Closest I ever came was a guy I dated briefly. He made mention of how sex toys were utterly wrong and had no place in a relationship. He also viewed female masturbation and filthy and a sign that either her partner couldn't please her or that she was some sex obsessed freak (his words, not mine) That was last date I went out on with him. He had so many insecurities that I knew furthering the relationship was useless.

My current partner is very laid back when it comes to toys. He doesn't even mind if I have toys that are strictly for private use only. He knows that I have a few kinks and fantasys that he not comfortable with (DP to name one)so he lets it be.

The comment I ever heard from him involved the amount of Dildos I have my collection, he kinda laughed and said "you weren't kidding when you said you craved variety." less

My hubby just read that and said, "oh, for me it's the attitude that "It's my territory and anything that can make it more talented and professional...go for it". Why settle for a casual swimmer if you have a partner who is willing to use the best training technology and tools and become an Olympic swimmer??? Know what I mean? less