orgasm TOO easily. wish i could last longer. my wife is that hot i guess.
04/11/2013