#TheMood - Brighten Her Mood!

Contributor: Ansley Ansley


We all have bad days. Sometimes, those bad days are worse than others and can change the course of our lives forever. If you've got blood running through your veins there's a really good chance that you're going to have at least one day that doesn't work out the way you wanted. It could be something as simple as a friend canceling plans, finding out you can't afford the event tickets you'd longed for because of a surprise bill, or any number of things really.

Of course, it's no surprise that sometimes what seems like a trivial thing can spiral into an outright "screw the world, I'm taking my ball and going home" kind of day.

When these days happen, how do you like to be cheered up? Is there something special your partner does to lift your spirits? Would you rather they just leave you alone entirely?

Do you have any special tricks to go from mom-mode to sexy-mode? Does knowing you have a stash of toys for some stress relief help alleviate the annoyances of the day?

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Contributor: Ansley Ansley
It's really all the little things or he'll crack jokes to make me smile. It's so very rare that he can't pull me out of a bad mood. A good cuddle always helps, too. And of course, getting to choose a dinner that we may not have often puts me in a good mood, too.

For his bad moods? He tells me I just need to smile and be in the same room...what a vast difference between the two of us, eh?
05/14/2012
Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
A guaranteed mood lifter for me is...

Fix dinner or bring home carry out, then leave me alone until I've had time to have a long, hot bath.

Usually if I'm in a bad mood it's stress related so a few stress free hours is about all it takes to cheer me up.
05/14/2012
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
It lifts my mood if he does the weekly grocery shopping
05/14/2012
Contributor: NorthBayLady NorthBayLady
I like to be cheered up when I talk to my friends. If they are having a bad day they chat with me, which makes them feel better and I feel great myself for helping them
05/16/2012
Contributor: llellsee llellsee
Being brought home my favourite fast food or a mocha frappe and then given some space to watch a programme or read a book afterwards
05/16/2012
Contributor: quinceykay quinceykay
Well I don't see my boyfriend a lot, so it always immediately makes me happy when I see him. Also, ice cream and Starbucks drinks help!
05/16/2012
Contributor: ohdearashbee ohdearashbee
He's got a better chance of staying in a good mood himself if he just leaves me be if I'm in a bad mood, or coffee. coffee is always good.
05/16/2012
Contributor: Emerlyn Emerlyn
Chocolate cheers me up quite a bit. Also Mtn. Dew.... And seeing my best friend
05/16/2012
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
My boyfriend always makes up silly songs for me, they always help my mood!
05/16/2012
Contributor: Lilith Bealove Lilith Bealove
My sweety does little things to cheer me up when I've had a bad day. The best things he does is surprise me with food, or take the kiddo so I can go for a walk, or read a book.

To go from mommy to sexy I like to put on lingerie and have my honey give me a massage till we're both hot and ready. Of course mommy duties come first and before slipping into that sexy nightie I first have to put our child to bed, or find a reliable babysitter.

Having a stash of toys doesn't help my mood much right now. My Mimi recently died on me, and I am in the process of returning and getting a new one through Je Jeou, this actually adds more stress and makes me upset because I really love my Mimi.
05/16/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
ah all he has to do is be a fool and im laughing harder then what anyone else ever heard me laugh. it helps me when im in a bad mood anyways, for him? does he even have bad moods? never shows it!
05/16/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
Me and the other half just joke and play around,snuggles,shoppi ng and chocolate make a bad a little better
05/16/2012
Contributor: loves6cats loves6cats
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Originally posted by Ansley
We all have bad days. Sometimes, those bad days are worse than others and can change the course of our lives forever. If you've got blood running through your veins there's a really good chance that you're going to have at least one day ... more
My fiance can always cheer me up when he calls me, "Sexy, Gorgeous Mumma."
05/16/2012
Contributor: loves6cats loves6cats
My fiance can always cheer me up when he calls me, "Sexy, Gorgeous Mumma."
05/16/2012
Contributor: Michael Brooks Michael Brooks
try to make others smile..





Deadpro
05/16/2012
Contributor: VelvetDragon VelvetDragon
My pets! Cuddling a cat always cheers me up. My parrot is hilarious, and can always make me laugh. And going for a horseback ride or even just grooming my horse makes my day better.
05/16/2012
Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
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Originally posted by Ansley
We all have bad days. Sometimes, those bad days are worse than others and can change the course of our lives forever. If you've got blood running through your veins there's a really good chance that you're going to have at least one day ... more
Well, since I'm not a mother, I have no tricks for going between modes. However, when I'm down, I love to be cheered up in small ways. My girlfriend saying silly things to me, her kissing me, and even though it annoys me, I like it when she tickles me when I'm down. It never fails to make me laugh, even if I do try to push her away in irritation.

My girlfriend just has this way about calming me down. I can be angry, having a panic attack, sobbing, and she can come up to me with a soothing voice and touch and suddenly everything is perfectly okay again.
05/16/2012
Contributor: phroggie phroggie
I keep an emergency stash of Reese's Peanut Butter cups around. Whenever my partner is having one of those days, I present them to her, and everything is instantly better.
05/16/2012
Contributor: Sexy & I Know It Sexy & I Know It
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Originally posted by Ansley
We all have bad days. Sometimes, those bad days are worse than others and can change the course of our lives forever. If you've got blood running through your veins there's a really good chance that you're going to have at least one day ... more
my hubby brightens my day when he cooks and tells me he'll take care of everything. And im lucky enough he does this at least once a week.
05/16/2012
Contributor: Rhonda Miotke Rhonda Miotke
I nice smile and a great laugh makes me feel wonderful.
05/16/2012
Contributor: mama2007 mama2007
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
We all have bad days. Sometimes, those bad days are worse than others and can change the course of our lives forever. If you've got blood running through your veins there's a really good chance that you're going to have at least one day ... more
My hubby always brightens my mood just by smiling or keeping the kids with him so i can cook or something.
05/16/2012
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
Hugs from my babies cheer me up better than anything else!
05/16/2012
Contributor: Carol Morgan Carol Morgan
Reeses or chocolate ice cream are really about the only things that can make me happy.
05/16/2012
Contributor: Nicci Tapp Nicci Tapp
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
We all have bad days. Sometimes, those bad days are worse than others and can change the course of our lives forever. If you've got blood running through your veins there's a really good chance that you're going to have at least one day ... more
My other half & I usually just play around or do silly things.
05/16/2012
Contributor: Trinity Morgaine Ironhawk Trinity Morgaine Ironhawk
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
We all have bad days. Sometimes, those bad days are worse than others and can change the course of our lives forever. If you've got blood running through your veins there's a really good chance that you're going to have at least one day ... more
If I'm having a bad day, it's awesome if my husband takes care of dinner for the family, or even offers to take the kids somewhere so I can get some quiet time at home.
05/16/2012
Contributor: BeepBop BeepBop
I like it when a friend randomly calls me up, or I go driving and I find somewhere amazing that I never knew I'd never been before.
05/16/2012
Contributor: BecomingX BecomingX
It turns me on & brightens my mood when Hubby does housework or yardwork. He looks so sexy getting all sweaty.
05/16/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
I like to make a great dinner together and enjoy an evening with just the two of us. That always cheers me up!!
05/16/2012
Contributor: moosee27 moosee27
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
We all have bad days. Sometimes, those bad days are worse than others and can change the course of our lives forever. If you've got blood running through your veins there's a really good chance that you're going to have at least one day ... more
My mood brightens with gifts such as chocolates or anything nice.
05/16/2012