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Contributor: aBeastlyLittleThing aBeastlyLittleThing
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Originally posted by PonyPlay
I guess I was just wondering how open everyone is about anal sex. For example do you tell people you have anal sex or do you prefer to leave that detail out.
i am open about it with everyone for the most part...not with my family[mom/brother] but all my friends know, and i don't mind. they know i'm a lot freakier than that! lol!
03/11/2011
Contributor: Alyxx Alyxx
I'll tell anyone who asks as long as I'm comfortable with them knowing any other details of my sex life, mostly close friends. I'm not going to tell someone who will just give me shit for it every time they see me afterward.
03/12/2011
Contributor: ShadowKitten ShadowKitten
although I have yet to have actual intercourse of any kind, I openly discuss and talk about most sexual topics, from toys I use to what my kinks are to pretty much anyone that asks or is interested about them, although I use a bit of caution if I know there might be something someone may get irked about and keep that private.
03/12/2011
Contributor: PersonalAngel PersonalAngel
Im very private in real life about my sex life so I never talk about it.
03/16/2011
Contributor: tammyandy69 tammyandy69
I'm not one to openly talk about sexual topics with people other than my partner or possible play play partners. But if I was talking to an open minded person..like most of you here...I would have no problem talking about.
04/23/2011
Contributor: cujo467 cujo467
I dont mind talking about it but only if it comes up in a conversation or something.
04/23/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
I don't talk to friends or family about any of my sex life. It's just never something that has ever come up. If it did happen to come up in conversation I would probably be pretty open about it depending on who the person was.
04/24/2011
Contributor: Brianna91 Brianna91
With a few very close friends and one of my cousins I'm completely open about it. I don't talk about sex with anyone else really. Not that I care what someone thinks about what I like and where I like it, but I know what can happen to a girls feelings over stupid gossip that is spread by people who are either jealous or just hate people who do their own thing. Some girls truly hate other girls who like anal sex.
04/26/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
have a few friends that i am pretty open with , but no not something just bring up with anyone
04/27/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
I hint to friends but I won't come right out and say it unless asked out right. And I would never tell my family.
04/27/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Why do I need to tell people what kind of sex I'm having?
04/30/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by PonyPlay
I guess I was just wondering how open everyone is about anal sex. For example do you tell people you have anal sex or do you prefer to leave that detail out.
Really depends on who and where. Obviously completely open here. We have a group of three couples who is open to DISCUSS anything and sex is always a biggie. Yes, they all know what we ALL do...and it makes for great dinner and party talk. Beyond that, I work in an environment where folks talk about a lot of things...but that one is almost never mentioned. Of course, in this day and age, ANY "sex" talk in a work environment can get you fired, so be careful there.
06/03/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Alicia
It's not something that I can see coming up in conversation..
Depends who you are having conversation with. WE have an amazing group of friends and things like this DO "come up" (no...we don't swap, just talk). Last night at dinner, one asked.."have any of you ever actually used a zucchini as a dildo?" as we were having zucchini!!!!
06/03/2011
Contributor: ss143 ss143
Im pretty open about my sex life so I will and have talked about it but im not going to just tell/talk to everyone or a perfect stranger about it( except you guys lol)
06/03/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by PonyPlay
I guess I was just wondering how open everyone is about anal sex. For example do you tell people you have anal sex or do you prefer to leave that detail out.
Only speak of such things to a small group of close friends..and we share discussions about EVERYTHING. It's fun. A real life version of this great EF "family".
06/27/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
I don't think I would just bring this up, although if someone asked me I definitely wouldn't deny it.
06/27/2011
Contributor: MJ1337 MJ1337
I wouldn't deny it, but I wouldn't offer it up... and definitely wouldn't talk about this over dinner with the parents..
07/05/2011
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
Well, I'm not one to talk about myself without being asked, but if I were asked where such an answer was needed, I'd tell them.
07/05/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
Sometimes it randomly comes up, and I'll talk about it with close friends. Most of the time I don't mention it though.
07/05/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
My fiancee and I don't really talk to anyone about our sex life at all.
09/02/2011
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I told my step-mom. That's it.
But if someone asks, I'd probably tell them.
09/05/2011
Contributor: mcl272 mcl272
i'll gladly tell/talk about it with any of my friends/family that don't freak out or that bring it up! but, i'm not the one to just volunteer personal info for people to gossip about! i know everyone knows people like that!
09/06/2011
Contributor: SparklingReviews SparklingReviews
I really enjoy anal and would tell partners and potential lovers (before getting married) that I enjoyed it.
09/15/2011