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Contributor: Eve12 Eve12
I don't think it is the responsibility of either partner to buy the condoms all the time, but rather to SHARE the task.

They're for both of you and it's nothing to be embarassed about, rather it's something to be proud of: you're being safe!

Being embarassed about it is a very childish and immature thing,in my opinion. If my man is embarassed to buy the condoms that he will use when he makes love to me, to protect us both...well that would just blow my mind
09/13/2012
Contributor: KrazyKandy KrazyKandy
We shop together. If we have to ask to get them then he asks and I pay with our card.
09/13/2012
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
Well I answered I pick them up and we don't use them. We do have a lot of condoms that I've bought but we only use them as a back up.
09/13/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Either...whoever thinks of it when they are out. Keep plenty on hand at all times.
09/13/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
We trade off. I bought them last time, but he bought them the time before.
01/23/2013
Contributor: ththpup ththpup
We work at a desk at a university where we can pick up free condoms.
01/23/2013
Contributor: Toy Fiend Toy Fiend
Both partners should be willing to buy.
01/23/2013
Contributor: UpTheMiddle UpTheMiddle
I am the primary condom buyer.
01/25/2013
Contributor: petlove0311 petlove0311
we don't use them
01/26/2013
Contributor: Love Lula Love Lula
Both of us.
01/26/2013
Contributor: xmanx xmanx
Either
03/09/2013
Contributor: sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
No option for the partner being the one who buys them? Well, I'm female, and my bf bought the condoms back when we needed them.
03/09/2013
Contributor: woodsdragon woodsdragon
We usually don't do them, but when we do either of us will buy them
03/23/2013
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Who buys the condoms, you or your partner? When we're shopping at Costco, my husband always makes ME pick up and pay for the condoms, he's too embarrassed to do the task.
hubby used to, but not now that we're married
03/23/2013
Contributor: edenguy edenguy
We don't use them anymore but when we did I usually bought them
03/26/2013
Contributor: Rokmai Rokmai
I have a subscription on Amazon that comes every month.
05/04/2013
Contributor: bog bog
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Who buys the condoms, you or your partner? When we're shopping at Costco, my husband always makes ME pick up and pay for the condoms, he's too embarrassed to do the task.
I grab free condoms from the clinic. Sometimes my housemates grab some, and sometimes my partner grabs some. I don't think much about it; we just always have condoms around.
05/04/2013
Contributor: marmouse marmouse
I'm a female. My partner is queer. Either of us buys the condoms but I usually try to order them bulk just for economy's sake.
05/04/2013
Contributor: Pumpk1nPatch Pumpk1nPatch
I buy the condoms because my S/O is lazy about it.
05/04/2013
Contributor: Llewey Llewey
Either of us will buy condoms, but I'm definitely not shy about purchasing them for him, or picking up free condoms from safe sex events at my college.
05/04/2013
Contributor: tami tami
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Who buys the condoms, you or your partner? When we're shopping at Costco, my husband always makes ME pick up and pay for the condoms, he's too embarrassed to do the task.
since we have been committed to each other for almost 30 years with no other partners for either of us we do not use condoms
05/04/2013
Contributor: Hornygirl92 Hornygirl92
No though in who does it really sometimes me sometimes him sometimes together. If you are embarrased to buy condoms how are you mature enough to have sex?
05/08/2013
Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
We don't use them. He's bought them once before, but I never have.
05/08/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
He usually buys them. Neither of us would mind picking them up, but we find that they are cheapest online, so we don't buy them in stores anyway.
05/16/2013