The New Intimacy

Are you a dom, a sub, or a switch?

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Contributor: indiechick indiechick
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
Post your position
Sub when I am with Men, but Dom with other women
07/10/2013
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
It's a new era. Nothing wrong with switching once in a while. Variety is the spice of life. Switching is the variety of ones sex life.
08/09/2018
Contributor: Lisset Finnien Lisset Finnien
Definitely a sub. Have no interest in being dominant
08/23/2018
Contributor: Croc Croc
Now that's a poll with a trick!

'Post your position '
If you really are a dom, you would say 'are you giving me an order, petty little worm? Like hell, i'm gonna post an answer'


I'm a switch, but GFs are more often doms
10/13/2019
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
Post your position
I like to switch things up for sure! A little of both!
10/27/2019
Contributor: King Irb King Irb
Dom
10/18/2020
Contributor: King Irb King Irb
Dom here looking for my sweet beautiful slave
10/18/2020
Contributor: karmaqueen karmaqueen
I'm actually a switch but I've leaned more submissive during play so I put down sub.
10/19/2020
Contributor: I preferred a mix between the two I preferred a mix between the two
Depends really on the the day and my mood
11/17/2020
Contributor: Dom Christopher Dom Christopher
I am a dom and my wife is a sub and love BDSM roleplaying
11/23/2020
Contributor: Dom Christopher Dom Christopher
I am a domme and my wife loves being
My slave. We love BDSM roleplaying all the time
11/23/2020
Contributor: Bifemboi12 Bifemboi12
So I’m a bi femboi and when it comes to being with guys obviously I’m tottally sub I love being feminine and submissive when I’m with a guy but when it comes to being with girls most of the time I’m very dominant and I’ve always thought it was odd but honestly I think it’s kinda hot how one night I could be wearing lingerie a wig and makeup on my knees sucking dick and the next night be with a girl who’s doing what I was doing. Any thoughts?
11/27/2020
Contributor: dominatrixNY dominatrixNY
I am a dom and i am born that way. I love to be in controll...
but...
when i really have trust with someone and in a good and horny mood
i love to get spanked and swich...
12/25/2020
Contributor: Strawgirl Strawgirl
Sub
strawgirl
08/20/2021
Contributor: Strawgirl Strawgirl
I'm definitely a sub. I love it when my man takes control and renders me helpless.
08/20/2021
Contributor: kamberle kamberle
Quote:
Originally posted by Faith
I'm naturally a dom. But I have my days for sure where I want to be dominated. Thankfully my gf is the opposite. Naturally submissive, but she also has her days.
I am the exact same way. I am a total Domme, but with my wife I love for her to dominate me when the mood hits her. And she does. I’m definitely the daddy but there are days where we both enjoy switching roles. It keeps it fresh and exciting and also equal. But at the heart of it all is really just us truly wanting to please one another.
08/29/2021
Contributor: Batman24577 Batman24577
Switch but prefer sub!
09/02/2021
Contributor: DenRu85 DenRu85
Switch, for the sake of fun and peace in the relationship
10/21/2021
Contributor: maxcn maxcn
i am a sub
01/25/2023
Contributor: I love Bubble I love Bubble
Switch
01/25/2023
Contributor: Devilish Asian Devilish Asian
Only submissive to my partner, everyone else I like to control
02/10/2023
Contributor: iamfoxy iamfoxy
I'm a switch but I like taking control.
03/09/2023
Contributor: 2Cockyforthissong 2Cockyforthissong
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
Post your position
It is6-23-2023 these post are from 2010 why is that?
Also Dom by heart Switch by choice
06/23/2023
Contributor: ThatGuyWithTheToys ThatGuyWithTheToys
Definitely a Dom, but we have been experimenting recently.
With CBT namely. Not sure about the humiliation aspect - I just enjoyed intense sensations A LOT.
I was inspired, I wrote an article explaining that CBT does not necessarily means you like humiliation games. Pain, too.
I certainly do not feel it makes me less of a Dom, since I've enjoyed immensely topping from the bottom.

Anyone feels the same way? Does it technically make me a switch? Not sure.
07/17/2023
Contributor: WrapAroundKarl WrapAroundKarl
Quote:
Originally posted by ThatGuyWithTheToys
Definitely a Dom, but we have been experimenting recently.
With CBT namely. Not sure about the humiliation aspect - I just enjoyed intense sensations A LOT.
I was inspired, I wrote an article explaining that CBT does not necessarily means you ... more
YES I DO
Dom here, but I love to direct my girl when she's doing things to me.
07/17/2023