he does

Not my toys but thinks I am gonna wear my outfits for someone else

guys think they're getting replaced

Nope. My boyfriend loves to hear about my toy adventures and will even happily use them with/on me.

As a guy I convinced my GF to get one. We are born with a free one(hand) so its only fair.

nah, we both like 'em

Oh yeah...though I know the toys definately help.

nope we both love them!

Nope--I'm with a man who is totally secure about his manhood, his ability to please me, and our sex life together. He's just as enthusiastic about adding to the bedroom and experimenting with different toys and sensations, and he's thrilled that I'm so willing to be adventurous and try new things. He doesn't compare himself to pieces of silicone and plastic, because he's confident (and correct) in how irreplaceable he is.

I think some men find female sexuality baffling and pleasuring a woman as a daunting challenge. I think they wrongly compare a woman's sexual response to their own, and when she can't get turned on as quickly or as easily, or it takes more to get her off, he takes it as a comment on his abilities as a lover, and it hurts his ego. So when a woman gets a toy, he immaturely assumes that it means that he's not satisfying her, or he can't compete. He assumes his cock should be enough, even though some women (most women) need more than just the old in and out to get off.

Now, if these men did just a little research and opened up communication with their women, they'd know that they can learn to be more attentive and better lovers, but that doesn't mean she won't want a vibrator. Hell, some women NEED the intense, pinpoint vibrations of a vibrator to get off, and it has nothing to do with him. It's just the way her body is. Nothing wrong with it at all. Men who have partners like that would probably find that adding toys into the mix will make them BETTER lovers by being sympathetic and understanding of her needs and desires, which makes him better able to satisfy her. Vibrators and dildos are not replacements for people. Insecurity is not attractive, and nothing screams "I'm insecure!" more than moping over your girlfriend's vibrator. I get that the female body and sexual response can seem enigmatic and it can be intimidating to try to satisfy a woman sexually. But rise to the challenge! Learn with her. Find out what feels good to her by experimenting and playing around. Look into different sex positions, cunnilingus techniques, g-spot exploration, role play, dirty talk, and yes, toys! Make the quest for your partner's ultimate sexual satisfaction a fun game and play it with her. And let the woman have the damn vibrator. She's going to play with it on her own sometimes too, because hey, we like to masturbate also! Encourage it--the more she knows about what she likes and what feels good to her, the more she'll be able to help you out, and the less inhibited she'll be.

Grr. Dudes. Get over the fear of vibrators. On behalf of cock loving ladies everywhere, trust me, there's room enough in our lives for your manhood, and our toys. Stop competing with toys...in the end, it's just silly and kind of sad.

No we shop together most of the time and he enjoys using them with me.

My current partner loves the fact that I use toys I often send him a "wishlist" of what I want to let him choose my next purchase. I have been going through a dry spell of buying toys and lingerie which upset him a little because he is always wanting to hear about my new toy. When we are together he loves using them on me while he takes a "break" from sex.

I have been in relationships where they were jealous over a BASIC vibe from Spencer's *shrugs* oh well I have someone who loves me using them and having them.

No Way- My partner loves toys as much as I do

Sometimes- When I spend to much time with them

My boyfriend and I share our toys, because a lot of them are for us to use together.

We use them together and pick them out together. My husband is not jealous. He doesn't have any reason to be. We have amazing sex with or without toys. It's just different. We like to keep things interesting and not routine.

Nope

we both have our toys lol

he finds it a turn on that Im kinky enough to have this many!