Here's the deal: I just bought Randy and I definitely need some tips on how to use it (him?). I'm no stranger to larger toys but this one is giving me problems. I can get it in, but I can't make the hurt from my vagina stretching go away. Does anyone have any tips to share? This toy is so soft and amazing that I know that I'll love it once I figure this whole thing out.

(can someone switch this topic to dildos? I missed that one...) less

You might need to take some extra time to warm up, like get yourself really turned on and even use some smaller dildos first to work up to that size. A few people who really love the Randy have said in their reviews that initially it hurt to use it and they eventually worked up to a point that they use it more frequently with no trouble. I love mine. less