If I had a toy that ended up being unusable for me and it could be sterilized, sure, if I knew somebody enough and they were open to the idea of wanting to use a toy, one by me no less, I would clean it up and give it to them. Might as well let it have some use if the other person trusts me enough to use it. (Of course, while I know that I myself am not infected with any possible STDs, I would still get tested to be sure that after sterilizing, my toys would be 100 percent safe to give away.)
However, I would not accept, by any means necessary, a toy someone else used. Call me paranoid, call me a prude, but unless it's a lover, I wouldn't trust anybody else enough and say it was safe, even if the toy could be fully sterilized and with the proof that person wouldn't pass a disease. It also doesn't make me very comfortable knowing that it was inside someone else other than myself. It's just kind of a turn off, lol.
However, I would not accept, by any means necessary, a toy someone else used. Call me paranoid, call me a prude, but unless it's a lover, I wouldn't trust anybody else enough and say it was safe, even if the toy could be fully sterilized and with the proof that person wouldn't pass a disease. It also doesn't make me very comfortable knowing that it was inside someone else other than myself. It's just kind of a turn off, lol.