Teens, but didn't get into it heavily until my twenties.
Which age did you first begin to think about BDSM related fantasies and get your first thoughts on the subject
09/25/2012
Why did you skip 18-19?
09/25/2012
probably when I was obsessed with Labyrinth and thought Sarah was an idiot for refusing Jareth. So he wanted to control her? I didn't see a problem with that, lol.
09/26/2012
Around 30 when I was reawakened sexually.
09/26/2012
I was young. I sed to tie myself up
09/26/2012
My first ever exposure to anything BDSM related was when I was about fourteen. I was watching a video about politics when suddenly a drawing of George W. Bush popped up, in which he was flogging John Kerry in a gag. Honestly, it confused the hell out of me and I stayed off the internet for a month because I was so shocked. It's always a funny story to tell.
10/02/2012
I've known I was into guys crossdressing, light bondage and piercings since I started discovering sexuality. Thanks to the internet, it was all readily available for my viewing
10/02/2012
Around 11-13 I started to fantasy about dominating and tying a man.
10/04/2012
I've been interested in sex, since... forever. I was always a curious child, looking up "naughty words" in the dictionary, HAHA. Than there was Wikipedia, with so much more... ? I first heard about BDSM in a newspaper article (oh course, this article wasn't a good one *eye roll* but I became curious when I was 13.) I started researching more. I also met my girl when I was 13, and we both knew what we were into but didn't do anything until I turned 18.
When I turned 18, we were already engaged since I was 16, so I flew here (Utah - we were long distance), had our first kink night that night, moved in that night and less than a month later we married and I collared her on our honeymoon!
When I turned 18, we were already engaged since I was 16, so I flew here (Utah - we were long distance), had our first kink night that night, moved in that night and less than a month later we married and I collared her on our honeymoon!
10/05/2012
I've had "damsel in distress" type fantasies since I was quite young. They weren't of a sexual nature until I was in my early teens.
10/14/2012
I have always had an interest in BDSM and I had thoughts when I was very young, but never knew anything about what it was called. I grew up in a very cold and uptight household. I didn't start playing that way until my late teens and after having a few decent boyfriend experiences. One of my exes was the first to ever tie me up or whip/spank me. He wasn't as into it as I was, but he liked to experiment and was more than willing to help me satisfy what I needed from him in that respect. He's now married to one of my best friends and I think they are a bit kinky now.
10/14/2012
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Early 20s.
Originally posted by
pleasurehunter
As I kid I had no idea what BDSM was but I about 10 through 15 I had fantasies of licking the boots of women in leather with whips and floggers. I had seen bits and pieces of BDSM in film and tv, I think my mind was interested and I had these
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As I kid I had no idea what BDSM was but I about 10 through 15 I had fantasies of licking the boots of women in leather with whips and floggers. I had seen bits and pieces of BDSM in film and tv, I think my mind was interested and I had these thoughts manifest. My love for BDSM grew throughout the years but that was the starting point? When was yours? Feel free to answer as well as vote would like to hear how bdsm came to be in your life.
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10/18/2012
I was fairly young, but it wasn't until later that I learned what bdsm is.
10/20/2012
early 20s
10/22/2012
It all started when I hit puberty (which was around 13 or 14) and I started looking at chains in a more sexual way. It kinda snowballed from there. However I had no idea what it was called until I was nearly 17 that I knew what it was called.
10/22/2012
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I was probably 16 or 17 when the fantasies started. So glad too, being a good little girl was the wrong kind of torture for me!
Originally posted by
pleasurehunter
As I kid I had no idea what BDSM was but I about 10 through 15 I had fantasies of licking the boots of women in leather with whips and floggers. I had seen bits and pieces of BDSM in film and tv, I think my mind was interested and I had these
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As I kid I had no idea what BDSM was but I about 10 through 15 I had fantasies of licking the boots of women in leather with whips and floggers. I had seen bits and pieces of BDSM in film and tv, I think my mind was interested and I had these thoughts manifest. My love for BDSM grew throughout the years but that was the starting point? When was yours? Feel free to answer as well as vote would like to hear how bdsm came to be in your life.
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10/23/2012
Around 14 or so. I was into the gothy scene, and all the girls in corsets and collars started to strike a chord.
10/23/2012
I was about 14 at the time and was fortunate enough to have a girlfriend that was much more kinky and adventurous than I was. She opened me up to quite a few different things.
10/23/2012
I was pretty young with mine... I'm glad to hear that I'm not the only one, honestly. When I was younger I used to pretend I was chained up by some evil villain who would whip/tease me mercilessly. I lay spread-eagled on my bed pretty frequently thinking about that even though I didn't even REALLY know what sex was!
10/23/2012
I was about 20 when I started getting into it
10/23/2012
Not gonna lie, I got into it rather early without knowing what to call it and it has led to some great times. I am so glad that my current b/f is into it.
10/23/2012
I was about 19 or so when I started dabbling in it.
10/23/2012
About 15-ish.
About the same time I saw my first 'fetish goth'.
About the same time I saw my first 'fetish goth'.
10/23/2012
Many of my early fantasies had strong BDSM themes... I just didn't realize it until my twenties when I started figuring out that my distaste for most heterosexual interactions came from my seeing the Male-as-Dominant-Femal e-as-Submissive dynamic as a complete turn-off. Pretty much all of my fantasies involving men had the men in submissive or vulnerable states...
Thinking back on some of the skills I picked up growing up (tying knots via sailing classes, use of scalpels and viewing blood under a microscope via an interest in biology, how to safely use knives via survival training), I wonder if I was unconsciously preparing for it?
Thinking back on some of the skills I picked up growing up (tying knots via sailing classes, use of scalpels and viewing blood under a microscope via an interest in biology, how to safely use knives via survival training), I wonder if I was unconsciously preparing for it?
11/04/2012
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I was tying myself up in my closet when I was all of five. My parents were somewhat concerned.
Originally posted by
pleasurehunter
As I kid I had no idea what BDSM was but I about 10 through 15 I had fantasies of licking the boots of women in leather with whips and floggers. I had seen bits and pieces of BDSM in film and tv, I think my mind was interested and I had these
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As I kid I had no idea what BDSM was but I about 10 through 15 I had fantasies of licking the boots of women in leather with whips and floggers. I had seen bits and pieces of BDSM in film and tv, I think my mind was interested and I had these thoughts manifest. My love for BDSM grew throughout the years but that was the starting point? When was yours? Feel free to answer as well as vote would like to hear how bdsm came to be in your life.
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11/05/2012
Most of my childhood fantasies were of kidnap. This maybe because I grew up in a very religious and sexually repressed environment, but submissive fantasies remain a favorite.
11/05/2012
Really young, first realizing I was getting more enjoyment out of watching tied up damsels in distress in cartoons and movies than your average person!
11/07/2012
ever since i was 16 I've always dreamt of being dominated.
11/07/2012
Around 14, I think.
11/07/2012
Right at puberty
12/31/2012