I do sometimes
How many women out there watch porn?
08/18/2011
I do sometimes. Love it when I actually do as long as it's not something with a way too cheesy and distracting story line.
08/18/2011
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Mystery Porn Theater - that sounds like the best idea I've heard in a very long time! At least a week, anyway.
Originally posted by
Dame Demi
Sure, but it's hard to find anything I'll watch without liberal use of the fast-forward button. I don't know why directors think the average viewer wants to spend 10-15 minutes watching the same people in the same position; I seriously
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Sure, but it's hard to find anything I'll watch without liberal use of the fast-forward button. I don't know why directors think the average viewer wants to spend 10-15 minutes watching the same people in the same position; I seriously get really bored without some progression or variety.
I think the adult industry, especially in films, to cater more to a female audience. The problem is, at least from what I've seen, almost everyone got it totally wrong. They took the general theory that men are stimulated visually and female stimulation is predominantly mental. I think there's probably some validity to that generalization, whether it'biological, mental, or social distinction--in my experience, the oversimplified belief that 'women read erotica, men watch visual poem's does have some weight. Its also got a whole lot of exceptions--I love 'dirty books,' but I also dig looking at naked people; and most guys I know are quite happy to read erotic stories. Unfortunately, even armed with this incredibly general and very stereotypical but kinda-sorta-semi-legit imate knowledge, they still blew it (no pun intended).
I think the new working theory of the adult film industry can be boiled down to two major points--1.) women don't want to look at ugly naked guys; and 2.) women want porn with a plot. I'm not going to argue point #1--I would definitely rather look at attractive naked people (of either sex), and I think male porn actors are, overall, more attractive than they used to be. Someone FINALLY caught on that men are infinitely more interested in looking at the glory of their penises than women are. I'm not saying a big dick doesn't help, but that's not usually ALL we look at, unless Ron Jeremy's attached to it and we frantically force our eyes not to wander any farther. (I actually do like Mr. Jeremy, and think he's a fascinating man who's good at his job, and I'm sorry for insulting him to illustrate my point.)
Ok, so the guys are hotter, and I'm quite pleased about that. Unfortunately, I don't think many people making adult films understand the actual definition of 'plot;' they seem to confuse it with 'setting' and 'premise.' So instead of watching random people in somebody's living room get naked and fuck, do some oral action, change positions and fuck some more, go anal, then admire his money shot on her face/breasts/ass/best friend, we now have the pleasure of watching people dressed as pirates in a dark room resembling someone's idea of a pirate captain's quarters speak a few lines about a pirate getting his revenge on his rival's daughter or something once she's caught stowing away on his ship dressed as a boy for some reason in someone's idea of pirate-speak get naked and fuck, do some oral action, change positions and fuck some more, say "Arrrhg!" occasionally, go anal, then admire his money shot on her face/breasts/ass/his 'galley wench' or whoever, provided we don't get sick from the camera moving to apparently emulate a rocking ship. (Sorry, I'm not intentionally trying to make this hetero-oriented, it's just one of the most common and tragic examples of pornographic failure).
Ummm...admittedly based on absolutely no authority besides being a woman, I'm fairly confident the pirates appeal to women no more than the random naked people, with the possible exception of injecting a comic element genuinely worthy of an official "Mystery Porn Theater" to celebrate its sheer stupidity. In this aspect, I think mainstream porn is actually less appealing to EVERYBODY--disappointe d women who were hoping for more, confused men who are wondering wtf's up with this pirate shit, confused men who are disappointed because this pirate shit was supposed to turn their wives on, and probably for the actors who were forced to say "Arrrhg!" while having sex.
Sadly, I think even when someone actually understands the difference between 'scenery and costumes' and 'telling a story,' the movies still disappoint more often than not. Stupid dialogue can ruin an otherwise smokin' hot sex scene, or a well-written story can be demolished by bad acting and gratuitous sex scenes added only to make sure the movie has 'enough' sex.
