depends on the person im talking to. some ppl arent open to sex conversations at all.
How open are you about anal?
10/02/2010
Depends who it is. But i am the first person to say "don't knock it til you try it' when someone says EWWWW!
10/04/2010
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I usually wont talk sex with anyone, usually..
Originally posted by
PonyPlay
I guess I was just wondering how open everyone is about anal sex. For example do you tell people you have anal sex or do you prefer to leave that detail out.
10/05/2010
As the poster above me says, It really depends on the person. If someone was like hey "You know anything about anal sex" (weird, but hey people are weird) I'd tell them what I know.
I may initiate that conversation with someone if I knew it would be insanely awkward to see them again. (Or if it's anonymous like here on eden or other websites. )
That said, me and my GF are open about it with each other.
I may initiate that conversation with someone if I knew it would be insanely awkward to see them again. (Or if it's anonymous like here on eden or other websites. )
That said, me and my GF are open about it with each other.
10/16/2010
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I'm a homosexual male so anal sex kinda comes with the territory.
Originally posted by
PonyPlay
I guess I was just wondering how open everyone is about anal sex. For example do you tell people you have anal sex or do you prefer to leave that detail out.
11/10/2010
I only tell my friends that are comfortable with it.
11/13/2010
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I don't think I would talk unless I was asked. Probably still be a bit reserved, at least at first, until I knew more about the other person.
Originally posted by
lamira
I only tell my friends that are comfortable with it.
11/15/2010
A lot of people don't enjoy it and I can't understand why. I assume that possibly they had a bad experience. My partner and I never get to do it anymore because he read about "the pink sock", ugh, the internet.
11/15/2010
It's not a topic that would naturally come up in my circle but stranger things have been discussed so...if I'm asked I'd be honest.
11/15/2010
I'll tell if someone asks, but otherwise I don't just bring it up. Not everyone is okay with it, for some reason. :/
11/15/2010
Generally on a need to know basis- like if I were having a conversation with someone about anal sex and I knew they were not going to be super judgmental (like you guys )
11/23/2010
I am open about...the fact that I absolutely refuse to have it. I am not a prude, I just find it incredibly unpleasant.
11/30/2010
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Guess, I really don't care if people think it gross or whatever, I'll tell whoever, it feels good I'm not bothered by it. I wouldn't exactly just tell someone waiting in line at a grocery store... well unless they were looking at my K.Y. and produce funny! HA!
Originally posted by
PonyPlay
I guess I was just wondering how open everyone is about anal sex. For example do you tell people you have anal sex or do you prefer to leave that detail out.
12/01/2010
I've only told certain people, usually the ones I've slept with.
12/15/2010
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will only tell people that I know aren't going to get weird about it, friends/family.
Originally posted by
PonyPlay
I guess I was just wondering how open everyone is about anal sex. For example do you tell people you have anal sex or do you prefer to leave that detail out.
01/15/2011
I only talk about anal with my partners.
First of all, I would never talk about sex with my family; that's too awkward.
Secondly, majority of friends and family would only tease me (relentlessly) or lecture about safe sex.
Sometimes I wish I could talk about anal with friends, but somethings are best kept in the dark, at least for now.
By the way, the teasing wouldn't necessarily offend me all the time, but it would just get tiresome and annoying. Kind of like how I have heard hundreds and hundreds of jokes about my Asian background. It gets old. Fast.
First of all, I would never talk about sex with my family; that's too awkward.
Secondly, majority of friends and family would only tease me (relentlessly) or lecture about safe sex.
Sometimes I wish I could talk about anal with friends, but somethings are best kept in the dark, at least for now.
By the way, the teasing wouldn't necessarily offend me all the time, but it would just get tiresome and annoying. Kind of like how I have heard hundreds and hundreds of jokes about my Asian background. It gets old. Fast.
01/18/2011
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It depends on the people. I have one group of friends that basicaly know almost every detail of my sex life and then I have other groups that know next to nothing about it. If someone flat out asks me I wont lie about it but unless I am comfortable with the person I won't offer up the information freely.
Originally posted by
PonyPlay
I guess I was just wondering how open everyone is about anal sex. For example do you tell people you have anal sex or do you prefer to leave that detail out.
01/29/2011
Yea... if it legitimately comes up in conversation, that's fine. Really I do this ultra polite Canadian thing and say, "Well... some people are into it and that's really great. I think you should enjoy whatever you want to in this life." But I have this mischievous glint in my eye so they probably know what I'm talking about.
02/06/2011
That's what I say to acquaintances anyway. Basically whoever I'm straight up with about my intimate life (only a few very close friends & partner) get the real deal.
02/06/2011
Also quasi-anonymous people on the internet, apparently.
02/06/2011
I don't ever bring it up in conversation with people because it's never a relevant topic. However if someone were to ask, I wouldn't lie about it, since I do enjoy it!
02/06/2011
I don't know anyone I'd feel comfortable sharing that much detail with
02/07/2011
I'll talk with someone about it as long as I see them as a fairly open minded person. Also, if I was asked, I'd probably admit it.
02/08/2011
If I was asked directly, sure. I'll only volunteer it if I'm talking to close friends about sex.
02/14/2011
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It really hasn't come up in conversation, but I wouldn't shy away from telling my close girlfriends
Originally posted by
PonyPlay
I guess I was just wondering how open everyone is about anal sex. For example do you tell people you have anal sex or do you prefer to leave that detail out.
02/18/2011
I've had to explain *why* people have anal sex to a few family members. Good times. My friends come to me for advice. I'm pretty open about what I do.
02/18/2011
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Not even my wife knows. I wish I could be open with her about it but she's so anti-anal herself she wouldn't be supportive.
Originally posted by
PonyPlay
I guess I was just wondering how open everyone is about anal sex. For example do you tell people you have anal sex or do you prefer to leave that detail out.
02/28/2011
It feels good and my girl is starting to like it, its weird for some people but alot more people are comfortable with it now a days so thats making it better
03/01/2011
I'm not always sure how to have a conversation about anal with a partner if I'm not sure he is into it
03/11/2011
I will tell anyone that I am really close to and trust that asks but I am not going to just randomly tell someone.
03/11/2011