Did your sex drive die on birth control?

Contributor: FaerieLove FaerieLove
I was on birth control for about 11 years (the pill) I tried various kinds and recently came off it for the first time in all those years and let me just say, I am shocked at how much those little pills killed my sex drive! Did anyone else suffer from their sex drive dying on birthcontrol? What kind were you on? If birth control did kill your sex drive did it return when you came off them?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
What sex drive? On birth control there was none.
catgirl9 , Ghost , DesertIsland , VanillaFreeSex , MistressDandelion , MissCara , CadmiumKitty , earthmama , Lady of the Lab
9
It was the same as it was before birth control.
CoffeeCup , SilverIsis , Wild Orchid , amandaco2011 , Ms. Spice , Apirka , blondie , LovesAPoet , indiglo , pasdechat , *Camoprincess* , Khanner , toxie m , Ahatmadeofshoes12 , SMichelle , Beck , Kitka , Red Vinyl Kitty , Mistress Sassy , Zandrock , wetone123 , Hummingbird , Allison.Wilder
23
Birth control actually improved my sex drive.
TexasBrat
1
I noticed a definite decrease in my sex drive on birth control.
FaerieLove , Diabolical Kitty , Redboxbaby , darthkitt3n , padmeamidala , pinkcupcakes , NuclearTeapot , MistressDandelion , gorgeous , firefly1330 , tiggle biddies , Breas , elli , d.wooldridge , Do emu , submarinerswife81 , pirata , Amber1319 , earthmama , Lildrummrgurl7 , lildrummergrl693 , KinkyKatieJames
22
I'm not on birth control.
AngelvMaynard , DeliciousDrip , Pink Jewel , Diabolical Kitty , MeliPixie , 7Miles , pootpootpoot , Ilovelingerie , ginas , ghent529 , Red Vinyl Kitty , unfulfilled , snowminx
13
Something not listed above.
Annemarie , Coralbell , samopayn , Raigne , Chami , Mistress Sassy
6
Total votes: 74 (69 voters)
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Contributor: catgirl9 catgirl9
I was on the Depo for years and had no sex drive. About a year after quitting it, my sex drive came back. It's been great ever since!
08/27/2011
Contributor: CoffeeCup CoffeeCup
I never noticed a difference.
08/27/2011
Contributor: FaerieLove FaerieLove
Quote:
Originally posted by catgirl9
I was on the Depo for years and had no sex drive. About a year after quitting it, my sex drive came back. It's been great ever since!
Yeah I've heard Depo has some serious effects. It's good that your sex drive came back
08/27/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Quote:
Originally posted by FaerieLove
Yeah I've heard Depo has some serious effects. It's good that your sex drive came back
The depo is the DEVIL!! I was on it for about 6 months (2cycles) I will NEVER go on that agin.
08/27/2011
Contributor: Annemarie Annemarie
Edit:

Wrote a whole spiel about finding one that works for you, and found it doesn't apply.

Yeah, I've had one variety that killed my sex drive, but switched to something different and found it's fine.
08/27/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
I am not on it now, but when I was, it was decreased.
08/28/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I think it might have gone down a little, but I'm not 100% sure.
08/28/2011
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
Yeah, mine's been gone for a while too.. but I am so scared of having children, I have to stay on birth control.
08/28/2011
Contributor: catgirl9 catgirl9
Quote:
Originally posted by FaerieLove
Yeah I've heard Depo has some serious effects. It's good that your sex drive came back
Yeah the Depo was pretty nasty for me. I was on it for 8 (if I remember right) years and it wasn't until after I went off it that I realized just how much it messed me up. When my husband's employer switched insurance companies he was able to get a vasectomy for $30, and I went off the Depo.
08/28/2011
Contributor: darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I've been on three different pills so far and all three have significantly lowered my sex drive.
08/28/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
The BC pill weakened my drive, Depo killed it. Barrier methods don't bother it, as long as I don't use Noxinal 9, because it burns.
08/28/2011
Contributor: SilverIsis SilverIsis
I've been on Depo for 10 years and I would have to say that my sex drive is stronger then most men that I have been with. That said, I am also on a few steroidal medications so they may cancel each-other out.
08/28/2011
Contributor: Wild Orchid Wild Orchid
I was on Diane35 for a few months because of hormonal problems. Didn't notice any change.
08/28/2011
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
Big time. Didn't even realize it was the main culprit until I stopped taking it. I also realized it was exacerbating my depression quite a bit.

It had actually caused relationship issues.

I wish there was a birth control option that was right for me. None of them are. Sucks for me. Many women have this issue.
08/28/2011
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
Quote:
Originally posted by catgirl9
Yeah the Depo was pretty nasty for me. I was on it for 8 (if I remember right) years and it wasn't until after I went off it that I realized just how much it messed me up. When my husband's employer switched insurance companies he was able to ... more
yay for vasectomies! I'm not that lucky.
08/28/2011
Contributor: amandaco2011 amandaco2011
I think I got lucky. My partner and I have not notices a change since I went on the pill. It was something I was very concerned about when I started.
08/28/2011
Contributor: FaerieLove FaerieLove
Yeah I noticed after I came off BC my moods improved drastically as well and I didnt have the 'lows' i normally got. I am scared of unplanned pregnancy but I try to be careful and always use condoms.
08/28/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
BC really hasn't bothered me that much. if anything, i'm not a crazy hormonal bitch, which is always a good thing. my sex drive is about the same.
08/28/2011
Contributor: NuclearTeapot NuclearTeapot
While it did decrease my sex drive did not die. Also, the lack of killer cramps and shorter periods are worth it. I am fine with a little more foreplay in exchange for baby free sex.
08/28/2011
Contributor: 7Miles 7Miles
My fiance wants me to get on birth control but I'm worried about it killing whats left of my sex drive, especially after seeing this poll! Hopefully it won't change too much.
09/14/2011
Contributor: samopayn samopayn
My BC has helped a tiny bit.
10/20/2011
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
I've only taken birth control pills briefly (they had a horrible effect on my hormones and moods), but I don't recall any increase or decrease in sex drive.
02/27/2012
Contributor: Raigne Raigne
Sex drive has decreased, but I figured it was from my antidepressant, which works too well to switch off of. I started the BC around the same time though, so now this thread has me wondering...
04/07/2012
Contributor: gorgeous gorgeous
After I restarted my birth control I did not want to have sex at all or have anything to do with sex. After the first 1.5 packs of pills I was back to normal. I even wanted to have lots of sex not sure if this had anything to do with it or if that is my normal sex drive.
04/24/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Being on the pill never has affected my sex drive. I'm currently on continuous birth control, and that hasn't affected my sex drive either. I'm lucky in that respect.
04/24/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
Mine stayed the same
04/24/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by FaerieLove
I was on birth control for about 11 years (the pill) I tried various kinds and recently came off it for the first time in all those years and let me just say, I am shocked at how much those little pills killed my sex drive! Did anyone else suffer ... more
I'm not on b/c and never have been, so I wouldn't know.
04/24/2012
Contributor: Khanner Khanner
Mine stayed the same but it made me feel numb. During the end of my birth control experiment, it took 2 hours of sex and jerking off to come. I was so glad it wasn't a permanent side effect.
04/24/2012
Contributor: ginas ginas
Quote:
Originally posted by FaerieLove
I was on birth control for about 11 years (the pill) I tried various kinds and recently came off it for the first time in all those years and let me just say, I am shocked at how much those little pills killed my sex drive! Did anyone else suffer ... more
I am not on birth control right now.
04/24/2012