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Porn Club discussion - Wednesday, November 2nd @8pm : 1yr Anniversary - It's all about YOU and PORN - PORN and YOU!

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Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by Jobthingy
Oh yeah. I hate when you get into a good gangbang scene and they only focus on one or 2 people. drives me nuts.
Agreed!
11/02/2011
Contributor: Rarity Rarity
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Originally posted by arewehavingfun?
When I see porn stars interviewed on "Real Sex", "Cathouse" and even "60 Minutes" I doubt that any of them enjoy on camera sex. The men all complained about having to spend all their time getting and keeping a hard on ... more
I had no idea that women were getting paid less. Wow!
11/02/2011
Contributor: arewehavingfun? arewehavingfun?
I also read (maybe I should stop reading?) that men's sexuality is more rigid, meaning straight guys get turned on by watching straight (meaning a guy and a woman) sex and women are turned on by watching a whole variety of sexual encounters (lesbian, gay men/women...whatever). I confess, I love watching 2 men have sex. I would love to watch my husband have sex with a guy but he says NO WAY. He was molested as a young pre-teen and teen and is sensative about stuff like that--that and back door stuff on him, not me, but I don't want any back door on me so he's out of luck.
11/02/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Tuesday
Guys stroking... mmmmm....
see that for me just totally weirds me out...

honestly i think it's sexual trauma in my past.

so. my opinion is slanted.
11/02/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
see that for me just totally weirds me out...

honestly i think it's sexual trauma in my past.

so. my opinion is slanted.
I don't mind watching my fiance stroke, but porn guys stroking, seems like they do it just to stay hard.
11/02/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
One thing that pisses me off is to find women masturbating -oh, everywhere. To find the men masturbating I need to go to a gay site (nothing wrong with this, except I am a straight woman and not my preference), and find it. Now if a guy strokes off, what makes it considered gay where lesbian porn or women masturbating is considered straight? Shouldn't they both be in both areas?
11/02/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
Ok, so having touched on what we all LOVE to see, I think it's time to turn it around and talk about what we all HATE to see in porn. What KIND of porn we hate, and what we consider just plain wrong
11/02/2011
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
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Originally posted by js250
One thing that pisses me off is to find women masturbating -oh, everywhere. To find the men masturbating I need to go to a gay site (nothing wrong with this, except I am a straight woman and not my preference), and find it. Now if a guy strokes off, ... more
forhertube.com has a whole section on men jerking off. It's awesome.
11/02/2011
Contributor: FaerieLove FaerieLove
I hate fake orgasms and horrible acting as well as bad scripts.
11/02/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
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Originally posted by Diabolical Kitty
I don't mind watching my fiance stroke, but porn guys stroking, seems like they do it just to stay hard.
I love amateur site where it is uploaded by non paid people. That is some hot stuff! Especially in the shower with the shampoo...well, stopping now before I get carried away.
11/02/2011
Contributor: arewehavingfun? arewehavingfun?
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Originally posted by Tuesday
Guys stroking... mmmmm....
I'm there already--I also love watching guys masturbate and cum in films.
11/02/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
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Originally posted by Tuesday
forhertube.com has a whole section on men jerking off. It's awesome.
THANKS!!
11/02/2011
Contributor: tim1724 tim1724
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
Ok, so having touched on what we all LOVE to see, I think it's time to turn it around and talk about what we all HATE to see in porn. What KIND of porn we hate, and what we consider just plain wrong
Ass-to-mouth.

Degradation and abuse.

Spitting.

Really bad dialog/acting.

Performers who make annoying sounds or repeatedly shout the same thing over and over and over constantly.
11/02/2011
Contributor: arewehavingfun? arewehavingfun?
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Originally posted by Tuesday
forhertube.com has a whole section on men jerking off. It's awesome.
Thanks for the site suggestion.
11/02/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
Ok, so having touched on what we all LOVE to see, I think it's time to turn it around and talk about what we all HATE to see in porn. What KIND of porn we hate, and what we consider just plain wrong
I hate camera guys getting in on the scene or touching the actors/actresses. I want the scenes to flow, not be part of some kinky guy's dream.

I am not huge onto bestiality. Now link Bad Dragon has a few toys I wouldn't mind getting though. Just not real animal sex.

