Which age did you first begin to think about BDSM related fantasies and get your first thoughts on the subject

Contributor: Bri9 Bri9
I didnt know BDSM existed until about a year or two ago when I was reading a romance novel that had some BDSM behavior in it. Then I got curious and googled what it was. It completely openend my eyes to a whole new world.
12/31/2012
Contributor: phoenixfire phoenixfire
I voted 14-17, but it could have been a year or two earlier. Honestly, it's hard to remember that far back.
12/31/2012
Contributor: phoenixfire phoenixfire
I had these kinds of fantasies long before I knew they could be labeled BDSM, and it was a long time after I recognized that label before I was willing to own it.
12/31/2012
Contributor: fizzygato fizzygato
I think I was like 3 and have photographic evidence/ memories of these "kinky" events, but didn't know there was a word for it until I was like 20.

I feel like I started gaining other kinks (like collars and cuffs) when I was 9, and through experience of learning that certain options exist, recently gained other kinks, like rope and wax.
01/07/2013