My 16-soon-to-be-17 year old cousin has been coming to me for sex questions lately. I am glad she feels comfortable enough to ask me and speak open about her sexuality even though we are not particularly close since I know she isn't ready to open up to her step-mom (they don't have the best relationship anyway). She is a virgin and has been curious about vibrators. If she isn't ready to have sex then I encourage masturbation over putting yourself through something you aren't ready for. I told her about EF and she was really interested and asked if I would help her get a vibrator and which one would be discreet and easy to hide. I suggested the Lelo Mia because it is small, discreet, and she can plug it in to her laptop to charge. She likes it and wants the black one. Her parents aren't super tech savvy, they if they saw it plugged in to her computer they'd assume it was a flash drive or something, especially since it is black unlike the pink and fuchsia versions. Thoughts and input on the situation?

tl;dr - My teenage cousin wants a vibrator and I suggested the Mia, do you think it is okay for a teen to have a sex toy and would that be a good first vibe for discreet purposes? less

My 16-soon-to-be-17 year old cousin has been coming to me for sex questions lately. I am glad she feels comfortable enough to ask me and speak open about her sexuality even though we are not particularly close since I know she isn't ready to open up to her step-mom (they don't have the best relationship anyway). She is a virgin and has been curious about vibrators. If she isn't ready to have sex then I encourage masturbation over putting yourself through something you aren't ready for. I told her about EF and she was really interested and asked if I would help her get a vibrator and which one would be discreet and easy to hide. I suggested the Lelo Mia because it is small, discreet, and she can plug it in to her laptop to charge. She likes it and wants the black one. Her parents aren't super tech savvy, they if they saw it plugged in to her computer they'd assume it was a flash drive or something, especially since it is black unlike the pink and fuchsia versions. Thoughts and input on the situation?

tl;dr - My teenage cousin wants a vibrator and I suggested the Mia, do you think it is okay for a teen to have a sex toy and would that be a good first vibe for discreet purposes? less