Again, speaking as just one woman, I would choose quality over quantity in porn every time. I get bored watching a woman bounce on a man in reverse-cowgirl for 15 minutes; changing the location and the people involved doesn't make anything more interesting; up-down-up-down may be fun to do, but it's pretty damn boring to watch after 2 or 3 minutes, no matter how many different performers are involved, where they are, or what they are/were wearing. Give me the 6-hour PBS "Pride and Prejudice" with one scene whe're Mr. Darcy shoves his cock into Lizzy's impertinent little mouth, and you've got a really happy Dame Demi!
The most overall 'successful' porn movies, for me, are those that give a nod to plot, but tell the story--not through costumes or dialog that requires fairly good actors--but through simple PROGRESSION. I think most of Candida Royalle' films really illustrate how simply linking events in a logical way excites women more than all the fancy costumes or expensive sets in the world. The movies themselves progress--brief, uncomplicated dialogue and actions lead naturally from one sex scene to the next. Providing a framework that just gives the sex some context is much more effective than trying to express your inner Shakespeare through porn and failing miserably.
I'll end this unexpectedly and unintentionally long dissertation on the importance of PROGRESSION as the key element in making adult films more appealing to women with my biggest personal problem with most mainstream (and increasingly more 'amature') porn movies--the gross overuse of editing. Progression is probably the most realistic solution to making adult films that manage to have a story without totally sucking. That said, I miss progression most in the actual sex scenes. Whatever the context, story or just 'MILFS vs. Co-Eds," the scenes I find most arousing are scenes where the sex has a beginning and follows through to its conclusion. Most of what I see is some variation on 'bounce-bounce-bounce cowgirl'--MORPH--'suck it-suck it-suck it baby'--MORPH--'you like it in the ass, dontcha?'--MORPH--'bou nce-boun...' "Wait--is that even the same woman? Where did that second guy come from?" I feel like some perverted Scotty is up there somewhere, beaming my sex scenes around! I don't think porn movies are ever appeal to a wide female audience when the writers/directors/prod ucers can get away with being lazy. It's bad enough so many movies just give the audience 15 minutes of monotonous bouncing; it's worse that most of them don't even bother to provide any transition but 'cut scene' to lead to the next 15 minutes of...whatever. By that point, I've ceased to care...provided I'm even still awake.
So there is my completely uneducated and inexperienced opinion on how to make porn more appealing to the female masses: begin the scene...let us see them make eye contact; build the scene...let us see them kiss, let us watch them undress each other with the same anticipation they feel; then just let us watch them...do whatever, what MILFs or pirates or lovers do. The most important thing is to just LET US WATCH. Changing positions isn't always graceful, but that's part of the fun--don't edit it out. I don't care if you're showing me people making love or just fucking like animals, as long as you Just SHOW ME. And every scene needs a climax (pun fully intended), but whether its internal or a facial, make it a climax, not a money shot. Women love sex; I think the elusive 'secret' to drawing a wider female audience is to make porn that actually depicts it. less
I think the adult industry, especially in films, to cater more to a female audience. The problem is, at least from what I've seen, almost everyone got it totally wrong. They took the general theory that men are stimulated visually and female stimulation is predominantly mental. I think there's probably some validity to that generalization, whether it'biological, mental, or social distinction--in my experience, the oversimplified belief that 'women read erotica, men watch visual poem's does have some weight. Its also got a whole lot of exceptions--I love 'dirty books,' but I also dig looking at naked people; and most guys I know are quite happy to read erotic stories. Unfortunately, even armed with this incredibly general and very stereotypical but kinda-sorta-semi-legit imate knowledge, they still blew it (no pun intended).
I think the new working theory of the adult film industry can be boiled down to two major points--1.) women don't want to look at ugly naked guys; and 2.) women want porn with a plot. I'm not going to argue point #1--I would definitely rather look at attractive naked people (of either sex), and I think male porn actors are, overall, more attractive than they used to be. Someone FINALLY caught on that men are infinitely more interested in looking at the glory of their penises than women are. I'm not saying a big dick doesn't help, but that's not usually ALL we look at, unless Ron Jeremy's attached to it and we frantically force our eyes not to wander any farther. (I actually do like Mr. Jeremy, and think he's a fascinating man who's good at his job, and I'm sorry for insulting him to illustrate my point.)
