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What fuels your sex drive?

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Contributor: mnc5051 mnc5051
Curious to see what everyone has in common and what differences
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Love
Onanist , Sebmissive , Yiggi , Kimbertrees , Gunsmoke , Chilipepper , Sammi , Sera , Naughty Student , kinky girlfriend , Pleasure Piratess , lilly555 , ZenaidaMacroura , Adriana Ravenlust , Phoenix713 , SexyTabby , sarahbear , DeliciousSurprise , Lummox , moonlitlilly , Faith , Redboxbaby , Stujen , gothikstars , Twist , ToyTimeTim , OroNomi , Taylor , sasweetheart89 , Yoda , the bedroom blogger , LittleBoPeep , Emma (Girl With Fire) , *HisMrs* , D&&JForever , MoonRei , Raggedy Andie , Angel deSanguine , Lady Venus , cdawn , PussyGalore , VieuxCarre , removedacnt , ninaspinkturtle , Danielle1220 , 34 , markeagleone , zracer , Airekah , dhig , Hallmar82 , newlady , ellejay , Waterfall , Confusedxfreak , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , ❦Angel Of Music❦ , viciouschristine , kittychilla , ac0313 , wetone123 , MaryExy , purplekidney , Rossie , tickle me pink , k3 , Karen Affeldt , SexyLilPixi , Miss Anonymous , Bignuf , PropertyOfPotter , Caprieclipse , thebest , potstickers , Airen Wolf , KinkBiLove , K101 , EvilHomer , frisky069 , Sunshineamine , jeangel246 , TameTemptress , TheBadHobbit , AndroAngel , StephieBoo02 , Do emu , romstomp , Azule , corsetsaurus rex , BlooJay , hall5885 , The Geek , ejrbrndps , kims89 , hhh , MissCandyland , SadoMas , table38792 , bunny love , leanright69 , Rory , ellieprobable , joelb42 , SMichelle , lilacviolet , ginnyluvspotter , Vanille , lainebug , Supervixen , Bittenflame , Martiniman , Missmarc , sillylilkitten , Jennifer87 , nikki0668 , novanilla , minstrel69 , BrittaniMaree , edeneve , Bleu , Gr8pumpkin
121
Lust
Sebmissive , Trashley , Yiggi , Tart , Kimbertrees , pinkzombie , OhMy! , leatherlover , Gunsmoke , Chilipepper , Sammi , Naughty Student , kinky girlfriend , Pleasure Piratess , Coralbell , Aly890 , darthkitt3n , lilly555 , ZenaidaMacroura , Adriana Ravenlust , Phoenix713 , SexyTabby , sarahbear , DeliciousSurprise , Avant-garde , Lummox , Selective Sensualist , moonlitlilly , Faith , eve2603 , PassionQT , Redboxbaby , Stujen , gothikstars , Twist , ToyTimeTim , OroNomi , Taylor , sasweetheart89 , Yoda , Love Buzz , the bedroom blogger , LittleBoPeep , Emma (Girl With Fire) , Raggedy Andie , Angel deSanguine , Lady Venus , Kiwi , PussyGalore , VieuxCarre , removedacnt , ninaspinkturtle , Danielle1220 , 34 , Airekah , kawigrl , dhig , newlady , ellejay , Waterfall , Confusedxfreak , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Darling Jen , ❦Angel Of Music❦ , M121212 , lemony , kittychilla , ac0313 , (Re)tired Stripper , Sexybabee , wetone123 , MaryExy , purplekidney , Rossie , tickle me pink , Karen Affeldt , kelaaa33wish , SexyLilPixi , Nando , link82 , Bignuf , PropertyOfPotter , potstickers , Airen Wolf , briluminary , KinkBiLove , excraft , EvilHomer , Sunshineamine , ily , jeangel246 , TameTemptress , zeb , TheBadHobbit , emilia , Do emu , romstomp , Azule , Bex1331 , BlooJay , hall5885 , ViVix , ejrbrndps , hhh , chelly411 , lia ayala , MissCandyland , SadoMas , table38792 , leanright69 , icyqueen , joelb42 , SMichelle , lilacviolet , ginnyluvspotter , atorturedsoul , Supervixen , Bittenflame , Missmarc , Trixxxy , sillylilkitten , nikki0668 , novanilla , minstrel69 , BrittaniMaree , padmeamidala , edeneve , joiedejouets , Bleu , Creepellah , Gr8pumpkin
131
Money
Creativity
Kimbertrees , Gunsmoke , Phoenix713 , SexyTabby , moonlitlilly , Twist , OroNomi , sasweetheart89 , Love Buzz , the bedroom blogger , Emma (Girl With Fire) , Raggedy Andie , Angel deSanguine , ninaspinkturtle , 34 , Confusedxfreak , M121212 , (Re)tired Stripper , Sexybabee , MaryExy , purplekidney , tickle me pink , kelaaa33wish , SexyLilPixi , Bignuf , potstickers , K101 , AndroAngel , Do emu , hot n spicey , Azule , Bex1331 , corsetsaurus rex , hall5885 , ViVix , leanright69 , icyqueen , SMichelle , lilacviolet , Supervixen , Bittenflame , Trixxxy , BrittaniMaree , Bleu , Creepellah
