I love all those words and phrases, but would agree with others here that there are some many many other things to say depending on the mood. If I am feeling particularly naughty I tell my husband I want to fuck him, but usually I use that word in the act. If I am feeling like I really want to be close to my husband and sweetly intimate with him then I tell him I want to make love to him. When there are kids around it is more obscure, something like "wanna go hang drapes or dust the ceiling fan?", but mostly I will just whisper what I wanna do to him at the moment I really don't have to even mention the words sex, fuck, love or anything, just "I'm gonna go in the bedroom and get naked, wanna watch?" and that gets me what I want mostly.