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What would you do if your honey cheated on you in your dreams?

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Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
Quote:
Originally posted by The Bloggess
Make me feel better about myself.
lmao honestly? If I have one of those dreams (and it happens often), I usually wake up and slug him or get an attitude for about a good hour or so. he has NO clue why, but he just made my shit list and he knows it. Its kind of funny after he finds out why though. I get this look like "Seriously, you're a crazy ol' bat!" and we laugh it off lol.
02/16/2012
Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
Quote:
Originally posted by Nashville
Withholding sex 101- I wrote the book on irrational reasons to not have sex with your spouse.

A dream involving a cheating spouse is prompt enough to abide by the rule to not sleep with them in order to punish them for their lewd behavior. ... more
lmao Love it!
02/16/2012
Contributor: Squeaky Squeaky
I've had this dream before too! I am glad to see I am not the only one. It made me feel like crap the whole day. I wasn't mad at him, though. I told him about it and that made it seem better, sort of. Hope you get over it!
02/16/2012
Contributor: samanthalynn samanthalynn
Quote:
Originally posted by The Bloggess
Make me feel better about myself.
Realize I'm being completely irrationa
03/05/2012
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
My husband wouldn't talk to me for a weekend after having a dream that I was having men over to gang bang me while he was at work.
03/05/2012
Contributor: MrGoodTool MrGoodTool
I just let it go.
03/10/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I hate dreams like this.
03/10/2012
Contributor: CindyH CindyH
tell him thew next day andlet him know what to expect if he cheates
03/10/2012
Contributor: Caus Caus
I would do nothing because it's a dream. I've read about sex in dreams symbolizing all kinds of things so it could just be that. You might also be working through some insecurities or fears in your dreams. Who knows? The best thing to do is be direct with your partner if you suspect something. There's no need to resent someone when it's about something they didn't do.
03/10/2012
Contributor: dbm6907 dbm6907
I tell my partner but it's just a dream so I really don't act upon it
03/10/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by The Bloggess
Make me feel better about myself.
I don't ever understand these polls.
03/11/2012
Contributor: SimpleTeaser SimpleTeaser
Been there, my husband doesn't like when I discuss my dreams anymore. I don't get mad at him but, I'm a little distant. Don't understand why, though.
03/12/2012
Contributor: SexyRayne SexyRayne
In my dreams nothing, but in real life DIVORCE!!!
03/12/2012
Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
Quote:
Originally posted by The Bloggess
Make me feel better about myself.
It definitely depends on my moods when I wake up. Sometimes I'll laugh it off. Sometimes I'll tell him about it. Other times, if its a really bad one....I'll be distant and self conscious through out the day and when he finally says "Ok enough is enough, whats going on with you?" Ill tell him. He's pretty good about it though. He knows that my ex husband cheated on me, so he knows it is one of my "triggers".
03/15/2012
Contributor: Lilith Bealove Lilith Bealove
Um, it's a dream. I'd get over it.
05/24/2012
Contributor: Khanner Khanner
It's just a dream, I don't understand why anyone gets mad at people for stuff they dream about. I've had them before but it's more common for me to have dreams about random sex with other people. Those just make me feel guilty, but, again, it's just a dream.
05/30/2012
Contributor: chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
Quote:
Originally posted by The Bloggess
Make me feel better about myself.
it's just a dream lol
06/01/2012
Contributor: jryder3891 jryder3891
Quote:
Originally posted by Pumpkin Lady
I dream he cheats on me about every 6 weeks. I always tell him afterward, accusingly. He then assures me it's not happening, which I knew deep down in the first place. We then will have a nice little make-out or even a morning "do", so ... more
I have that happen. It makes me worry
06/23/2012
Contributor: jryder3891 jryder3891
Quote:
Originally posted by deleted account
Unfortunately, I did have that dream several months ago and found out it was true..My wife had cheated on me several times..
OMG im so sorry
06/23/2012
Contributor: jryder3891 jryder3891
I have the dream sometimes. I tear up thinking it might be true
06/23/2012
Contributor: Teaser Teaser
I can't believe I actually voted in this!

My answer is, if she cheated in my dreams, I hope she had a great big O! And then I'd wake up and get some coffee!
06/25/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by The Bloggess
Make me feel better about myself.
Haha nice options.
09/15/2012
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
Quote:
Originally posted by Nashville
He's done it. According to him Blanche is a "saucy little minx".
09/30/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
It's only a dream but if it became reality then there would be a serious problem.
09/30/2012
Contributor: Artishok Artishok
Realize I'm being completely irrational and laugh about it over morning sex while unicorns wander around
10/05/2012
Contributor: cricket cricket
Murder them but just in my reams?
10/21/2012
Contributor: sexykiss sexykiss
sometimes i have them about my ex
11/01/2012
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
I wouldn't do anything to him because he cant really help what he dreams of.
11/01/2012
Contributor: LunaLuthor LunaLuthor
Quote:
Originally posted by The Bloggess
Make me feel better about myself.
I dream about this often, the reason is why? do you feel secure in the relationship? does he seem distant?
11/02/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by Nashville
Withholding sex 101- I wrote the book on irrational reasons to not have sex with your spouse.

A dream involving a cheating spouse is prompt enough to abide by the rule to not sleep with them in order to punish them for their lewd behavior. ... more
HAHA! LOVE THIS!
11/04/2012