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Your partner and your sex drive

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Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
She has a bit more, but it's pretty close
04/09/2013
Contributor: Silverwinds Silverwinds
Same sex drive! Yay!
04/09/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
Mine's a bit higher.
05/14/2013
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
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Originally posted by Genderfree
I have a hard time because I have a way higher sex drive than my partner. That might also be because she's on Spironolactone (honestly, I wish she would just stop that stuff and take a different testosterone blocker). The thing is, I'm on ... more
my sex drive is a bit higher than my partner's
05/14/2013
Contributor: tami tami
Quote:
Originally posted by Genderfree
I have a hard time because I have a way higher sex drive than my partner. That might also be because she's on Spironolactone (honestly, I wish she would just stop that stuff and take a different testosterone blocker). The thing is, I'm on ... more
I have a much lower sex drive than my hubby
05/14/2013
Contributor: Clock Chime Clock Chime
It changes depending on the week, haha.
05/19/2013
Contributor: cowboywill87 cowboywill87
Quote:
Originally posted by Genderfree
I have a hard time because I have a way higher sex drive than my partner. That might also be because she's on Spironolactone (honestly, I wish she would just stop that stuff and take a different testosterone blocker). The thing is, I'm on ... more
Try something new, spice up things be spontaneously and go with the flow.
05/19/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Mine is way higher.
05/22/2013
Contributor: TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
Ugh, mine is waaaay higher than his. He's okay with sex once a week (sometimes once every two weeks). I, on the other hand, want sex everyday. I've been working on leaving him alone, (I can get kind of annoying groping him, straddling him, flashing him) by playing with my toys more. So far it's working. I'm getting mine, and he doesn't feel bad for turning me down. It's a work in process.
05/23/2013
Contributor: foxinlace foxinlace
My drive is definitely higher than my partner's. We're long-distance right now, so in a way it's more bearable because of the distance. Plus because we spend months apart, once we're together we usually have sex daily, if not more, which works for me. I'm not sure how sustainable the situation is, though, as my toybox has grown substantially in his absence and doesn't seem to be slowing.
05/26/2013
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
Me and my partner have equal (or comparable) sex drives
05/28/2013
Contributor: Bill220 Bill220
We used to have equal sex drives but mine is much higher than hers now. I'm on antidepressants, too. If I wasn't, my sex drive would be through the roof. Needless to say, I masturbate a lot.
05/28/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
I have a higher sex drive than my SO and he's on Cialis, go figure! There is nothing I can do to magically turn him and so, (patiently?) I wait. During that time I have my toys and they help me in between. I found it can be more stress on your partner and yourself if you constantly want it and they don't. I found a couple of Sexis Articles on this, they helped somewhat but I understand and empathize with you not to be able to "share" more frequently.
05/28/2013
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
Hubby has a lower sex drive. My other partner has one that is comparable to me.
05/28/2013
Contributor: Slutty Girl Problems Slutty Girl Problems
Ours fluctuates - though we do a pretty good job realizing and meeting each others' needs
10/29/2013
Contributor: CinnamonNights CinnamonNights
My boyfriend is pretty much always up to sex, while I in contrast don't really want sex very often (maybe once or twiiice a week?). Admittedly I do have a bit lower of a sex drive for sex, I prefer masturbation.
10/29/2013