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Contributor: ValerieRayne ValerieRayne
Generally, when I'm just down and out and in a funk, nothing but a good night's sleep will pull me out of it. The Boyfriend tries to be comforting and gentle and cuddly, but I'm normally not very responsive to these things.

What switches me from mommy-mode to sexy-mode? Absolutely nothing. When I'm in a sexy mood, I feel like a sexy mommy and there's no switch that I need to turn on or off.
05/16/2012
Contributor: Jo lala Jo lala
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Originally posted by Ansley
We all have bad days. Sometimes, those bad days are worse than others and can change the course of our lives forever. If you've got blood running through your veins there's a really good chance that you're going to have at least one day ... more
Pleasure cheers me up!
05/16/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
When I'm down or just feeling icky, the only things that will help me out is either a good cup of coffee, a hug from my guy, or a lap full of purring fuzzy goodness.
05/16/2012
Contributor: Brittanyb Brittanyb
A bottle of wine and a nice dinner fixed for me would cheer me right up!
05/16/2012
Contributor: krazed79 krazed79
I like to be cheered up with a massage!!! And he's good at it! ;-)
05/16/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
When he keeps the children entertained for an extra hour so I can sleep in. Take out night or he is cooking. It's wonderful when he washes the dishes, laundry, and the floors. I have a wonderful hubby!
05/16/2012
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
Sitting down with one or two of my DVR'd shows. Just being able to zone out and enjoy what I like.
05/16/2012
Contributor: Maxadventure Maxadventure
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Originally posted by Ansley
We all have bad days. Sometimes, those bad days are worse than others and can change the course of our lives forever. If you've got blood running through your veins there's a really good chance that you're going to have at least one day ... more
It's all about the cuddle...
05/16/2012
Contributor: jennifur77 jennifur77
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Originally posted by Ansley
We all have bad days. Sometimes, those bad days are worse than others and can change the course of our lives forever. If you've got blood running through your veins there's a really good chance that you're going to have at least one day ... more
I like to be cheered up by having something sweet (and sincere) said to me. Also, ice cream doesn't hurt, especially if it's presented with some cuddling.
05/16/2012
Contributor: roskat roskat
Good food and the day off all to myself.
05/16/2012
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Seems like we all have similar ideas of what brightens our moods.

What's a sure-fire way for your partner to put you in a bad mood?
05/16/2012
Contributor: Alacransita84 Alacransita84
It cheers me up when my Fiance' just offers to take me somewhere, anywhere. It could be to go out and eat or even to the park. I live in a rural area quite a ways from my family and friends and he works 13 hours a day, so I can get pretty lonely at the house all by myself. He works 10 hours a day on his job, but makes extra money by working a few extra hours after w/ his friend after he gets off, so of course it also cheers me up when he will take the day off from helping his friend to spend a little time with me watching movies, etc... which does not happen often, but when it does I am super excited for the extra time with him, as all he usually does is work, come home, shower, eat dinner and off to bed to rest up for another long day of work.
05/16/2012
Contributor: ADrew ADrew
Honestly I like when she notices I am in a not: so good mood and is willing to just cuddle and share her warmth with me.
05/16/2012
Contributor: sammyjojo sammyjojo
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Originally posted by Ansley
We all have bad days. Sometimes, those bad days are worse than others and can change the course of our lives forever. If you've got blood running through your veins there's a really good chance that you're going to have at least one day ... more
Sometimes I just want to be left alone, but my husband never gives up until he gets me to smile. He explained to me once after he'd cheered me up that I could say anything mean to him or try to get him to go away and he wouldn't care. He wouldn't stop until he saw me smile. He's a good man and I am so thankful for his goofy spirit and his huge heart.
05/16/2012
Contributor: Light345 Light345
Just being able to cuddle with my girlfriend is always a great way to end a stressful day.
05/16/2012
Contributor: Ferfer Ferfer
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
We all have bad days. Sometimes, those bad days are worse than others and can change the course of our lives forever. If you've got blood running through your veins there's a really good chance that you're going to have at least one day ... more
Surprises cheer me up, but those don't happen often. He takes care of me when I need to be cheered up and it always works
05/16/2012
Contributor: BloodyKiss BloodyKiss
A nice dinner and cuddle to watch movies
05/16/2012
Contributor: HusbandandWife HusbandandWife
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
We all have bad days. Sometimes, those bad days are worse than others and can change the course of our lives forever. If you've got blood running through your veins there's a really good chance that you're going to have at least one day ... more
If I am in a bad mood just leave me alone for a little while and it will pass. Or twist up a fatty and go outside to enjoy on the swing.
05/16/2012
Contributor: ashleyxxxgore ashleyxxxgore
I love to cuddle up on the couch with my man and catch up on our favourite shows together
05/16/2012
Contributor: Da1NOnlyStar Da1NOnlyStar
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
We all have bad days. Sometimes, those bad days are worse than others and can change the course of our lives forever. If you've got blood running through your veins there's a really good chance that you're going to have at least one day ... more
My husband knows how 2 say all the right things and touch all the right places 2 make my day better
05/16/2012
Contributor: Hik'edi Hik'edi
Talking to my friends and seeing them smile is always a mood-lifter.
05/16/2012
Contributor: GONE! GONE!
Food. If someone makes me food I cheer up pretty much instantly.
05/16/2012
Contributor: Serafina Longarina Serafina Longarina
Cuddles. Lots and lots of cuddles.
05/16/2012
Contributor: nrobak nrobak
I like flowers and champagne
05/16/2012
Contributor: mistresserris mistresserris
Chocolate
05/16/2012
Contributor: LuciFaery LuciFaery
Depending on why I'm in a bad mood, I either want to be left alone or be smothered with attention from my friends. Coffee also cheers me up. I <3 coffee.
05/16/2012
Contributor: Nicole NC Colyer Nicole NC Colyer
Chocolate
05/16/2012
Contributor: Sally Forth Sally Forth
A heartfelt compliment can help me cheer up. A bottle of wine and a nice backrub never hurts either! Oh, and flowers. I've never actually had someone send me flowers, but I bet that'd do the trick. Anyone wanting to send me some, let me know.
05/16/2012
Contributor: Cassienova Cassienova
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
We all have bad days. Sometimes, those bad days are worse than others and can change the course of our lives forever. If you've got blood running through your veins there's a really good chance that you're going to have at least one day ... more
A good cuddle and a head rub always cheers me up. And my stash of toys doesn't hurt either.
05/16/2012
Contributor: Iceness Iceness
Snuggles, chocolate, comfort food, and just relaxing. It's nice to just sit back and have time to myself.
05/16/2012