Ok, so the guys are hotter, and I'm quite pleased about that. Unfortunately, I don't think many people making adult films understand the actual definition of 'plot;' they seem to confuse it with 'setting' and 'premise.' So instead of watching random people in somebody's living room get naked and fuck, do some oral action, change positions and fuck some more, go anal, then admire his money shot on her face/breasts/ass/best friend, we now have the pleasure of watching people dressed as pirates in a dark room resembling someone's idea of a pirate captain's quarters speak a few lines about a pirate getting his revenge on his rival's daughter or something once she's caught stowing away on his ship dressed as a boy for some reason in someone's idea of pirate-speak get naked and fuck, do some oral action, change positions and fuck some more, say "Arrrhg!" occasionally, go anal, then admire his money shot on her face/breasts/ass/his 'galley wench' or whoever, provided we don't get sick from the camera moving to apparently emulate a rocking ship. (Sorry, I'm not intentionally trying to make this hetero-oriented, it's just one of the most common and tragic examples of pornographic failure).
Ummm...admittedly based on absolutely no authority besides being a woman, I'm fairly confident the pirates appeal to women no more than the random naked people, with the possible exception of injecting a comic element genuinely worthy of an official "Mystery Porn Theater" to celebrate its sheer stupidity. In this aspect, I think mainstream porn is actually less appealing to EVERYBODY--disappointe d women who were hoping for more, confused men who are wondering wtf's up with this pirate shit, confused men who are disappointed because this pirate shit was supposed to turn their wives on, and probably for the actors who were forced to say "Arrrhg!" while having sex.
Sadly, I think even when someone actually understands the difference between 'scenery and costumes' and 'telling a story,' the movies still disappoint more often than not. Stupid dialogue can ruin an otherwise smokin' hot sex scene, or a well-written story can be demolished by bad acting and gratuitous sex scenes added only to make sure the movie has 'enough' sex.
Again, speaking as just one woman, I would choose quality over quantity in porn every time. I get bored watching a woman bounce on a man in reverse-cowgirl for 15 minutes; changing the location and the people involved doesn't make anything more interesting; up-down-up-down may be fun to do, but it's pretty damn boring to watch after 2 or 3 minutes, no matter how many different performers are involved, where they are, or what they are/were wearing. Give me the 6-hour PBS "Pride and Prejudice" with one scene whe're Mr. Darcy shoves his cock into Lizzy's impertinent little mouth, and you've got a really happy Dame Demi!
The most overall 'successful' porn movies, for me, are those that give a nod to plot, but tell the story--not through costumes or dialog that requires fairly good actors--but through simple PROGRESSION. I think most of Candida Royalle' films really illustrate how simply linking events in a logical way excites women more than all the fancy costumes or expensive sets in the world. The movies themselves progress--brief, uncomplicated dialogue and actions lead naturally from one sex scene to the next. Providing a framework that just gives the sex some context is much more effective than trying to express your inner Shakespeare through porn and failing miserably.
I'll end this unexpectedly and unintentionally long dissertation on the importance of PROGRESSION as the key element in making adult films more appealing to women with my biggest personal problem with most mainstream (and increasingly more 'amature') porn movies--the gross overuse of editing. Progression is probably the most realistic solution to making adult films that manage to have a story without totally sucking. That said, I miss progression most in the actual sex scenes. Whatever the context, story or just 'MILFS vs. Co-Eds," the scenes I find most arousing are scenes where the sex has a beginning and follows through to its conclusion. Most of what I see is some variation on 'bounce-bounce-bounce cowgirl'--MORPH--'suck it-suck it-suck it baby'--MORPH--'you like it in the ass, dontcha?'--MORPH--'bou nce-boun...' "Wait--is that even the same woman? Where did that second guy come from?" I feel like some perverted Scotty is up there somewhere, beaming my sex scenes around! I don't think porn movies are ever appeal to a wide female audience when the writers/directors/prod ucers can get away with being lazy. It's bad enough so many movies just give the audience 15 minutes of monotonous bouncing; it's worse that most of them don't even bother to provide any transition but 'cut scene' to lead to the next 15 minutes of...whatever. By that point, I've ceased to care...provided I'm even still awake.
