Can we have some honest answers?

Contributor: Rory Rory
Definitely not everyday. I've never been turned down by my husband but everyday would be his dream.
08/08/2012
Contributor: Layenna Layenna
Being a 22 year old man, I am very capable of going multiple times every day. I guess my girlfriend does too
08/09/2012
Contributor: solita solita
I'm submissive, and in my dynamic with my partner, I would never explicitly turn him down. I do, however, grumble and explain that I am super tired and if he wants to fuck me, he can, but I'm just going to lie there like a dead fish and hope he finishes quickly. So far he hasn't been too interested in having sex with me like that!

Also, I suppose I should never say never. If I'm extraordinarily angry and we need to put our dynamic on hold in order to discuss our issues, and he's enough of an asshole to push for sex in the middle of that, I do believe I'd smack him. But I can't imagine him being that much of an ass.
08/14/2012
Contributor: Abombadong Abombadong
if i had it my way we would have sex every night
08/14/2012
Contributor: SadoMas SadoMas
or at least i would
08/26/2012
Contributor: MissYouBubbles MissYouBubbles
Unless I or hubby are deathly ill, we do honestly have sex everyday. Sometimes there might be toys involved, other times it might just be a quickie. But since I had my hysterectomy, my sex drive is insane!
08/28/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
We usually have sex daily. Sometimes we miss a day due to our schedules, but we typically make up for it the day after.
08/28/2012
Contributor: kitty91 kitty91
we dont have sex everyday.. but almost everyday! my husband never turns down sex though!
08/28/2012
Contributor: Rey Rey
not everyday, no need to force it if the other (or both) can't/don't want
08/31/2012
Contributor: lia ayala lia ayala
we dont do it everyday
09/12/2012
Contributor: Pink Lily Pink Lily
I always sleep better after sex, but sometimes I'm just to exhausted to move.
11/19/2012
Contributor: shielaray shielaray
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Originally posted by Rossie
Sometimes when I come across similar threads, a lot of EFers claim they have sex every single day, what about you? There are times when I'm too exhausted from chores, and I want nothing to do with sex, am I the only one? I'm going to keep ... more
I am usually up for it, but sometimes (if we have sex a more than once a day a few days in a row) I am kind of sore and just want to take a break. That's fine for both my partner and I. I guess it depends on more than one factor.
11/20/2012
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Sometimes when I come across similar threads, a lot of EFers claim they have sex every single day, what about you? There are times when I'm too exhausted from chores, and I want nothing to do with sex, am I the only one? I'm going to keep ... more
I will have sex with my partner every day, no matter how tired I am.
11/20/2012
Contributor: naturegirl naturegirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Ms. Spice
When I'm in a relationship, I expect to have sex every single day. If not, then I try not to bitch (too much)
Exactly!
11/20/2012
Contributor: Bill220 Bill220
There are some days when I'm too tired or just don't feel like it.
Ideally, I'd like to have sex 3-4 times per week. My sex drive used to be much higher but as I've gotten older it has decreased somewhat.
11/21/2012
Contributor: jr2012 jr2012
sheesh I'm always skeptical of the sex fiends too!

I only have couple sex a few times a month, and masturbate maybe 2 or 3 times a week, depending on how I'm feeling! It's possible I just have a lower sex drive though.
11/21/2012
Contributor: ska ska
Honey, I'm tired, let's take a break tonight.
11/21/2012
Contributor: atorturedsoul atorturedsoul
I would have sex every day, and we used to. Now that hubby has knee problems, it's a lot less often. I'm taking it every time he offers - tired or not.
12/06/2012
Contributor: lainebug lainebug
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Sometimes when I come across similar threads, a lot of EFers claim they have sex every single day, what about you? There are times when I'm too exhausted from chores, and I want nothing to do with sex, am I the only one? I'm going to keep ... more
U sed to be more often when we were first married yeah it seemed like every day.
12/16/2012
Contributor: falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Sometimes when I come across similar threads, a lot of EFers claim they have sex every single day, what about you? There are times when I'm too exhausted from chores, and I want nothing to do with sex, am I the only one? I'm going to keep ... more
i will have sex no matter what. my sex drive is much higher than my fiances, so when he is in the mood ill do it no matter what. him on the other hand, if hes tired, then he is tired and it is not going to happen.
12/16/2012
Contributor: spiced spiced
I'd gladly have sex with her every day (or at least almost every day) if she wanted to. She only wants to have sex once or twice a week. Which is actually fine, because I enjoy masturbation, too. And playing with my toys.
12/22/2012
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
There are always people that are going to lie about how much sex they have, even when the poll is anonymous. I think it just makes them feel better or something. I can promise you, though, there is not a single person on the site that has sex every single day. Hell, I'm sure even hookers take a day off.
12/22/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Sometimes when I come across similar threads, a lot of EFers claim they have sex every single day, what about you? There are times when I'm too exhausted from chores, and I want nothing to do with sex, am I the only one? I'm going to keep ... more
when i was in a long-term relationship, yes sleep often came first when it was an early wake up the next day
12/22/2012
Contributor: Bleu Bleu
Well, I'm sure my boyfriend and I would have sex a few times a week if it weren't for the fact that we live so far apart. Now, when we were together we did basically have sex everyday but that was because we had no little time together.
12/22/2012
Contributor: Ivanna Ivanna
some days its just impossible with kids in the house
12/22/2012
Contributor: KissTheSkyBaby KissTheSkyBaby
In a perfect world I would I want to have sex everyday and sometimes multiple times a day however there are some times like tonight where I'm in too much pain to be in the mood. That's not to say I wouldn't change my mind if persuaded be he doesn't always want to persuade me. Some times he'd rather game out on his xbox and that's ok with me
12/22/2012
Contributor: LoveDrunk LoveDrunk
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Sometimes when I come across similar threads, a lot of EFers claim they have sex every single day, what about you? There are times when I'm too exhausted from chores, and I want nothing to do with sex, am I the only one? I'm going to keep ... more
Honestly, there have been very, very few times that I ever skip sex because I am too tired.
01/11/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I did have sex daily, sometimes more than once when my sexual explosion started. it's leveled off, so it's not daily but it's every 2 or 3 days & still sometimes more than once.
01/11/2013
Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
We don't have a set amount or anything, we do it when we're in the mood. I used to be obsessive about how often because I felt like it wasn't normal NOT to have sex daily. When we first moved in together it was way more often but that was close to 2 years ago. Now it's an amount that we are both comfortable with. We're always very touchy-feely though. Always lots of snuggles and love A lot of times we'll just do the other stuff and call it a night.
01/12/2013
Contributor: fizzygato fizzygato
I have casual sex as it comes.

I've never been in a long-lasting relationship that involved sex, let alone any form of physical contact.

I masturbate almost daily, and because most of my sexual activity comes from masturbation, I define "sex drought" in such a way that it revolves around masturbation; I define it as having not masturbated in a week.

I feel like when I go over to friends' I feel bad when I masturbate at their place, so that's when the droughts happen. ha, sometimes they're only like 3 days but sometimes it feels like a week
01/20/2013