The New Intimacy

Do you think there's a "too high" of a number of sexual partners?

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Contributor: bratcat bratcat
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Originally posted by aluminummm
Nope. Fuck slut shaming.

100% agree. it's seriously that simple.
02/05/2013
Contributor: earthmama earthmama
I think it will vary based on the age of the person and when they started, the poster who talked about how many per year was on to something... but also I think it depends if they were all in relationships or all out of any official relationship, and if there was overlap. I would say there isn't a specific number... I think the context tells the story more than the numbers.
02/08/2013
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
There really is no such thing in my opinion as too many lovers. I also would not break it off with a person because I found out that they had a high number. I see it this way, I am attracted to a person for who they are not who or how many they may haven been with.
03/12/2013
Contributor: KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
To each is own. Who am I to judge how many partners another person has had?
03/14/2013
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
When you start forgetting them all...
03/14/2013
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
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Originally posted by TexasBrat
Is there such a thing in your opinion, as TOO MANY lovers? If so, what is that number? If you were attracted to someone, and you found out they'd gone past your acceptable number of lovers, would you break it off with them?
That is up to the individual...to each there own.
03/15/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
To each their own...I think everyone has their own number.
03/15/2013
Contributor: Allison.Wilder Allison.Wilder
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Originally posted by TexasBrat
Is there such a thing in your opinion, as TOO MANY lovers? If so, what is that number? If you were attracted to someone, and you found out they'd gone past your acceptable number of lovers, would you break it off with them?
The number is whatever the person is comfortable with, honestly. If I slept with 2, 20 or 200 men, it's all up to me.

If I met someone who had slept with over like 1,000 people, I'd be a little skeptical and would want them to get tested before anything happened (which is smart for anyone no matter what their numbers are) but it wouldn't be a dealbreaker unless they cheated to get to those numbers. I'm all for casual sex, but never for cheating.
03/21/2013
Contributor: GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
No, I don't think there's "too many" any more than there could be "too few", it's whatever feels right for the person. Also, I don't think it's something I should ask my partner. It's none of my business and there's no reason I need to know.
03/21/2013
Contributor: Silverwinds Silverwinds
There is no real universal right way or wrong way for everyone when it comes to things like these, and something that may be right for one person may be completely wrong for another. In this instance, I would prefer that my lover not have 100 girls before me, because I worry about STDs and whether or not he's knocked up some poor girl and left her with that responsibility. It's more about safety and protecting myself from getting hurt, but if that's not something you have to worry about, then more power to you!
03/21/2013
Contributor: sunflower sunflower
Nah, go crazy. I guess with a relationship it's slightly concerning if they've been with a huge number of people, but it's not a dealbreaker.
06/15/2013
Contributor: Lucifer the Cat Lucifer the Cat
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Originally posted by aluminummm
Nope. Fuck slut shaming.
TRUTH. Anyone can ~literally~ do whatever they want.
10/29/2013
Contributor: Slutty Girl Problems Slutty Girl Problems
Death to slut-shaming!! Number is only a number - everyone should feel free to safely enjoy their sexuality. As long as it's not hurting anyone, higher numbers are a-okay.
10/29/2013
Contributor: CinnamonNights CinnamonNights
Uhhh.. I say that there isn't really a number that is quite too big, but..

Admittedly I think it's a bit much if you hit up 200+ different people for sex, but as long as you aren't hurting anyone or yourself then go ahead.

Though since some people mention it, I don't think it's right to have sex just so you can break a record. Sex for love, sex for pleasure, but not just for a trophy of some sort.

As for slut shaming, eh have sex with whoever you want as long as it's consensual, safe, and not ruining someone's relationship.
10/29/2013
Contributor: Lucifer the Cat Lucifer the Cat
10/30/2013
Contributor: Lucifer the Cat Lucifer the Cat
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Originally posted by Slutty Girl Problems
Death to slut-shaming!! Number is only a number - everyone should feel free to safely enjoy their sexuality. As long as it's not hurting anyone, higher numbers are a-okay.
amen
10/31/2013