So there is my completely uneducated and inexperienced opinion on how to make porn more appealing to the female masses: begin the scene...let us see them make eye contact; build the scene...let us see them kiss, let us watch them undress each other with the same anticipation they feel; then just let us watch them...do whatever, what MILFs or pirates or lovers do. The most important thing is to just LET US WATCH. Changing positions isn't always graceful, but that's part of the fun--don't edit it out. I don't care if you're showing me people making love or just fucking like animals, as long as you Just SHOW ME. And every scene needs a climax (pun fully intended), but whether its internal or a facial, make it a climax, not a money shot. Women love sex; I think the elusive 'secret' to drawing a wider female audience is to make porn that actually depicts it. less
08/18/2011
I like watching porn, but I'm a little at odds with the porn industry. I do not like fake boobs or fake acting, yet the amateur stuff with "houswives" or "college girls" seems a little demeaning. I do not want to "watch hot cum guzzling bitches get brutal anal pounding", yet I like hardcore action.
Unfortunately, anything that seems geared toward female enjoyment (beyond squirting) seems to come equipped with overlayed soundtracks and a cheesy setup. I agree with Dame Demi - in gearing porn toward women, they've totally missed the point.
I get a few DVDs from time to time. I like BDSM stuff, just for the aesthetics. straight up sex, to me, is way more fun to do than watch.
Unfortunately, anything that seems geared toward female enjoyment (beyond squirting) seems to come equipped with overlayed soundtracks and a cheesy setup. I agree with Dame Demi - in gearing porn toward women, they've totally missed the point.
I get a few DVDs from time to time. I like BDSM stuff, just for the aesthetics. straight up sex, to me, is way more fun to do than watch.
08/18/2011
i used too but i don't like watching it .
08/19/2011
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I apologize in advance for the lengthy post but I am a writer and can't help myself.
This will sound pretty sad, but I am just discovering the sexual side of myself. I mean, me being in this forum on this website is a big step for me.
Just so many issues in my life have really kept me as repressed as Puritan during the Salem trials. I was molested by a female family member on and off for a few years when I was four, and then found myself being the love doll for just about every screwed up kid I knew (my parents were useless btw, they were loving and VERy involved in my life but they worked and trust is always gamble and I think my mom passed away STILL trying to make it right, bless her heart). So with all of this early fuckery going on in my life, while the other kids were experiencing their sexual awakening, I was not really into that. My high school boyfriends never got past second base.
I have two kids now and seriously, I don't even know how I had them LOL because their father (my late fiancee) was my first official foray into sex at 23 and our first time (protected mind you), I ended up pregnant. After that, I never wanted him to touch me because I was not happy (now I am). And then I let him and about year later and I got pregnant again! And he passed away not too long before our second son was born. So I literally only had sex maybe a handful of times. LOL. He was a really good guy and very patient and understanding of my issues.
I think I've always had very negative views on sex and thought myself to be quite asexual. And as a Messianic Jew, it's not like I can just go out and fuck any one I want, when I want. But deep down I've always known that I am not asexual. I am a very sexual person. And when I started watching porn awhile ago, I felt ashamed and dirty at first but when I saw these people fully sexually liberated and owning their bodies, something just clicked in my mind and I now I love it. I can get wet just thinking about it. It's been kind of theraputic for me in many ways and has taught me to love and appreciate my body. I only wish Cillian were around to benefit from the progress.
But I think it's a phase I'll grow out of. I'm not sure I really want to see people having meaningless sex all the time, but for now I can did it.
This will sound pretty sad, but I am just discovering the sexual side of myself. I mean, me being in this forum on this website is a big step for me.
Just so many issues in my life have really kept me as repressed as Puritan during the Salem trials. I was molested by a female family member on and off for a few years when I was four, and then found myself being the love doll for just about every screwed up kid I knew (my parents were useless btw, they were loving and VERy involved in my life but they worked and trust is always gamble and I think my mom passed away STILL trying to make it right, bless her heart). So with all of this early fuckery going on in my life, while the other kids were experiencing their sexual awakening, I was not really into that. My high school boyfriends never got past second base.
