We live in Alaska so for 8 months out of the year we have plenty of natural light and we don't close the shades on the windows. The rest of the year we either leave the bathroom light on or a bedside lamp if we feel the need for one at all. Usually we are too into each other to care about lighting. Once in a blue moon I will get a wild hair in the winter and light candles or pull the shades in the summer. Doesn't really matter to us much.

We like having dim light the most. Being in the dark is okay, but we like to see what we're doing.

Either a dim light or in many cases I use several black lights hooked up in my room. Definitely want some light though to see the action!

We almost always have a candle going or some really soft light. I don't like having bright lights on, but I love being able to see his face.

depends on where we are in the house (or elsewhere) and what time....if in a bedroom we leave the closet light on. if any other room we just have overheads on unless its daytime then there's enough light coming through the windows.