I find ass to mouth repulsive.
11/02/2011
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
Ok, so having touched on what we all LOVE to see, I think it's time to turn it around and talk about what we all HATE to see in porn. What KIND of porn we hate, and what we consider just plain wrong
The spitting! Jesus I hate the spitting. Grab a pump top bottle of lube and keep it handy.
11/02/2011
Contributor: FaerieLove FaerieLove
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Originally posted by tim1724
Ass-to-mouth.

Degradation and abuse.

Spitting.

Really bad dialog/acting.

Performers who make annoying sounds or repeatedly shout the same thing over and over and over constantly.
Annoying sounds! Biggest pet peeve!
11/02/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by tim1724
Ass-to-mouth.

Degradation and abuse.

Spitting.

Really bad dialog/acting.

Performers who make annoying sounds or repeatedly shout the same thing over and over and over constantly.
Hey.... you stole my list!
11/02/2011
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
Ok, so having touched on what we all LOVE to see, I think it's time to turn it around and talk about what we all HATE to see in porn. What KIND of porn we hate, and what we consider just plain wrong
I hate spitting. An occasional spit is okay, but I really dislike the constant spitting in some porn. I'm also not a fan of gonzo porn, just not my thing.
11/02/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
I hate when you can tell the actor actress is just their to get paid. The cum shot happens and they flinch or are not enjoying it. I hate spitting, ATM, over scripted porn and some of the noise, put a sock in it! If I was that loud the whole hour or so, my husband would be suggling the aspirin bottle, not me!!
11/02/2011
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
What I hate in porn:

-fake breasts
-women who wail in ecstasy at every action of their partner
-spitting, esp. spitting into someone's mouth
-impossible positions
-lack of lead-up to the sex
-tongue flicking during oral
11/02/2011
Contributor: tim1724 tim1724
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
Hey.... you stole my list!
Oh, don't worry, I'm happy to share. I'd love to see more people complain about these same things, so that maybe we can get some of them changed.
11/02/2011
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
oh, also, those girls with high pitched, nasally voices
11/02/2011
Contributor: Midway through Midway through
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
Well I say, let your Mom be horribly naive about porn if she wants to be. She may frown on it, but you know what she's missing and what the reality of the situation is. You have conversed with the women working in porn and can actually back up ... more
Omg wow I totally didn't expect that LOL! I can't email til I'm. At my home computer though..is that okay
11/02/2011
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
Oh, I hate, hate, hate baby talk!
11/02/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
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Originally posted by tim1724
Oh, don't worry, I'm happy to share. I'd love to see more people complain about these same things, so that maybe we can get some of them changed.
Loved your list as well!!
11/02/2011
Contributor: arewehavingfun? arewehavingfun?
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Originally posted by Kindred
I hate spitting. An occasional spit is okay, but I really dislike the constant spitting in some porn. I'm also not a fan of gonzo porn, just not my thing.
I like close ups of penetration, but not close ups of fake "O" faces. I think they are both gonzo...are they? Spitting is also pretty gross and I don't like female squirting. I don't see the point.
11/02/2011
Contributor: FaerieLove FaerieLove
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Originally posted by Tuesday
What I hate in porn:

-fake breasts
-women who wail in ecstasy at every action of their partner
-spitting, esp. spitting into someone's mouth
-impossible positions
-lack of lead-up to the sex
-tongue flicking during oral
Fake boobs are so unappealing. I do not understand how they ever got so popular they look like huge rocks under skin.
11/02/2011
Contributor: tim1724 tim1724
Quote:
Originally posted by Tuesday
What I hate in porn:

-fake breasts
-women who wail in ecstasy at every action of their partner
-spitting, esp. spitting into someone's mouth
-impossible positions
-lack of lead-up to the sex
-tongue flicking during oral
Yeah, some of the oral is … odd. You'd think these guys would know how to go down on a woman by now.

Fake breasts don't bother me too much if they're well done (although even if done well I don't see the point) … but at least 80% are hideous.
11/02/2011
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
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Originally posted by js250
I hate when you can tell the actor actress is just their to get paid. The cum shot happens and they flinch or are not enjoying it. I hate spitting, ATM, over scripted porn and some of the noise, put a sock in it! If I was that loud the whole hour or ... more
Actually I don't think I'd mind if they flinched or asked the partner to stop once in a while - just like in real life.
11/02/2011