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Contributor: kfdarling kfdarling
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
What took you guys longer to get used to and able to comfortably enjoy ANAL or DEEPTHROATING?
Both are amazing!
12/07/2011
Contributor: paige09nicole paige09nicole
I still cant deepthroat. Anal doesnt bother me near as much.
12/09/2011
Contributor: neon neon
anal! you can just relax and breathe through deepthroat
12/26/2011
Contributor: KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
Deep-throating...oddly enough I never had much of a problem with anal. x'D
12/26/2011
Contributor: Lady Hazel Lady Hazel
Well.. I would think deep throat. Maybe Im doing something wrong, but I think anal work is all for the man to learn. I mean he has to be the one to find the hole. Deep throat we have to over come that darn reflux. I simply try to avoid both. Good luck learning.. and have fun!!
01/10/2012
Contributor: Daemonin Daemonin
I'm working on both lol. Deep-throating is coming along easier, though
01/20/2012
Contributor: Serena Shirley Serena Shirley
Once when I was very young I saw some chick on T.V. put her fist in her mouth and the male characters really seemed to respond, so my young, impressionable mind decided I would need this skill. I guess years of fisting my own mouth prepared me for deep throating because I never had any issue. Anal is a little different. I thoroughly enjoy the stimulation, but I'm afraid for larger men to go anywhere near, plus I have this weird mental thing where I can only do it under certain circumstances.
01/21/2012
Contributor: aroarofthunder aroarofthunder
Both seemed to come fairly naturally to me, but I think the key is being patient with yourself and being comfortable enough with your partner to try knowing that you may fail the first (few) times.
01/21/2012
Contributor: Jake'n'bake Jake'n'bake
Anal. I have IBS so it's way harder than deepthroating. I have pretty much ZERO gag reflex so it was easy enough to master.
01/21/2012
Contributor: John E W John E W
I'd have to say both. As my girlfriend has a bad gag reflex that she gags when brushing her teeth. And I'm still trying to get her into anal. I love anal stimulation.
01/22/2012
Contributor: Kabachu Kabachu
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
What took you guys longer to get used to and able to comfortably enjoy ANAL or DEEPTHROATING?
both
01/24/2012
Contributor: hotbabe69 hotbabe69
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
What took you guys longer to get used to and able to comfortably enjoy ANAL or DEEPTHROATING?
would love to get anal
01/25/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
What took you guys longer to get used to and able to comfortably enjoy ANAL or DEEPTHROATING?
I have done both, but since there are a million ways to change up the anal, it's hard to get used to (though still enjoyable). On the other hand, deepthroating makes me a sloppy eye-watering mess unless I coat my throat with one of those gels!
01/27/2012
Contributor: Ravenqueen Ravenqueen
Quote:
Originally posted by John E W
I'd have to say both. As my girlfriend has a bad gag reflex that she gags when brushing her teeth. And I'm still trying to get her into anal. I love anal stimulation.
I gag to while brushing my teeth due to the fluid, it's 100x's worse when I am pregnant!

I think my hubby would enjoy DT, but I would have to get past the gag thing (any tips besides smiling?)and also strongly encourage him not to thrust. If it works I would think that if he remained in my throat while he finished it would not make me gag. What do you think? Has this worked for anyone else.

I a had a very bad experience once with anal and it has taken me more than 14 years to get passed it. I have been with my husband for more than 8, I am just now considering trying anal.
01/27/2012
Contributor: TheSlyFox TheSlyFox
Quote:
Originally posted by UnknownGirl
Anal for me. It literally took me years of trying before I was able to be fully penetrated and enjoy it.
Same.
01/27/2012
Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
I don't take kindly to either of them LOL. Im not a huge fan of anal, but I truly think that is because I haven't had the "right" experiences with it. We tend to move too fast with anal, rather than taking our time to build up to it. As far as deepthroating, I don't do oral that much enough to really "get used to it" I guess.
01/28/2012
Contributor: AussieSarah AussieSarah
Quote:
Originally posted by neon
anal! you can just relax and breathe through deepthroat
haha i wuld say the exact opposite!!

Deep Throat because you can just relax and breathe through anal!!

With a little bit of practice by myself i was easily able to take a good pounding in my ass from my man but really struggled to make myself deep throat him and it took A LOT longer to get be able to do it comfortably
01/28/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
Quote:
Originally posted by zeebot
Helpful tip: smiling suppresses your gag reflex!
thanks much!
02/21/2012
Contributor: smashthepatriarchy smashthepatriarchy
Deep throating, but I don't like giving head at all so there's that.
03/03/2012
Contributor: Teacookie Teacookie
so far deep thoart seems the easiest.
03/03/2012
Contributor: x203 x203
deep throats harder
03/04/2012
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I'd say deep throating. I have a terrible gag reflex, but I love going down on my man.
03/04/2012
Contributor: Caus Caus
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
What took you guys longer to get used to and able to comfortably enjoy ANAL or DEEPTHROATING?
Deepthroating isn't all that hard but I haven't even begun to get used to anal.
03/06/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
What took you guys longer to get used to and able to comfortably enjoy ANAL or DEEPTHROATING?
Deepthroating is really hard for me because I have a super sensitive gag reflex, so I have to practice practice practice
03/07/2012
Contributor: cottonxcandy cottonxcandy
I voted still working on both of them
03/07/2012
Contributor: Trepier Trepier
For my girlfriend it is the anal. She is still unsure if it and of course I won't push something she isn't comfortable with.
03/08/2012
Contributor: butts butts
I barely have a gag reflex. I have to RUB the areas where the uh... I'm not sure what to call them, gag nerves? I have to rub the gag-nerve spots to get much of a reflex. However, I get tonsil stones and remove them with a bobby pin, more than once I've accidentally FLICKED the gag nerve on my left side (since that's where I normally get the stones) and made myself almost puke. Anyways, I've never had a problem deep throating at all. Learning how to properly clean for anal was a bit of a process, but it's plenty easy now. At my first few tries I cleaned SO much that I was sore and the sex wasn't too great, and once we made the mistake of using a flavored lube (which was PAINFUL on my already irritated butt), and one time I used an enema TOO much and made myself a bit queezy. All of that was just me being dumb, like I said the cleaning was a learning process but otherwise it's all been quite easy. I really wouldn't say either are hard at all.
03/08/2012
Contributor: LusciousLollypop LusciousLollypop
There needs to be a "other" option. Anal and Deepthroating were never a problem for me. I mean.. anal. I did train my ass a little before I just right into it.. but it is amazing. I never looked back. and deepthroating.. i learned that when i was 15. so no problems there.
03/09/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
im willing to do both, and im working on both, but deepthroating seems to get me each time :/ im able to be fully penetrated and enjoy it, but i wanna go deeper in that area and i want to be able to please him more so it's more of research for me now >.< but my goodness..gag reflex...
03/09/2012
Contributor: KsPlaything KsPlaything
Anal!
03/16/2012