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Is it really that hard to give oral sex?

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Contributor: pasdechat pasdechat
I don't know that it's technically very complicated, but I'll freely admit that giving blowjobs is not one of my favorite sexual activities. The main problem for me is that I have a small mouth so my jaw gets tired quickly, and I've never really managed to suppress my gag reflex, so I have to be careful not to go too deep. I'm sure that these factors add up to make me not the best at giving head.
05/21/2012
Contributor: Sangsara Sangsara
some people are just selfish jerks and others just lack the confidence. me i'm up for trying anything you ask when it comes to touching you and always have suggestions for the other way around
05/22/2012
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
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Originally posted by xoxo
Giving it comes to me no problem and it always has. Why are some people bad at it? Not trying to sound rude at all. Just curious. Do they just want new techniques?
No - giving it is easy. Making it look like you really want to and really are enjoying doing it yourself - that's the hard part unless you do. And that is a huge part of giving good sex but especially a blow job or hand job. Guys are very afraid of failure let them know your enjoying it and like to do it. Remember its give and take - and sometimes you give them the enjoyment they like and they will be more willing to try that kink or freak you might want in return that they have been shy about.
06/04/2012
Contributor: Velocity Velocity
I used to have a HUGE problem with giving oral. It was all a huge inward thing. I was raised to think sex was wrong, and only for married people. So I was uncomfortable with a lot because part of me thought it was wrong and demeaning.
Little did I know that all I had to do was try it, get him off and listen to him to get better.
Now I find it very rewarding as long as he keeps himself clean.

I'm not sure I'll always be okay with swallowing though. Thats definitely not always my favorite thing to do. Lol.
07/09/2012
Contributor: Geography Geography
I willingly give it, but I don't think I am an expert and I think a book would be a nice place to pick up a few pointers. So would just talking to my boyfriend.
12/05/2012
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
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Originally posted by xoxo
Giving it comes to me no problem and it always has. Why are some people bad at it? Not trying to sound rude at all. Just curious. Do they just want new techniques?
practice
12/07/2012
Contributor: Rory Rory
Oral is not my thing but I did find some of the responses interesting. Thanks!
12/08/2012