Do you pick out your toys together or alone?

Contributor: AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
I'm on the site mostly. My wife will look at the site occasionally with me and I'll go through some of the things I'm thinking of getting. Sometimes she'll ask for something, or say if something isn't really what she's wanting, but she really lets me pick out what we play with.
10/22/2012
Contributor: NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
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Originally posted by Sammi
I usually pick out what I want to try, and then we try out the toys together. Tonight my husband wanted to see what this site had, so we spent some time looking together for new things to try. So, how do you pick out the toys you get?
I pick the toys myself but I usually chat about it with my partner
10/22/2012
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by Sammi
I usually pick out what I want to try, and then we try out the toys together. Tonight my husband wanted to see what this site had, so we spent some time looking together for new things to try. So, how do you pick out the toys you get?
sometimes he'll surprise me, sometimes we shop for toys together. either way, we have fun
11/25/2012
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
He always helps me decide between 3 or 4 toys when im being indecisive lol. But i buy his toys for him.
11/25/2012
Contributor: spiced spiced
My wife likes sex toys in the bedroom, but HATES talking about sex toys or looking at sex toys online. So I do all the buying.

Fortunately, it's turned out that we have similar tastes in most areas and, by paying attention to her feedback, I've gotten good at buying only things she'll like. Which is cool!
11/26/2012
Contributor: invisiblehat invisiblehat
Pretty much all me.
11/26/2012
Contributor: Toy Fiend Toy Fiend
We make most toy decisions together. However, I sometimes choose alone.
12/28/2012
Contributor: lainebug lainebug
Quote:
Originally posted by Sammi
I usually pick out what I want to try, and then we try out the toys together. Tonight my husband wanted to see what this site had, so we spent some time looking together for new things to try. So, how do you pick out the toys you get?
Hubby doesn't have an opinion
12/28/2012
Contributor: froggygal91 froggygal91
I usually pick out all the toys but sometimes I do ask for his opinion.
12/29/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Depends on the toy, or if I want to surpise him...but usually pick them out together.
01/02/2013
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
I cureently pick them out alone because im single
01/04/2013
Contributor: AwesomeAmanda AwesomeAmanda
I pick out my own toys and i find ones i think he would like for him and show them to him.
01/07/2013
Contributor: butts butts
I pick out toys for myself alone, sometimes I'll save things that I think my partner will like to show him since he likes toys but rarely shops for himself. We've picked out a few things together, he usually votes for things out of our price range though hahaha!
05/19/2013
Contributor: Aishiteru Aishiteru
I mostly pick toys, but I can imagine it being fun to pick them out with someone.
05/19/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
I pick out my toys by myself.
05/19/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
Solo shopping for me
05/19/2013
Contributor: aznbbgirl aznbbgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Sammi
I usually pick out what I want to try, and then we try out the toys together. Tonight my husband wanted to see what this site had, so we spent some time looking together for new things to try. So, how do you pick out the toys you get?
I'm also the one who picks out all the toys, both for myself and my partner. He hasn't been on the site yet so I'm curious what he'll think if I let him browse.
08/03/2020
Contributor: Wickedly Yours Wickedly Yours
Quote:
Originally posted by Sammi
I usually pick out what I want to try, and then we try out the toys together. Tonight my husband wanted to see what this site had, so we spent some time looking together for new things to try. So, how do you pick out the toys you get?
Lol definitely alone... i don’t always use sex toys with a partner and i for sure don’t want to be judged by some of my purchases.
08/08/2020
Contributor: DenRu85 DenRu85
Together, it's fun
11/12/2021
Contributor: 4ever18 4ever18
I don't have a partner so I'm on my own when picking out toys......unless you want to count the EF member's reviews that I read. The reviews are very influential when making my final decision to purchase or not.
11/12/2021
Contributor: godot godot
Almost all the new toys my boyfriend's gotten since I've been with him are ones I surprised him with off of here.

As for me, I'm a total dildo packrat, so I'm constantly seeking out new ones for myself. However, before I buy, I'll often ask "hey, should I get this? do you like this?"

Just not always ^^
11/12/2021
Contributor: Young&Adventurous Young&Adventurous
I pick for my collection and my partner picks for theirs. Sometimes we have suggestions for the other or will do some research together if we're on the hunt for something specific neither of us have. We don't live together so the collections stay pretty separate.
11/13/2021
Contributor: Komitto Komitto
Quote:
Originally posted by Sammi
I usually pick out what I want to try, and then we try out the toys together. Tonight my husband wanted to see what this site had, so we spent some time looking together for new things to try. So, how do you pick out the toys you get?
I also pick mine out by myself, but my boyfriend wants to get some for him to use on me. I just don't know if I should let him because he's into a bit more extreme stuff.
11/18/2021
Contributor: SexiLexi99 SexiLexi99
Most of the time alone ?? mainly bc I have just about every style toy, but I still look all the time for new toys?? we look together sometimes, though, and he’ll tell me what he thinks I should get. I’m lucky if I get him to wear a C ring and super lucky if it’s a vibrating one ?? he loves using them on me but doesn’t want to try any for men on him ??
11/22/2021
Contributor: 4ever18 4ever18
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Originally posted by SexiLexi99
Most of the time alone ?? mainly bc I have just about every style toy, but I still look all the time for new toys?? we look together sometimes, though, and he’ll tell me what he thinks I should get. I’m lucky if I get him to wear a C ring and super ... more
SexiLexi99,

That's to bad. He doesn't know what he's missing! He apparently doesn't realize that the toys that are made for guys, also help enhance your pleasure too.
11/22/2021
Contributor: Swing Curious Swing Curious
Quote:
Originally posted by Sammi
I usually pick out what I want to try, and then we try out the toys together. Tonight my husband wanted to see what this site had, so we spent some time looking together for new things to try. So, how do you pick out the toys you get?
It's about 50/50 together/separate. I love it when she asks "Is that a new one?" during playtime. It gets even better when she chooses one (or more) of her surprise toys before a future session. I just discovered 2 new items charging in our bathroom this morning. Looks like she got me a new Zolo sleeve and picked herself up a new rabbit. Happy Valentines Day to US!
02/14/2023
Contributor: SimpleTeaser SimpleTeaser
Quote:
Originally posted by Sammi
I usually pick out what I want to try, and then we try out the toys together. Tonight my husband wanted to see what this site had, so we spent some time looking together for new things to try. So, how do you pick out the toys you get?
I pick out the toys myself. It has been a long time since I've ordered toys, but I just ordered a few toys. I also ordered a couple toys that would be beneficial for my husband to use for himself. He's never had his own toys, and I wanted to surprise him with a couple to try. He wasn't home when I placed the order, but I was too anxious to wait for him to come home this weekend since the toys will be here before he arrives. He knew that I was browsing for some since we discussed it though.
Mar 13, 8:54 pm