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Who initiates sex more? You or your partner?

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Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I do about 85% of the time. He's tired a lot and isnt always up for it though
05/09/2012
Contributor: <3BF <3BF
she thinks she does and says kissing me is initiating, but I'm the one who really initiates it by going down on her
05/09/2012
Contributor: SherrisLover SherrisLover
I do, but she does her share too... after 31 years of marriage, it's pretty cool that she does too!
05/17/2012
Contributor: hro789 hro789
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Originally posted by xoxoxoxo
Just wanted to know.
my gf does more
05/20/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Usually girlfriend, less often me
05/30/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
we pretty much do it equally
05/30/2012
Contributor: STM STM
Quote:
Originally posted by Angelica
He does because he doesn't want it that often so I stopped trying and being let down and just let him initiate when he wants sex.
I know what you mean! I always initiate sex and am constantly being let down because he never wants it. I have tried to just stop trying but I don't have the will power lol.
06/02/2012
Contributor: Th8405 Th8405
Quote:
Originally posted by xoxoxoxo
Just wanted to know.
pretty equal
06/03/2012
Contributor: digit88 digit88
Quote:
Originally posted by xoxoxoxo
Just wanted to know.
my gf
06/03/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
I used to but I've given up for the time being, I got tired of being turned down...
06/04/2012
Contributor: FHeemz FHeemz
I'm horny 24/7, so it's me more often, she likes to get things going as well though.
06/06/2012
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
My girlfriend does, I like it.
06/06/2012
Contributor: sexydelphia sexydelphia
pretty even
06/06/2012
Contributor: nori nori
My girlfriend, usually.
06/14/2012
Contributor: Jake'n'bake Jake'n'bake
Neither.. of us? Maybe my partner more.
06/19/2012
Contributor: loveme loveme
we kinda both do. we are both crazy about sex lol
07/01/2012
Contributor: KRD KRD
Usually my man, but I initiate it a lot too.
07/02/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
It's usually him, he's always ready to go! But, we both are sex junkies so whenever either of us wants it...It's Go Time!!!
07/02/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
I am almost always the one to initiate, many times I get shot down but I persevere. He has started more though since I started buying him toys to use with me. Still it is about 95% me 5% him
07/07/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
Usually me haven't found anyone who can keep up with my sex drive
07/07/2012
Contributor: HisOneAndOnly HisOneAndOnly
Quote:
Originally posted by xoxoxoxo
Just wanted to know.
I am told that I am a horn ball because I tend to want it more than he does, but I can't help what he does to me when he is around!
07/07/2012
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Quote:
Originally posted by xoxoxoxo
Just wanted to know.
I guess I do lol
07/08/2012
Contributor: MGDavicnigirl MGDavicnigirl
When we are at home, it's 50/50. At swinger parties, he is much more outgoing than I am so he initiates.
07/12/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by xoxoxoxo
Just wanted to know.
I feel it's about even.
07/12/2012
Contributor: rekarf rekarf
I'd say we both do equally. We kinda just look at each other and know, and then get naked.
07/18/2012
Contributor: meowpuss meowpuss
its always been me.
07/24/2012
Contributor: wicked weasel wicked weasel
Very lately it's been me.
07/24/2012
Contributor: Khanner Khanner
I initiate more but he has a higher success rate than me.
07/24/2012
Contributor: princessss princessss
my boyfriend pretty much unless I get tipsy Lol.
07/24/2012
Contributor: Stark Stark
we tend to keep it fairly even but if anything it'd be me more
07/25/2012