you just found your mom's vibrator...how do you feel?

Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
I found my mom's vibrator and I felt awkward and uncomfortable I never knew she had one and the way I stumbled on it it was hidden in a pillowcase under the bed with lube I thought I put stuff under my bed and forgot about it YUCK my bare hands touched all of it...I went to my mom freaked I was like omg I found a sex toy in my bedroom and it wasn't mine why is it in there...I thought my sister had been in my bedroom I was scared and very disgusted but since it was my mom not as much...
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01/26/2011
Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
Quote:
Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
I found my mom's vibrator and I felt awkward and uncomfortable I never knew she had one and the way I stumbled on it it was hidden in a pillowcase under the bed with lube I thought I put stuff under my bed and forgot about it YUCK my bare hands ... more
I was so disturbed,shocked angry and disgusted I almost screamed but when I found out it was my mom I was just relived it wasn't my nasty sister..she's so nasty she takes a crap with the door open and lies to your face when you walk in on her that "I did shut the door" then mumbles it didn't latch or came open..its like WTF u just have to hear the door shut to know it will stay shut
01/26/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
How can you be disgusted?
You have vibrators too. As a teen, yes I would've been mortified.
my mom having a vibrator doesn't really bother me.

NOW, that doesn't mean I wanna sit down and discuss my favorite vibe and why, but it's not that big of a deal to me.
01/26/2011
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
It wouldn't bother me. Why would I begrudge my mom the same kind of pleasure I frequently indulge myself in? I've offered to buy her a toy on more than one occasion but she's more modest and conservative than I am so she either really isn't interested or just really isn't interested in discussing it with me.

I know she's had sex because I exist, and I know she has sex with her current boyfriend because it comes up every now and then, so if I were to find out she masturbated, it wouldn't surprise me at all. Pretty much everyone does - look at all the people on EF that are also moms.
01/26/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by Tori Rebel
It wouldn't bother me. Why would I begrudge my mom the same kind of pleasure I frequently indulge myself in? I've offered to buy her a toy on more than one occasion but she's more modest and conservative than I am so she either really ... more
This is pretty much my stance too. I've offered gift cards and shown her pasties and stuff like that, but otherwise that hasn't really come up.

I was looking for a nail clipper in my mom's room once and found her vibe and some porn. There was the whole "ick" factor due to it belonging to someone other than me, but I didn't dwell on it for more than a few minutes and haven't brought it up to her. I figure she's a grown ass woman who's allowed to enjoy sex, by herself or with whoever she wants. As long as she's being safe, I'm not going to get involved.
01/26/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Quote:
Originally posted by Tori Rebel
It wouldn't bother me. Why would I begrudge my mom the same kind of pleasure I frequently indulge myself in? I've offered to buy her a toy on more than one occasion but she's more modest and conservative than I am so she either really ... more
Ditto to this also.
01/26/2011
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
I wouldn't mind. In fact I'd probably laugh it off but I wouldn't tell her I found it cuz yeah that would make her feel awkward.
01/26/2011
Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
Quote:
Originally posted by Illusional
How can you be disgusted?
You have vibrators too. As a teen, yes I would've been mortified.
my mom having a vibrator doesn't really bother me.

NOW, that doesn't mean I wanna sit down and discuss my favorite vibe and why, but ... more
how would you feel about going through your stuff and sticking your hand in a pillowcase thinking you put stuff in there and forgot about it and wat you pull out is a big sex toy and lube and it doesn't belong to you?
01/26/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Quote:
Originally posted by SexyTabby
I wouldn't mind. In fact I'd probably laugh it off but I wouldn't tell her I found it cuz yeah that would make her feel awkward.
Lol, probably not.
My mom was a lingerie model and has photos of her so I've discovered lingerie and be romping around in them at 14. And she just sort of stared at me and walked away.
LOL, I wasn't naked but had like a nightie on but a pair of jeans and t-shirt underneath it and was having like fake tea pretending to smoke.