45
Pain
Trashley , Tart , lilly555 , SexyTabby , OroNomi , the bedroom blogger , Angel deSanguine , M121212 , (Re)tired Stripper , Sexybabee , MaryExy , tickle me pink , KinkBiLove , AndroAngel , Do emu , ViVix , SadoMas , Bittenflame , novanilla
19
Anger
Adriana Ravenlust , Love Buzz , the bedroom blogger , ninaspinkturtle , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , (Re)tired Stripper , Sexybabee , Airen Wolf , KinkBiLove , ViVix , Trixxxy , novanilla
12
Disgust
Sexybabee
1
Fantasy
Onanist , Sebmissive , Kimbertrees , leatherlover , Gunsmoke , Chilipepper , Sammi , Sera , Naughty Student , Pleasure Piratess , Coralbell , ZenaidaMacroura , Adriana Ravenlust , Phoenix713 , SexyTabby , DeliciousSurprise , Lummox , Selective Sensualist , moonlitlilly , Redboxbaby , Twist , OroNomi , Taylor , sasweetheart89 , Love Buzz , the bedroom blogger , Emma (Girl With Fire) , Raggedy Andie , Lady Venus , PussyGalore , VieuxCarre , removedacnt , ninaspinkturtle , Danielle1220 , Airekah , Purpleladybug , dhig , newlady , ellejay , Confusedxfreak , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Darling Jen , M121212 , lemony , kittychilla , ac0313 , (Re)tired Stripper , Sexybabee , wetone123 , MaryExy , purplekidney , tickle me pink , k3 , Karen Affeldt , kelaaa33wish , Liz123 , potstickers , Airen Wolf , briluminary , KinkBiLove , EvilHomer , EJ , jeangel246 , zeb , TheBadHobbit , Do emu , Azule , Bex1331 , corsetsaurus rex , hall5885 , ViVix , SadoMas , table38792 , icyqueen , ellieprobable , joelb42 , SMichelle , lilacviolet , Vanille , Supervixen , Bittenflame , Trixxxy , sillylilkitten , Jennifer87 , Hummingbird , novanilla , minstrel69 , BrittaniMaree , padmeamidala , Bleu , Creepellah , Gr8pumpkin
92
other
Latsyrc728 , Chilipepper , namelesschaos , Naughty Student , lilly555 , DeliciousSurprise , Redboxbaby , Taylor , the bedroom blogger , Lady Venus , removedacnt , kawigrl , Darling Jen , ❦Angel Of Music❦ , M121212 , viciouschristine , (Re)tired Stripper , Sexybabee , MaryExy , purplekidney , k3 , Sex'и'Violence , Bignuf , potstickers , Airen Wolf , TheBadHobbit , AndroAngel , Do emu , Breas , hall5885 , MissYouBubbles , bunny love , SMichelle , Supervixen , Kyle Hunter , edeneve , Bleu
37
i dont know what you mean....
ily , Llahsram , RonLee
3
Total votes: 461 (172 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Trashley Trashley
Love isn't sexy to me in the least, but I have some weird views on love. Lust and pain are my things.. lust IS pain, baby!
11/08/2010
Contributor: Tart Tart
I had never thought about it before. Pain and lust, baby. If I want it... I'm gonna get it!
11/08/2010
Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
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Originally posted by mnc5051
Curious to see what everyone has in common and what differences
Lust, control, pain, love...all of it!
11/08/2010
Contributor: Latsyrc728 Latsyrc728
I put other. It is more some uncontrollable, horny urge. Sure, I love my Husband and want to be with him. However, I get in the mood at random times throughout the day that really have nothing to do with anything in particular. Maybe i am just a horn dog. : )
11/09/2010
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Mine's dead right now. :-/ But then stress has sort of taken over my life at the moment, so maybe it'll come back later. I know it loves to be loved and desired ... the possibility of something happening moves it into overdrive, so that's where the fantasy comes in. Just ... currently not in any situation for possibilities or affection. So it died. This is exactly what it felt like while I was married.
