The New Intimacy

Who initiates sex more? You or your partner?

Skip to last post
Set alerts
Updates
Forum search
Contributor: Kaleb Kaleb
50/50.
07/25/2012
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
Haha, me surprisingly.
07/30/2012
Contributor: AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
It was pretty even for years but the past 1.5-2 years I've been the initiator the vast majority of the time. He says that's only because I often beat him to the punch.
07/30/2012
Contributor: jamesrhc jamesrhc
Its usually me.
08/01/2012
Contributor: joelb42 joelb42
I initiate much more than my partner but she is always happy when I get her warmed up.
08/02/2012
Contributor: FreedominBondage FreedominBondage
I think it's pretty much equal.
08/05/2012
Contributor: Gina RPG Geek Gina RPG Geek
Quote:
Originally posted by Angelica
He does because he doesn't want it that often so I stopped trying and being let down and just let him initiate when he wants sex.
Me, I'm always horny
08/06/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
About equally? I'm pretty much always up to it, but leave it to him to initiate sometimes as I figure he needs to recharge a bit lol
08/06/2012
Contributor: edenguy edenguy
Me/Male but my SO has been initiating more and more
08/14/2012
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
My girlfriend
08/14/2012
Contributor: TiffyPixie TiffyPixie
He does most of the time.
08/15/2012
Contributor: Upyourreviews Upyourreviews
Quote:
Originally posted by xoxoxoxo
Just wanted to know.
Now that I hit my 30s, I'm always the one demanding sex, lol.
08/16/2012
Contributor: Upyourreviews Upyourreviews
Quote:
Originally posted by Angelica
He does because he doesn't want it that often so I stopped trying and being let down and just let him initiate when he wants sex.
I feel for you. I have the same issue with my man. It sucks when you reach your prime and they slow down!
08/16/2012
Contributor: Rory Rory
Normally my husband.
08/19/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
Mostly my partner as of late but we're pretty even.
08/19/2012
Contributor: SoloJoe SoloJoe
MORE ME
08/27/2012
Contributor: SoloJoe SoloJoe
MOSTLY ME MALE
08/27/2012
Contributor: MK434 MK434
I do more often than my husband but he is getting better about that.
08/27/2012
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by xoxoxoxo
Just wanted to know.
I do mostly. She just doesn't seem to get to excited about sex until she's gone a few weeks without, and why should I punish myself...
09/02/2012
Contributor: misty82 misty82
We are about equal on who initiates it
09/07/2012
Contributor: peachmarie peachmarie
I usually initiate but it often doesn't lead anywhere. So i just let him initiate. If he wants sex that's the only time it'll happen.
11/04/2012
Contributor: Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
He usually does.
11/04/2012
Contributor: minstrel69 minstrel69
Me. Can't get enough!
11/13/2012
Contributor: dawnkye dawnkye
It's about even. I would rather be jumped on ... but so would he. =p
11/13/2012
Contributor: sexytileena / absolutely love sex sexytileena / absolutely love sex
My boyfriend
11/15/2012
Contributor: sexytileena / absolutely love sex sexytileena / absolutely love sex
My boyfriend
11/15/2012
Contributor: Khalico Khalico
My sex drive is crazy low, it's almost always him.
11/17/2012
Contributor: loveme loveme
It's kind of both ways
11/20/2012
Contributor: Harpina is gone Harpina is gone
My man and I are about equal initiators.
11/25/2012
Contributor: lainebug lainebug
Quote:
Originally posted by xoxoxoxo
Just wanted to know.
I do more often
11/27/2012