I have two kids now and seriously, I don't even know how I had them LOL because their father (my late fiancee) was my first official foray into sex at 23 and our first time (protected mind you), I ended up pregnant. After that, I never wanted him to touch me because I was not happy (now I am). And then I let him and about year later and I got pregnant again! And he passed away not too long before our second son was born. So I literally only had sex maybe a handful of times. LOL. He was a really good guy and very patient and understanding of my issues.
I think I've always had very negative views on sex and thought myself to be quite asexual. And as a Messianic Jew, it's not like I can just go out and fuck any one I want, when I want. But deep down I've always known that I am not asexual. I am a very sexual person. And when I started watching porn awhile ago, I felt ashamed and dirty at first but when I saw these people fully sexually liberated and owning their bodies, something just clicked in my mind and I now I love it. I can get wet just thinking about it. It's been kind of theraputic for me in many ways and has taught me to love and appreciate my body. I only wish Cillian were around to benefit from the progress.
But I think it's a phase I'll grow out of. I'm not sure I really want to see people having meaningless sex all the time, but for now I can did it.
08/19/2011
I know my wife sometimes watches porn when she is home alone and I find it exciting to know that she is masturbating while I'm gone. I love finding her back with her eyes bright. ;-)
08/19/2011
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my women does!!
Originally posted by
socceras
Just curious
09/02/2011
I LOVE PORN. Watch it with the man, without the man. Also watch it just to watch it sometimes, not to get off. Watch it to get off, too though.
09/19/2011
i watched porn for like two hours last night.
09/26/2011
Wow, these voting results surprise me!
09/26/2011
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I do when I am in the mood
Originally posted by
socceras
Just curious
10/03/2011
I actually hope to direct porn one day!
10/04/2011
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porn is awesome! and really fascinating as well
Originally posted by
socceras
Just curious
10/04/2011
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pornnnn
Originally posted by
Kitt Katt
I watch it with my husband every couple of weeks, but we never seem to make it through an entire movie
10/05/2011
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yeah
Originally posted by
Rossie
I love to watch porn. On the day when I've watched porn, I'm more eager for sex than when I did not. There was a period of time when I did not get a chance to watch porn at all, it really affected my sexual appetite to the point my husband
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I love to watch porn. On the day when I've watched porn, I'm more eager for sex than when I did not. There was a period of time when I did not get a chance to watch porn at all, it really affected my sexual appetite to the point my husband was a little mad at me.
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10/05/2011
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yeah
Originally posted by
KrystalFayeO
I think I watch too much porn... I think I watch it more than my husband...
10/05/2011
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me 3
Originally posted by
UnknownGirl
I love to have it on while having sex.
10/05/2011
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yup yup
Originally posted by
KrissyRoro
Yup !
10/05/2011
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meee tooooo
Originally posted by
Leaving Love
Personally, I love porn.
10/05/2011
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=].
Originally posted by
Jenyana
I don't watch it, but I sure do read it...
I find that if I watch porn I just end up finding it boring, but if I read it I can make it as sexy as I want.
I find that if I watch porn I just end up finding it boring, but if I read it I can make it as sexy as I want.
10/05/2011
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I watch it, i prefer to watch it alone with a good toy, alone time haha
Originally posted by
socceras
Just curious
10/06/2011
I watch it for the LOLz. For me it's comedy, because I'm too busy commentating rather than focusing on what it's actually there for. My girlfriend is my porn.
10/06/2011
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Porn is fun and I do enjoy watching it sometimes....It has to be quality stuff ya know...not crap like "Juicy Asses 15"
10/06/2011
yes, I do with my hubby all the time....
10/06/2011
I watch it occasionally, but usually only free clips and such.
11/04/2011
Good lord, I DO. I'm kind of picky about my porn, but I don't hesitate to watch it. ESPECIALLY when I'm single!
11/11/2011
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I do! Sometimes my boyfriend and I will watch it together.
Originally posted by
socceras
Just curious
11/12/2011
Love it; we usually watch it together but I watch it alone too.
11/16/2011
*puts hand up shyly at back of class*
I confess... I like porn
I confess... I like porn
11/16/2011