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Question: sometimes my man, gets jealous of toys, does yours?

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Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
No, my man's mature enough to understand that he offers me something completely different than any toy ever could.

No one's ever going to leave their partner for a sex toy... because relationships aren't just about getting off!
09/29/2012
Contributor: mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
My guy loves that I use toys. He loves to watch, he loves to help, he loves everything about it...it took me a while to be comfortable with him being involved with all of that because with my last guy I had to hide it (he did get jealous of the toys), but it's a super fun additive to the relationship now!
09/29/2012
Contributor: Pardalote Pardalote
If a guy gets jealous of toys he's an ignorant jerk and needs to be either educated or dumped. Your pleasure should be his priority! : |

I have been married for 9 years and my husband bought me my first toy (back before I was okay with using them or having sex in general because I was non-orgasmic back then) and continues to willingly contribute to my search for toys every time one breaks down or isn't doing it for me. It is difficult for me to reach orgasm without a vibe, so using one is an integral part of our sex life, and he encourages it heartily.
09/30/2012
Contributor: kurtster79 kurtster79
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Originally posted by sexytileena / absolutely love sex
He gets jealous when a new toy comes in the mail. Not because I have the toy but because I want to try it the first I alone. So my question is this normal?
I am a man an I buy my wife toys
09/30/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
My partners don't care or are more excited than I am about the order getting here.
10/01/2012
Contributor: Pudyqat Pudyqat
He loves it. Wants me to do it more!
10/02/2012
Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
Unless toys become a problem, I don't think it's normal for a partner to be jealous. My partner gets a little harumphy when I tease her by telling her that I'm masturbating while she's at work (heeheehee) but in a "damnit, I'm horny now and stuck at work" kind of way, not really jealousy.
10/02/2012
Contributor: sexytileena / absolutely love sex sexytileena / absolutely love sex
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Originally posted by indiglo
I'm in the same group as Camoprincess & Kira. My man doesn't get jealous when I get new toys. I do prefer trying them out first with him, rather than alone, but we discussed it. He actually felt like it might be better for me to try ... more
thank you...totally agree
10/02/2012
Contributor: Tangles Tangles
Haha, no. My partner has an extremely low sex drive, so he's glad I have all my toys.
10/04/2012