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Who in your relationship is more knowledgeable about toys?

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Contributor: KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
He's not here on EF but we both realize that at this point I know much more than he does about them...and I'm still learning more every week.
I absolutely love the material guide Eden has, it's been a very valuable resource for me along with all the great reviews.
06/20/2012
Contributor: Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
I do he just like to play wih toys but does know much about them
06/20/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
The hubby is not on EF and I think because of that I'm more knowledgeable about toys.
06/20/2012
Contributor: KRD KRD
I bring the toys to the table
06/20/2012
Contributor: Why Not? Why Not?
The only thing that my partner cares about our toys is that they make me happy. He too still asks if this lube can be used with that toy.
06/20/2012
Contributor: Nacht Stern Nacht Stern
I usually take care of the toys and clean them.
I find it therapeutic. (strange hu?)
06/24/2012
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I would say we're equal in our knowledge of toys, but our knowledge is different. I definitely know more about vibrators and dildos and things like that, he knows more about the BDSM stuff since most of those toys are his.

So we know if we want to get a new vibe or something that I should pick it out, and if we are looking for an impact toy or restraints or something that he should pick it out.
06/24/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by pootpootpoot
Today I visited my partner,and when I opened our toy safes they were so messy! Lube everywhere, silicone and glass toys out of their bags, it was ridiculous. Luckily everything was okay (if a bit sticky) but I had to tell him once again how to take ... more
Both guys will direct toy care or material choice questions to me. They are quite knowledgeable but defer to me when it's convenient.
06/24/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
I definitely know more, having been a sex toy obsessive for years, but my boyfriend has certainly picked up a lot of knowledge from talking to me about toys. I think he knows enough that he could give recommendations to friends, warn them to stay away from jelly toys, etc. And he definitely knows which of my toys are my favorites.
06/26/2012
Contributor: carenautilus carenautilus
We're both giant nerds, especially about sex and sex toys. And since we have a fair few toys, we need to be a bit neat.
06/26/2012
Contributor: hybridinsurge hybridinsurge
I handle the toy care. My BF only uses them sometimes when we are together.
06/29/2012
Contributor: LoneOokami LoneOokami
Im the only one on eden and my girlfriend agrees I know way more about toys but she thinks its awesome so it works for me
06/13/2013
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
Both my partner and I are on EF and we both know about the same amount on toys and their care.
06/13/2013
Contributor: griffonc griffonc
Both are equal
06/13/2013
Contributor: Ouroborean Ouroborean
My partner's definitely more knowledgeable than I am.
06/13/2013
Contributor: Kitten B. Kitten B.
I worked in a sex toy store for a few years so I definitely know more than him. We have a decent little collection. Basically, all the toys are mine except his one sleeve haha. He's in charge of bondage stuff but he's doesn't really wash/maintain any of my toys.
06/13/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
I know much more about toys. He doesn't use any except on me.
06/14/2013