Do you ever prefer a sex toy over your partner?

Contributor: dbm6907 dbm6907
Hell no. I will choose my boyfriend over a toy any day. I like the bonding/closeness.
03/01/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I need my partner but he can't make me achieve orgasm.
03/01/2012
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
I don't prefer a toy over him, per se, but sometimes he'll be ready when I'm not quite ready yet, push inside me anyway, then pull out and finish just when I get really into it. Toys don't do that, so that's the only reason I'd ever prefer a toy. I'm still training him on how a real woman works, not like the *ahem* excuse me, "sluts" he dated before.
03/01/2012
Contributor: dhig dhig
nope
03/01/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
Not really the same to me. There is nothing like the touch of someone else. I like to vibrate and touch myself, but if i had to pick one, I'd rather have a good romp.
03/01/2012
Contributor: Djiffy Djiffy
Depends on whether I'm with a guy or a girl and what their level of experience is, honestly.
03/09/2012
Contributor: goofballmaster goofballmaster
Quote:
Originally posted by Xavier7
Or rather, a more detailed question is, do you ever prefer a certain sex toy over your partner, if you do?
Nothing is as good as the real thing.
04/03/2012
Contributor: Jordan B Jordan B
We use toys together as embellishments and a little extra spice!
04/03/2012
Contributor: Archery Archery
Is funny to use it with your partner! I like to do it!
11/30/2012
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
nope, never
11/30/2012
Contributor: apryls apryls
Quote:
Originally posted by Xavier7
Or rather, a more detailed question is, do you ever prefer a certain sex toy over your partner, if you do?
nope, you can never replace the real deal
11/30/2012
Contributor: PassionCpl PassionCpl
Occasionally. It's less work
11/30/2012
Contributor: No-nita No-nita
Sometimes I would rather have a solo session, so yes, but I wouldn't turn him down in favor of a toy.
12/01/2012
Contributor: kkizzee05 kkizzee05
Quote:
Originally posted by Mnemosyne
Well, when he's away (deployed) my vibe is my best friend, however nothing beats the real thing.
I defiantly get this.. My boyfriend and I sometimes have a long sidtance relationship so when he's not here I do enjoy my toys, but nothing even compares to the real thing.
12/10/2012
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
Quote:
Originally posted by Xavier7
Or rather, a more detailed question is, do you ever prefer a certain sex toy over your partner, if you do?
HELL NO.

A sex toy can't cuddle me afterwards, tell me how beautiful I am, take me out to dinner, etc. etc.

Time to get a new partner if you start preferring toys over a living human being.
12/10/2012
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
Quote:
Originally posted by Xavier7
Or rather, a more detailed question is, do you ever prefer a certain sex toy over your partner, if you do?
No, never.
12/10/2012
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
sometimes i need a quicky, and why bother her for that? sometimes she sleeping and i'm up.
12/22/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
Nope--if I can have both though, then that makes me very happy!
12/22/2012
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
Never...my wife wins hands down over any toy.
12/22/2012
Contributor: 1001 Pleasures 1001 Pleasures
Depends on the partner. And I'm sure I've had partners that have enjoyed a toy more. A few times I've whipped out a Fleshlight to "finish off" someone who just wasn't getting there, and I'm sure it was a good thing for both of us.
12/27/2012
Contributor: null null
Sometimes, because sometimes I just want to get off and go to sleep. Sometimes I'm just horny and I don't want to take the time to romance a partner, and I don't want them to spend the time to take care of me when I just want an orgasm on a really basic level.
12/27/2012
Contributor: mlmac mlmac
She is always my first choice and then toys.
12/27/2012
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
To achieve an O, yes. For physical contact, the human element? I prefer my partner hands down. Our time together makes me feel complete and whole. My toys? They help me achieve my peak and fill in the gaps in between.
12/27/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
No lol
12/27/2012
Contributor: Raymaker Raymaker
Depends on the day, depends on my mood, depemnds on the toy, depends on the status of my relationship with the other person. It's hard to even want to be around sonebiody if you're mad at them.
12/27/2012
Contributor: wifey wifey
Quote:
Originally posted by Xavier7
Or rather, a more detailed question is, do you ever prefer a certain sex toy over your partner, if you do?
Sometimes he either just isn't around, isn't available, isn't in the mood, or the like. OK, NP, but when I gots to have it, I gots to have it! When I do it, he usually is not around, but there have been a number of times I have done it in the room next to him or in our bed while he was sleeping, etc...
05/06/2018
Contributor: Inneedofcock Inneedofcock
well I do sometimes when I want to suck a cock since I enjoy both men and women
05/23/2020
Contributor: CuriousFun CuriousFun
I've only started getting into using toys on myself since I've been single. Prior to that, my only experience with toys was with pegging my ex-boyfriend. Honestly, the only serious, long-term romantic relationship I've had to date got pretty ugly, so for the moment, I'm thrilled to only have to worry about myself, both in and out of the bedroom. The pleasure and orgasms I've been giving myself with my toys are far better than anything I ever experienced with my ex (sex with him was always all about him).

However, I have had some pretty awesome sex with more casual partners, and I feel like if I had a committed partner who was as enthusiastic and attentive as some of my previous friends-with-benefits arrangements, I'd probably prefer sex with a real partner over the toys....at least most of the time. Though even then, I feel like sometimes I'd still like to have the occassional solo session with a toy. Not because of any shortcomings on the part of my partner, but just because sometimes it's nice to be able to be completely selfish, without having to feel guilty about neglecting someone else's needs. Also, solo playtime is a good way to experiment with new experiences and sensations without having to feel any pressure to perform or react a certain way, which is nice.

One thing I would very much like to experiment with (if/when I find a willing partner) is partnered sex WITH toys. And not just me putting on a harness and getting my partner off, like with my ex, but actual, mutual, two-way toy experimentation, with us playing around with using a variety of different toys and sensations on each other. That sounds extremely hot and fun to me, and is definitely something I look forward to trying at some point.
05/23/2020
Contributor: DenRu85 DenRu85
NO, this is how good a toy should be and how bad a partner is for this to happen.
11/02/2021
Contributor: 4ever18 4ever18
Toys are great but are not a substitute for the real thing!
11/02/2021