My poor mom just thought I had a super hyperactive imagination.
01/26/2011
Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
Quote:
Originally posted by SexyTabby
I wouldn't mind. In fact I'd probably laugh it off but I wouldn't tell her I found it cuz yeah that would make her feel awkward.
well i had to talk to my mom I seriously thought my nasty sister was in my room which she isn't allowed! my sister wasn't home at the time and she would have denied she was in there if it was her
01/26/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Quote:
Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
well i had to talk to my mom I seriously thought my nasty sister was in my room which she isn't allowed! my sister wasn't home at the time and she would have denied she was in there if it was her
So you had to talk to your mom about another issue and you brought up her personal vibrator?
01/26/2011
Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
Quote:
Originally posted by Illusional
So you had to talk to your mom about another issue and you brought up her personal vibrator?
I went to talk to her because I didn't know whose it was I thought my sister was in my bedroom....I was freaked out and angry..all kinds of thoughts ran through my mind like her and her boyfriend having sex in here...just lots of things I was more relieved but still grossed out my hand touched all that crap it was just akward and shocking

how would you feel about going through your stuff and sticking your hand in a pillowcase thinking you put stuff in there and forgot about it and wat you pull out is a big sex toy and lube and it doesn't belong to you?
01/26/2011
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
I once dated a girl who was cleaning out her recently deceased mother's apartment and found her whole collection of vibrators and BDSM magazines. She just stuffed them in the garbage and moved on.
01/26/2011
Contributor: NaughtyButterfly NaughtyButterfly
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Originally posted by Jul!a
This is pretty much my stance too. I've offered gift cards and shown her pasties and stuff like that, but otherwise that hasn't really come up.

I was looking for a nail clipper in my mom's room once and found her vibe and some ... more
Same here, I don't care that she has them, but I don't want to discuss them with her.
01/26/2011
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
I found some dildos of my mom's when I was younger, and it really freaked me out then. But the other day I was at my parents house and accidentally saw an open box with a Gigi inside... how did I feel? Jealous!
Hahahaha!
01/26/2011
Contributor: Envy Envy
I don't have a mom, so can't comment too much, but my dad has a gf, and we don't care what the other gets, really.
01/26/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
I went to talk to her because I didn't know whose it was I thought my sister was in my bedroom....I was freaked out and angry..all kinds of thoughts ran through my mind like her and her boyfriend having sex in here...just lots of things I was ... more
Okay, so you're going through YOUR pillowcase and you discovered your mom's vibrator in there?

Or is this a whole other incident?
01/26/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Quote:
Originally posted by Lucidity
I found some dildos of my mom's when I was younger, and it really freaked me out then. But the other day I was at my parents house and accidentally saw an open box with a Gigi inside... how did I feel? Jealous!
Hahahaha!
LOL, yeah when I got my first vibrator, I was snooping around in my mom's drawers and found a super nice quality one from JimmyJane.I was like "Bitch."
01/26/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Quote:
Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
I went to talk to her because I didn't know whose it was I thought my sister was in my bedroom....I was freaked out and angry..all kinds of thoughts ran through my mind like her and her boyfriend having sex in here...just lots of things I was ... more
And I can always wash my hands so yeah I'm fine.
01/26/2011
Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
Quote:
Originally posted by Illusional
Okay, so you're going through YOUR pillowcase and you discovered your mom's vibrator in there?

Or is this a whole other incident?
everything happend last night I'm cleaning my bedroom and the pillowcase was under the bed and I have put sex toys in a pillowcase before so I thought I forgot one in there or thought maybe I was cleaning my bedroom and threw some random stuff in a pillowcase like I throw random stuff in boxes because I'm in desperate need of storage so right now I just have boxes LOL.

so after I found that stuff I went to go ask my mom about it because wat else could I do? I needed some information like if she had seen my sister go in my bedroom so if she confirmed the toy wasn't hers I would have been having a very unpleasant chat with my sister. But maybe my mom has learned to not leave that stuff in MY bedroom..yes I share a bedroom with her because I sleep in the extra bedroom because the bed back there seems to be the only bed I don't toss and turn all night...and when I'm at work she is allowed to lay in here and watch tv...it's really my bedroom she sleeps in here and watches some tv,thats all otehr than that I'm ALWAYS in here..during the day the other bedroom is all hers
01/26/2011
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Wait so your mom hid HER sex toy in YOUR room? you need to get your own place pronto! That is so weird lol.

