If we broke up, the lingerie is still going to get used. if I'm not quite over him, I might not wear it right away, but if it still looks hot, I don't want that going to waste!
What do you do with lingerie after a breakup?
07/23/2012
i keep all of it
07/24/2012
there's no reason not to keep it so your next partner can enjoy!
07/24/2012
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Precisely! The lingerie is for you, not just him.
Originally posted by
Taylor
I keep it, I wear lingerie to please myself, it is a bonus if my partner likes it. So I don't really attach memories of my partner to any particular piece on lingerie.
07/24/2012
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ANY real gift I have gotten from one lover, I was happy to use or wear with another. Why not? If it looks good on me, it is a LOSS to the guy who left me. I had a few nice toys and bits of lingerie that way, ages ago, when we got married. They are long gone now, but I would not have done anything different. The man who has now loved me for decades got some great use out of those toys and cloths when playing with me.
Originally posted by
*Camoprincess*
If you bought lingerie to wear with your other half and you break up what do you do with the Lingerie you have worn for him/her and the Lingerie that is still in the package with tags still on it never taken out of the box?
07/24/2012
I'd keep it
11/12/2012
Sorry you have to deal with this. I would keep it all. To hell with the ex! You look damn good in the lingerie so keep it ....its his loss! Lol Seriously, I don't attach sentiment to items only memories and memoirs can be shoved aside!
11/12/2012
Keep them. No reason to get rid of them if you like them.
11/12/2012
I would keep it as I tend to just associate it with being mine rather than being overly linked to a partner. Same with toys.
11/12/2012
I wear them in the house in the summer when its so hot outside
11/12/2012
I keep it, unless I really didn't like it to begin with.
11/12/2012
Never really happened to me, but I'd never throw them away. If he bought them, he can keep them, but if I bought them, they're my toys, not his. Am I going to throw away/give away/sell the nice dress I bought for our anniversary dinner? Absolutely not, so why do that with lingerie. It's YOURS, so own it, and make new memories with it!
12/27/2012
I guess it would depend on the item and situation.
Occasionally I do feel weird wearing this bra that looks really great on me that I wore 2 ex's ago, but my partners like it on me so I try not to think about what was in my head when I bought it and I just think of it as my turn-everyone-on bra.
If it was expensive or I really like it, I would keep it and wear it, but if it was something I bought specifically for their fetish or inexpensive I would maybe give it to a friend or something if I thought it would be a problem.
Occasionally I do feel weird wearing this bra that looks really great on me that I wore 2 ex's ago, but my partners like it on me so I try not to think about what was in my head when I bought it and I just think of it as my turn-everyone-on bra.
If it was expensive or I really like it, I would keep it and wear it, but if it was something I bought specifically for their fetish or inexpensive I would maybe give it to a friend or something if I thought it would be a problem.
12/27/2012
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