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Holiday Party Planning Meeting - Tuesday, January 3rd @ 7pm EST

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Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Jul!a
What about one single party that everybody gets to go to and there are prizes from both pools available; something for couples and something for singles?
I like this better, no need to segregate us!
01/03/2012
Contributor: LoveDove LoveDove
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
oh that is cute! like secret santa but... Blind Date for Vday!
That's an adorable idea! Let's do it!!
01/03/2012
Contributor: T&A1987 T&A1987
Quote:
Originally posted by Jul!a
What about one single party that everybody gets to go to and there are prizes from both pools available; something for couples and something for singles?
that works well too. more choice in prizes would be nice, although can't complain too much about winning something.
01/03/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Kindred
Too bad we couldn't somehow pair up as dates for the party, then everyone would have a valentine at the party.
Aw! That sounds cool! I'd be down,


and since we're so widly male/female imbalanced, the girls would just have to "wear ties" on their avatars like when you've got too many girls at a contra dance
01/03/2012
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
We can post valentines day gifs or pictures on our dates wall.
Yes! Or I can make another thread like we had last year for people to post their Valentine's. They can be for a specific person, or for Eden in general.
01/03/2012
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by Antipova
Huh, I never got stuff from my folks for Valentine's day... and I guess I carry that over by not letting boyfriends get me anything either. I'm never one to complain about time spent together and sex, but I hope for that all year'round, ... more
We just get them a card and some candy/chocolate. Nothing to big, the get plenty from school.

As far as sex goes, that is one of the days we try very hard to have some even if it is a quicky.
01/03/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Antipova
Aw! That sounds cool! I'd be down,


and since we're so widly male/female imbalanced, the girls would just have to "wear ties" on their avatars like when you've got too many girls at a contra dance
or just not be so heterosexy... homosexy! its sexier... IMHO.
01/03/2012
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Quote:
Originally posted by Kindred
Too bad we couldn't somehow pair up as dates for the party, then everyone would have a valentine at the party.
I'll be your date.
01/03/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Antipova
Aw! That sounds cool! I'd be down,


and since we're so widly male/female imbalanced, the girls would just have to "wear ties" on their avatars like when you've got too many girls at a contra dance
Did I just out myself as a dork?




You guys probably already knew.

Go try contra dancing, though, it's seriously a lot of fun.
01/03/2012
Contributor: eeep eeep
Might be fun to do a color theme for it, would be easy for this since so many things come in red and pink. Might not be a great color choice for some, but a free prize is a free prize, and it would be kind of cute for a theme.
01/03/2012
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
or just not be so heterosexy... homosexy! its sexier... IMHO.
Yeah I dont care if I got a female valentine. I would still post them pretty pictures.
01/03/2012
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by T&A1987
that works well too. more choice in prizes would be nice, although can't complain too much about winning something.
I may be able to do something about more choices in prizes. What would you classify as a "singles" item, vs something that can be used in a couples pairing? I know that a lot of my "solo" items can easily be used with my husband, and a lot of our couples things can be used individually.
01/03/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
brb... gotta grab some soy milk for the cinnamon toast crunch i'm eating at my desk here at work... workin hard yall know.


01/03/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
Yeah I dont care if I got a female valentine. I would still post them pretty pictures.
Yeah, for shore
01/03/2012
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
I'll be your date.
You just like my ass!
01/03/2012
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
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Originally posted by Antipova
Yeah, for shore
Ill post you pretty pictures either way...haha
01/03/2012
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
but then if your partner ended up not able to make it and stood you up... ah, potential disaster.
My date would never live it down, I would hound them until the end of days (or Ef, which ever comes first).
01/03/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
Ill post you pretty pictures either way...haha
YAY! And I'll have to hunt some down too
01/03/2012
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
or just not be so heterosexy... homosexy! its sexier... IMHO.
Well, since you can't assume anyone's orientation, it would be easier to just match anyone up regardless of sex or orientation. Tim already wants to be my date.
01/03/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Jul!a
I may be able to do something about more choices in prizes. What would you classify as a "singles" item, vs something that can be used in a couples pairing? I know that a lot of my "solo" items can easily be used with my husband, ... more
true.. no need to separate a singles toy or couples toy, really. i mean there are only a few couples toys on here that are specifically only for couples... like games and passion kits...
01/03/2012
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
01/03/2012
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by Kindred
You just like my ass!
Ya, so?
01/03/2012
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Well it sounds pretty well like we're going to have ourselves a Valentine's Day party then. Any opposed?

We have a few dates open for options:
- Wednesday, February 8th
- Thursday, February 9th
- Tuesday, February 14th,
- Wednesday, February 15th

I, personally, would like to do Thursday the 9th. It can work for those who aren't going out on Valentine's Day, and give enough time to hopefully have prizes get to you by Valentine's Day.
01/03/2012
Contributor: wrmbreze wrmbreze
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
too cute!
01/03/2012
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
Quote:
Originally posted by Jul!a
Well it sounds pretty well like we're going to have ourselves a Valentine's Day party then. Any opposed?

We have a few dates open for options:
- Wednesday, February 8th
- Thursday, February 9th
- Tuesday, February 14th, ... more
Sounds good. I like Thursdays.
01/03/2012
Contributor: wrmbreze wrmbreze
Quote:
Originally posted by Jul!a
Well it sounds pretty well like we're going to have ourselves a Valentine's Day party then. Any opposed?

We have a few dates open for options:
- Wednesday, February 8th
- Thursday, February 9th
- Tuesday, February 14th, ... more
We won't be cutting in on any clubs will we?
01/03/2012
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
01/03/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by Jul!a
Well it sounds pretty well like we're going to have ourselves a Valentine's Day party then. Any opposed?

We have a few dates open for options:
- Wednesday, February 8th
- Thursday, February 9th
- Tuesday, February 14th, ... more
i vote for wed or thurs before vday. the day of would be too difficult and hectic... attendance may be low. day after, the magic has died already.
01/03/2012
Contributor: eeep eeep
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
true.. no need to separate a singles toy or couples toy, really. i mean there are only a few couples toys on here that are specifically only for couples... like games and passion kits...
It would be nice to allow people to pick from a couple choices though. This way if some items are not things they would use much they can pick something else. Have a certain number of items winners get to choose from, and they can PM which they want.
01/03/2012
Contributor: T&A1987 T&A1987
how ar in advance is being planned? all year, or just the next few months? sorry if this has been asked or explained already.
01/03/2012