I would be shocked because that doesn't sound like my mom-to have a sex toy, but I'd be proud of her. She needs it!
01/26/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
everything happend last night I'm cleaning my bedroom and the pillowcase was under the bed and I have put sex toys in a pillowcase before so I thought I forgot one in there or thought maybe I was cleaning my bedroom and threw some random stuff in ... more
Okay, so you and your mother share a room?
01/26/2011
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
Quote:
Originally posted by Illusional
LOL, yeah when I got my first vibrator, I was snooping around in my mom's drawers and found a super nice quality one from JimmyJane.I was like "Bitch."
Hahaha, I got pretty close to asking her how she liked it, buuuuttt that might open up a whole awkward can of worms that I don't think I'm ready for
01/26/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Quote:
Originally posted by Lucidity
Hahaha, I got pretty close to asking her how she liked it, buuuuttt that might open up a whole awkward can of worms that I don't think I'm ready for
LOL I know right?
01/26/2011
Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Wait so your mom hid HER sex toy in YOUR room? you need to get your own place pronto! That is so weird lol.

I would be shocked because that doesn't sound like my mom-to have a sex toy, but I'd be proud of her. She needs it!
I think it was more like s he forgot it under the bed. I will just make sure to wear gloves when I'm cleaning in here I don't think it will happen again but just to be safe..
01/26/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Wait so your mom hid HER sex toy in YOUR room? you need to get your own place pronto! That is so weird lol.

I would be shocked because that doesn't sound like my mom-to have a sex toy, but I'd be proud of her. She needs it!
Ha! That was my first reaction also, strange that it took this many posts for anybody to bring that up.

I basically feel exactly how you do about this. I would be like, "Mom I found your vibe which is fine, but can you PLEASE not keep it under MY bed? Or wait, are you hiding it from my sister too? If so this is a bad place to hide it because she steals everything in here that she finds. In any case I am glad that you are keeping yourself sexually satisfied. Right on. Oh and, by the way, if you ever want advice on a toy, ask me. I can certainly help point you in the right direction."

And dude how can you be THAT grossed out that you touched it, yeah it's not yours, but seriously, you lived up that womans vagina for 9 months, and probably spent a good deal of time climbing out of the birth canal. Get over it. There is such a thing as a sink you know.
01/26/2011
Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
Ha! That was my first reaction also, strange that it took this many posts for anybody to bring that up.

I basically feel exactly how you do about this. I would be like, "Mom I found your vibe which is fine, but can you PLEASE not keep it ... more
I'm actually suprised no one is grossed out touching someone elses used vibe..
01/26/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
I'm actually suprised no one is grossed out touching someone elses used vibe..
A lot of us are parents and have had to change our childrens fecal filled diapers for years. Taken care of our partners through colds and flus (including the ones that make people vomit profusely). A lot of us are also in to anal play and enjoy sharing toys with our partners(cleaning in between of course). There are much worse things in the world than somebody elses clean vibrator.
01/26/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Quote:
Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
A lot of us are parents and have had to change our childrens fecal filled diapers for years. Taken care of our partners through colds and flus (including the ones that make people vomit profusely). A lot of us are also in to anal play and enjoy ... more
Not a parent yet, but plenty of nephews and nieces, two of which are still in diapers.
I've cleaned up other people's vomit and been thrown up on.

I wouldn't be grossed out, unless I had a huge open wound on my hand and I thought maybe that person was disgusting and couldn't be trusted.
01/26/2011