11/09/2010
Contributor: Sera Sera
Quote:
Originally posted by mnc5051
Curious to see what everyone has in common and what differences
Love and Fantasy, I'd have to say.
11/10/2010
Contributor: namelesschaos namelesschaos
I put other because while I don't know what fuels my sex drive per say I know what shuts it down and that would be stress and frustration two things I have a lot of in my life right now. So the lack of those would be the best "fuel" I could get now.
11/10/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
Sometimes when I am listening to a really good rock song really loud, it gets me roudy!
11/10/2010
Contributor: Phoenix713 Phoenix713
Quote:
Originally posted by mnc5051
Curious to see what everyone has in common and what differences
Love makes up the majority of my sex drive. If I didn't love her, I wouldn't even kiss her.
11/11/2010
Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
Stress! Stress totally makes me wanna fuck my anxiety away
11/11/2010
Contributor: Faith Faith
Love, lust, and fantasy... the common denominator is my gf though.
11/14/2010
Contributor: Twist Twist
Quote:
Originally posted by mnc5051
Curious to see what everyone has in common and what differences
Love/Lust/Creativity/F antasy would be my vote.


I like to do it with her because I love her...she is hot so I lust after her. I like to do creative things in bed (new poses/positions) and I love to see her dress up in cosplay/lingerie.
11/17/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Sera
Love and Fantasy, I'd have to say.
Same here, I love not being in control...
I spend so much time fretting and worrying about everything.
11/17/2010
Contributor: Love Buzz Love Buzz
So many things fuel mine, but I guess the least common one is anger, I just figure it's a bit like alcoholics or drug addicts.. they get hurt/angry and want too drink/use. I get andgry & I want to have sex...but it's a strange but specific anger that fuels it.
12/18/2010
Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
Quote:
Originally posted by Trashley
Love isn't sexy to me in the least, but I have some weird views on love. Lust and pain are my things.. lust IS pain, baby!
Love is pain, lust is instant gratification in the making.
01/10/2011
Contributor: Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
60% love, 30% lust, 10% dirty naughtiness.
01/10/2011
Contributor: KrissyRoro KrissyRoro
im plenty driven LOL
01/26/2011
Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
Quote:
Originally posted by mnc5051
Curious to see what everyone has in common and what differences
That's a tricky question. I think, for the most part, it's love. But honestly,lust,creativi ty and fantasy follow that-when love is envolved.
01/26/2011
Contributor: Airekah Airekah
I think my sex drive is too strong.
01/26/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Love and lust for my husband are probably the things that fuel my drive. However, more than those, is the trust we share and the feeling of being desired by him that really stokes the coals. I feel like I can say anything to him and that my heart is always in good hands where he is concerned. He is a planner and the amount of thought and creativity that he puts into a special evening is very flattering and highly seductive.
01/30/2011
Contributor: Confusedxfreak Confusedxfreak
Love, lust, creativity and fantasy. I'm pretty much "on" all the time so all these mixed together is awesome. Especially when trying new things, toys and what not. They fuel my hunger
01/30/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
Interesting choices... Love, lust, fantasy... and even anger sometimes
02/08/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
Eroticism and enough spare time fuel my sex drive.
03/02/2011
Contributor: lemony lemony
Good old fashioned lust.
03/05/2011
Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
Last year, at 47 yrs old, I found out I had a low testosterone count and my sex drive seemed to be low. After hormone therapy, my count rose to the lower end of normal, but my sex drive did not improve. I realized that I was no longer attracted to my wife of 24 years and after struggling with our marriage for the past 11 years, we have ended it. Now, I have a new partner who excites me in all possible ways and my sex drive is through the roof. Oh, and I had my testosterone rechecked recently and found out it is now compeletly normal again...
03/31/2011
Contributor: (Re)tired Stripper (Re)tired Stripper
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Originally posted by Trashley
Love isn't sexy to me in the least, but I have some weird views on love. Lust and pain are my things.. lust IS pain, baby!
I am just like that. I wish I wasn't! But that's how I'm hardwired, so I'll live.

I'm lust and pain...those are my fuel...add a little bit of fantasy and some creativity/intellect and I'm putty in the hands of whoever is around at the moment.
04/13/2011
Contributor: purplekidney purplekidney
He: Sex powers my sex drive!

She: And they said perpetual motion was impossible.
04/14/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
Love comes first for me. After that fantasy and creativity are what really get me going. Gotta keep it interesting and spontaneous!
04/18/2011
Contributor: k3 k3
Love! Watching Him do everyday stuff, and knowing that gorgeous, sexy man is mine...mm. And fantasy, of course, those help. ;]
04/30/2011