Like other people have mentioned, I feel the earlier the better. Doesn't have to be the first time, but it is important to mention that you like toys incorporated in sex.

ASAP, you should be upfront, its fun and its part of who your are and your sexual style!

To me, toys are just there. I wouldn't wonder when I should introduce the idea of pillows or candles or lingerie. If I'm comfortable enough with a man to let him into my bed, I'm comfortable enough to let him peer in my Naughty Drawer.

asap best to discuss it early

Why not incorporate them as soon as sex is in the picture?

They're fun so, why not have them from the beginning?

I definitely agree with other posters not the first time you have sex, but definitely once you are comfortable with one another

I voted on beginning, but really it depends on your partner. Some toys might scare someone off if introduced too soon.

As soon as you're having sex? Or doing anything sexual?

Any stage is the right stage!

5 minutes after you meet them

Any time is alright! They're fun

I generally don't like to include toys the first time I'm with someone. I like the first time to be organic. But they come up in discussion really early on because I want to make sure they other person is open to the things I like. But I definitely agree that the answers available in this poll were wayyyy too limiting. I don't think toys are something you use when things get stale or a last ditch effort. I think they're something some people just enjoy in their sex lives. Some people already know from past experience they like them and/or they can be a fun thing to explore with a partner, whether you're trying something neither of you has tried or one of you is guiding/coaxing/teachi ng the other, or just enjoying something you already know you like.

I think they're great from start to end. They provide variety and, let's face it, help women achieve orgasms much more easily than a penis alone.