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Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Antipova
Here's where I learned what I know: link


Alice, that was just the soundtrack. But go find the movie! It is superb.
that link is pretty intriguing too... what a pretty pic!


i knew it was just the soundtrack... i'll find it one of these days!
01/03/2012
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
I for one do not care when we have one, just as long as I can make it! I feel pretty bad about missing the last one.
I was sad to see you weren't there for that one, although I do understand why you had to miss it.
01/03/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
I'm down for collaborating.

I was thinking if I was to do a themed Cooks for February, it would be like a little fruits and honey tasting menu instead of a big produced meal, because I subscribe to the Dan Savage theory that you shouldn't stuff yourself or you'll be too sleepy for sex
01/03/2012
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
Ive never heard of pink salt. Pfft Im an amateur.
01/03/2012
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
Are any of us "Normal"? I sure aint!!!
Hahaha, you have a very good point, good sir.
01/03/2012
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
yeah.. i guess i'm being a bah-humbug about the Vday thing... but still, it's a valid concern.



whenever is fine! april for a spring party, feb for a Vday party... sure.
No worries, I understand. The wife and I have not had a real V-day for years. We just get the kids stuff since we have only had limited funds.
01/03/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by allinonekid
I'll just leave this here... >_>

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that's a good idea. i'd bring that up at the community planning meeting. it's this week, and JR heads it, i think!
01/03/2012
Contributor: T&A1987 T&A1987
not sure what's been said, internet fail, so here's my two sense regarding valentines day (sorry if it's early)

For the valentines party, how about giving mainly couple themed toys and having the party about one week before the actual holiday to allow for shipping.
For prizes, it depends on the price range, but the inflatable lover’s pillow
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There should also be a singles party after, or perhaps for irony, on valentine’s day. Prizes should be mainly ones used for solo pleasure. How about a choice of a vibrator or sleeve, so whichever gender wins, they can choose.
01/03/2012
Contributor: wrmbreze wrmbreze
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
No worries, I understand. The wife and I have not had a real V-day for years. We just get the kids stuff since we have only had limited funds.
Same with us.
01/03/2012
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by allinonekid
Sadly not. I'm quite happy with the chocolate I get though ^_^
Chocolate is good. Take what you can get, eh?
01/03/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
Ive never heard of pink salt. Pfft Im an amateur.
I think I learned about it ... shoot, I don't even remember. I have kind of a hobby of reading antique cookbooks, though, so probably the Kentucky Housewife or something
01/03/2012
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
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Originally posted by T&A1987
not sure what's been said, internet fail, so here's my two sense regarding valentines day (sorry if it's early)

For the valentines party, how about giving mainly couple themed toys and having the party about one week before the ... more
Yeah but with a singles party who would host it, Im sure Sam wants to spend the day with her Husband.
01/03/2012
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by Antipova
I'm down for collaborating.

I was thinking if I was to do a themed Cooks for February, it would be like a little fruits and honey tasting menu instead of a big produced meal, because I subscribe to the Dan Savage theory that you ... more
Antipova, if you'd like to Skype or email me, we can discuss doing future collaborations. I would love to have every club do something that's part party at least once since it went over so well for you, and any time you'd like to do a "themed" meeting where I join in with some trivia, I'm down.
01/03/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
No worries, I understand. The wife and I have not had a real V-day for years. We just get the kids stuff since we have only had limited funds.
Huh, I never got stuff from my folks for Valentine's day... and I guess I carry that over by not letting boyfriends get me anything either. I'm never one to complain about time spent together and sex, but I hope for that all year'round, not just on holidays!
01/03/2012
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
that's a good idea. i'd bring that up at the community planning meeting. it's this week, and JR heads it, i think!
Nope, I head the Community Planning Meetings. JR has a wonderful workshop on the Review Program on the 4th Wednesday of each month.
01/03/2012
Contributor: T&A1987 T&A1987
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
Yeah but with a singles party who would host it, Im sure Sam wants to spend the day with her Husband.
then the day after, although it would lose the irony.
01/03/2012
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
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Originally posted by Jul!a
Antipova, if you'd like to Skype or email me, we can discuss doing future collaborations. I would love to have every club do something that's part party at least once since it went over so well for you, and any time you'd like to do a ... more
I love the collab partys. It brings awareness to the clubs and makes for a lot of fun.
01/03/2012
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by T&A1987
not sure what's been said, internet fail, so here's my two sense regarding valentines day (sorry if it's early)

For the valentines party, how about giving mainly couple themed toys and having the party about one week before the ... more
What about one single party that everybody gets to go to and there are prizes from both pools available; something for couples and something for singles?
01/03/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
if we do a Vday party, i recommend some of the lover kits... like the shunga passion kits that were given out for the Gingybread contest. and/or self-care things... like bath/body products. really ANYTHING on eden qualifies as a good Vday gift, as they're all romantic and sensual!
01/03/2012
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
Too bad we couldn't somehow pair up as dates for the party, then everyone would have a valentine at the party.
01/03/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Jul!a
What about one single party that everybody gets to go to and there are prizes from both pools available; something for couples and something for singles?
good idea. 2 parties would be too much i think.
01/03/2012
Contributor: wrmbreze wrmbreze
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Originally posted by Jul!a
What about one single party that everybody gets to go to and there are prizes from both pools available; something for couples and something for singles?
That sounds good.
01/03/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Kindred
Too bad we couldn't somehow pair up as dates for the party, then everyone would have a valentine at the party.
oh that is cute! like secret santa but... Blind Date for Vday!
01/03/2012
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
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Originally posted by Kindred
Too bad we couldn't somehow pair up as dates for the party, then everyone would have a valentine at the party.
Aw thats a really cute idea Kindred.
01/03/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Jul!a
Antipova, if you'd like to Skype or email me, we can discuss doing future collaborations. I would love to have every club do something that's part party at least once since it went over so well for you, and any time you'd like to do a ... more
Sure, sweet
01/03/2012
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
We can post valentines day gifs or pictures on our dates wall.
01/03/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Kindred
Too bad we couldn't somehow pair up as dates for the party, then everyone would have a valentine at the party.
but then if your partner ended up not able to make it and stood you up... ah, potential disaster.
01/03/2012
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
Yeah but with a singles party who would host it, Im sure Sam wants to spend the day with her Husband.
I would indeed, but I have my night job that evening, so I'd be available to spend it with you guys. He and I are going to take a weekend away, either the weekend before or the weekend after.
01/03/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
I love the collab partys. It brings awareness to the clubs and makes for a lot of fun.
Darn right!
01/03/2012
Contributor: eeep eeep
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Originally posted by T&A1987
not sure what's been said, internet fail, so here's my two sense regarding valentines day (sorry if it's early)

For the valentines party, how about giving mainly couple themed toys and having the party about one week before the ... more
Having more than one party would be a lot of work, and having 'couples' toys only at one would be kind of excluding single people from being able to use some of them. People in relationships could use things from either. Also, having anything on V-day seems problematic for a turn-out. Single people often go out with friends or family, or have dates with new people.
01/03/2012