I have to have bm before. I have to feel clean and "empty" down there >_> clitoral stimulation helps too.
How do you prepare for anal sex?
04/21/2011
Love anal! Clean in shower
04/21/2011
I am a gay guy and I am OCD about cleanliness... I have to have had a bowel movement, then light enema, then still a shower and or quick baby wipe clean up... and I expect the same from a partner...
06/28/2011
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We don't do any real prep beyond making sure we are very "clean" and fresh from the shower. Of course, making sure your bowel is empty (recent bowel movement) will make sure that rectum is empty and never had a problem with "residual" anything coming out...in decades of doing anal. We love it...just lube, lube and then add more lube. Then, of course, add extra lube and then some more.
Originally posted by
Liz2
For most of us, anal sex is not usually a spontaneous decision. To be pleasurable some thought and planning is entailed beyond lots of lube. Though I love anal intercourse, I am not always "just ready" for the experience.
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06/28/2011
If I suspect our activities later that day might include pegging, I will make sure to use a bulb enema once or twice a few hours before, followed by a good shower. Have to feel clean to really enjoy it. Of course going slow when we first start is essential.
06/28/2011
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I agree to this! us too
Originally posted by
Alicia
I chose a lot of things..we joke that all the stars need to align justttt right for it to happen for us.
06/29/2011
I'm a female and I haven't had anal in several years, but I would just take a nice hot shower and scrub with soap. I also liked to "go" at least a few hours before. Never had any problems with leakage or diarrhea afterwards.
side note: why are enemas bad?
side note: why are enemas bad?
07/12/2011
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There are some things that are known about enemas and some that are not known.
Originally posted by
bayosgirl
I'm a female and I haven't had anal in several years, but I would just take a nice hot shower and scrub with soap. I also liked to "go" at least a few hours before. Never had any problems with leakage or diarrhea
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I'm a female and I haven't had anal in several years, but I would just take a nice hot shower and scrub with soap. I also liked to "go" at least a few hours before. Never had any problems with leakage or diarrhea afterwards.
side note: why are enemas bad? less
side note: why are enemas bad? less
We know that putting chemicals in your colon can cause damage to it, and there are even some cases of people being put in the hospital because of a soap enema damaging their colon or the hyperosmotic "Fleet-type" enemas causing electrolyte imbalance. It's also known that if you absorb too much water you can have electrolyte imbalances the other way, but you'd have to take a pretty big enema for that. Plain water has also been shown in one study to cause observable changes to the colonic mucosa, but it isn't known what that means/what effects that has yet.
If you do enemas it's best to keep them as small as possible and consider using a saline solution. Routinely taking larger enemas can potentially mess up the body's "trigger".
In general there don't seem to be many large-scale studies about enemas, so the general attitude is "be careful just in case". Not that I really blame them for the lack of studies - it isn't the sort of field that gives you respect as a researcher, and finding subjects will be hard. "We're doing a study. We want to give you lots of enemas and then do a bunch of uncomfortable and embarrassing tests to see if they have any bad effects" isn't going to have me lining up.
That said, I usually take one before buttplay because I'm much more comfortable when I know I'm clean, and I know that I'm not always naturally clean there. I try to be safe and sane about it and haven't had any problems.
07/12/2011
bm and a shower before anything like that.
07/13/2011
Generally we try to get her to relax, and perhaps start with some kind of toy first.
09/04/2011
I make sure I use the restroom and clean up in the shower.
09/04/2011
I'd want to do...all of the above..or something...but I just don't do anal
09/05/2011
Usually for us, anal is a last minute decision.
09/05/2011
Scrub-a-dub in the shower before anal
01/05/2012
We've just started experimenting with anal play, so we're still trying things
01/09/2012
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Same here
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Midway through
I think that a combination of the above is more appropriate for me. I don't do any one in particular.
01/09/2012
My old boyfriend and I hardly ever had to prepare, I was always just ready for it. But I'm just not interested in anal play with my new boyfriend.
01/09/2012
Foreplay...lots and lots of foreplay!!! Anyone ever tried anal-ese or any other to relax the anus?
07/12/2012
I tend to clean myself and shower before having sex of any kind. I'm a freak about being clean. I've even made guys go wash their junk beforehand as well. Nothing worse then going down on someone that tastes sweaty/dirty/gross. As for anal I just shower and lube up. Obviously if I've ate an outrageous amount that day or certain foods I pass on it altogether, but otherwise a shower and lube is good.
07/12/2012
oops double post
07/12/2012
Also, watch your diet for that day. No heavy meals, no nuts or corn or other foods that never digest. Best, keep it liquid. Soup and beer.
07/12/2012
We are both typically "fresh and clean" so anal sex isn't anything that we really go out of our way to prepare for.
07/12/2012
I usually have to have had a BM but sometimes I just don't feel like it.
07/12/2012
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I try to only do it if I had BM recently.
Originally posted by
Liz2
For most of us, anal sex is not usually a spontaneous decision. To be pleasurable some thought and planning is entailed beyond lots of lube. Though I love anal intercourse, I am not always "just ready" for the experience.
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For most of us, anal sex is not usually a spontaneous decision. To be pleasurable some thought and planning is entailed beyond lots of lube. Though I love anal intercourse, I am not always "just ready" for the experience.
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07/12/2012
A diet high in fiber and good foods is big. I think just having a happy colon is biggest for me. If I have a crappy week and dont eat well then anal is out of the question because it just does feel good or right. Short of that a quick shower beforehand is always a good idea
07/12/2012
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I don't do anything lol
Originally posted by
Liz2
For most of us, anal sex is not usually a spontaneous decision. To be pleasurable some thought and planning is entailed beyond lots of lube. Though I love anal intercourse, I am not always "just ready" for the experience.
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For most of us, anal sex is not usually a spontaneous decision. To be pleasurable some thought and planning is entailed beyond lots of lube. Though I love anal intercourse, I am not always "just ready" for the experience.
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11/05/2012
Yes
11/05/2012
haven't ventured that way yet
11/05/2012
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don't put thought into it i just make sure i am clean
Originally posted by
Liz2
For most of us, anal sex is not usually a spontaneous decision. To be pleasurable some thought and planning is entailed beyond lots of lube. Though I love anal intercourse, I am not always "just ready" for the experience.
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For most of us, anal sex is not usually a spontaneous decision. To be pleasurable some thought and planning is entailed beyond lots of lube. Though I love anal intercourse, I am not always "just ready" for the experience.
Comments are of course welcome! less
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12/06/2012
I just use a "body wipe" and make sure everything is nice 'n' clean!
I was wondering about using condoms for it, myself...I know he's not that into using them, since I am on the pill...I guess as long as you "clean up" afterwards, you might be alright.
I have THOUGHT about using some-sort of "light" enema, just something with a little bottle or whatever you use.
What about that?
Any good results?
I was wondering about using condoms for it, myself...I know he's not that into using them, since I am on the pill...I guess as long as you "clean up" afterwards, you might be alright.
I have THOUGHT about using some-sort of "light" enema, just something with a little bottle or whatever you use.
What about that?
Any good results?
01/20/2013