So, I put it to the test. My love pacifier stayed very malleable at -78C, not at all brittle. In fact, I would say it's "bendability" stayed the exact same as it is at room temperature, and as it is after it comes out of a pot of boiling water.
But I don't know enough about TPR blends to say that this for sure means it's not TPR. The reading I've done says TPR blends tend to get brittle somewhere around -25C.
As for dissolving it....well, my love pacifier is now missing a chunk (just in the handle), which I cut up into 8 pieces and put into vials with a variety of solvents, and it didn't seem to dissolve in anything. I put it in hexanes (think: gasoline), acetone (think: nail polish remover), toluene (think: paint thinner), as well as ethyl acetate, butanol, dimethyl sulphoxide, dicholoromethane and tetrahydrofuran. And of course, it doesn't dissolve in water either. *shrug*. I'll check in on the silicone chunks tomorrow, and in a few days, to see if they're swelling and/or dissolving. I will also eventually dry down the solvents to see if they've extracted anything (if anything is dissolving out of this material I will be able to see a residue)....but preliminary results say this stuff is pretty inert to these organic solvents.
Now I should note, there are some pretty skookum plastics out there that are pretty solvent resistant. However, they're real spendy. It wouldn't make much sense, in my mind, to go to the trouble of labeling something as 100% silicone, and then making it out of high quality plastics instead of silicone - we're talking the same price category here, at least in lab land.
As noted previously, I will follow up in a few days, I am still quite open to seeing the error in my ways here (please chime in if you have any other info), and although I am an organic chemist, I am not a polymer chemist, or a silicone chemist, and finally, I am for all intents and purposes, just an anonymous person posting on an internet forum. So take it with a grain of salt.