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What age would be your ideal age for a sex partner?

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Contributor: AlianneCimorene AlianneCimorene
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Originally posted by The Honeymooners
I am interested to see everyone's opinion and ideas behind thier fantasies about that certain age range they pick. Give description of your age and the age you chose and why.
I'm 20, and I'd want my partner to be a bit older than me, but no older than, say, 28, since I'd like to think I'm a pretty mature person and would want my partner to be of the same maturity, or more.
06/22/2012
Contributor: ginainohio ginainohio
no more than a 5 year gap
06/22/2012
Contributor: epiphanyjayne epiphanyjayne
I'm 27 tomorrow I like my guy older 10 years or more
06/27/2012
Contributor: lecanis lecanis
I'm 31, so I chose around the same age. I don't really have strong feelings about it in terms of sex partners, actually. As long as someone is a) legal and b) physically able to have sex of some sort, I don't really think about the age issue.

In terms of dating, I do tend to think about it a little more, but it's more in terms of whether people want to deal with children and what their priorities are, which isn't completely about age but can be related to it.
06/27/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
For me it varies so I did the 18-50
I am newly single and usually date guys my age or up to 5 years older then me. However I am now attracted to and attracting OLDER men which I am fine with
07/01/2012
Contributor: marshmallow marshmallow
21-25
07/06/2012
Contributor: Rory Rory
I suppose its not fair for me to vote I'm still with my first lover and he's less than 2 years older than me.
08/26/2012
Contributor: chelly411 chelly411
I think like 25 years older just because they are old enough to have a ton of experience at sex but they are young enough to still be able to hang out and do things together
09/01/2012
Contributor: Aisling Aisling
I'm 25 and I voted "29-34" and "35-40", so I guess my general range is about 5 to 15 years, but I'm not really strict about that.
09/03/2012
Contributor: anonkitty anonkitty
I'm 24 and I prefer at the very least 3-5 years older than me. Dating guys my age frustrates me.
09/04/2012
Contributor: JLster JLster
I'm 23 and I love older men 30-40yrs old. They have this charm and confidences that I love!
09/06/2012
Contributor: swaggsohott12 swaggsohott12
27 like to stay in my range.
10/23/2012
Contributor: loveme loveme
I'm 21 I would love to have sex with someone more experienced who knows exactly what to do. Maybe in their mid 30s
10/25/2012
Contributor: MrsHouseWife MrsHouseWife
I prefer guys my own age, slightly older so I picked 25-28. But I do have my older man fantasies every now and then
10/25/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by The Honeymooners
I am interested to see everyone's opinion and ideas behind thier fantasies about that certain age range they pick. Give description of your age and the age you chose and why.
29-34
10/25/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I tend to like men around 25-30 years old. I am 28.
10/26/2012
Contributor: zz1aag zz1aag
Quote:
Originally posted by The Honeymooners
I am interested to see everyone's opinion and ideas behind thier fantasies about that certain age range they pick. Give description of your age and the age you chose and why.
21 because u can party all day and all night
10/31/2012
Contributor: Xarien Xarien
Quote:
Originally posted by The Honeymooners
I am interested to see everyone's opinion and ideas behind thier fantasies about that certain age range they pick. Give description of your age and the age you chose and why.
21-24. I just prefer people around my own age group.
10/31/2012
Contributor: Voir Voir
I'm 20
but I really don't fantasize about myself to be honest nor do I particularly look at age... physical attractiveness yes but I don't bust up to someone and ask their age or really consider it... just that they are at least my own age.

For the most part I fantasize about made up situations with made up people with various looks, kinks, fetishes, ages etc. so the gap could be small or huge depending on what sort of morbid mood I'm in .
10/31/2012
Contributor: Kirill1171 Kirill1171
21-24
02/21/2013
Contributor: twelve13 twelve13
I'm almost 22. I choose 21-24. I'm probably dull, but I tend to prefer people around my age.
02/23/2013
Contributor: evie.amor evie.amor
Age isn't as big of a deal as sex drive for me. Ideally I'd be with someone who is as enthusiastic about sex as I am.
03/06/2013
Contributor: table38792 table38792
If we're talking fantasy scenarios then I guess my preference centers around early 20s (20-24).
03/06/2013
Contributor: surreptitious surreptitious
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Quote:
Originally posted by The Honeymooners
I am interested to see everyone's opinion and ideas behind thier fantasies about that certain age range they pick. Give description of your age and the age you chose and why.
I'm twenty-two, and I chose the 25-28 age range because I don't want someone significantly older, but it would be nice if they had a little bit of financial security and experience with life in general. I mean, if I could customize other aspects of this mystery man and make him rich and mature all on his own, I'd probably pick 21. Old enough to drink and go out with me (unlike my current 20-year-old), but slightly younger, because that older women fantasy is fun to play with.
03/06/2013
Contributor: snowminx snowminx
I'm 19 and right now I'm trying to find guys that are pretty close to my age (21-23ish) but I still have an attraction to much older guys. I'm just trying to find someone closer because when you're dating an old guy you can't have the guy meet your family or friends and I don't like sneaking around anymore.
03/09/2013
Contributor: lilyflower lilyflower
I'm 31, and my ideal partner would probably be 35-45. A lot of the guys I find attractive are in that age range.
03/16/2013
Contributor: 445677j 445677j
Quote:
Originally posted by The Honeymooners
I am interested to see everyone's opinion and ideas behind thier fantasies about that certain age range they pick. Give description of your age and the age you chose and why.
30 to 50
04/18/2021
Contributor: Drew69 Drew69
I'll be 50 in two days and I like my sex partners 18-35. It's better that way. Relationships, that's another story...but not really.
05/11/2022