The New Intimacy

How important is sex in your relationship?

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Contributor: real life wife real life wife
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Originally posted by Mrs.Giggity
On a scale of 1-10. 10 being VERY IMPORTANT.

I recently asked my husband this and he said a 6! I was a little upset by this, I thought his answer would have been higher but I am the nympho in our marriage. For me it's a 10.
It is at least an 8 for me. For my new husband, probably half that. The discrepancy is a huge problem.
03/03/2012
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
Something like a 9 or 10.
I LOVE sex. It's just great physically and for fun, and it's also a wonderful way to bond and share time together. I think sex is really, really important in my relationships and really, it seems like the men I've found are not as into it as I am Sucks!
03/04/2012
Contributor: ginainohio ginainohio
somewhat
09/06/2012
Contributor: fernwehh fernwehh
I don't really mind one way or the other - I don't have a super high sex drive in general, and I don't think sex is super crucial for me to feel close to a person, so I marked it as being somewhat important. It's just a fun thing that I like to do if the other person would like to do it too. At this point my partner and I are just starting to become physical and it's going slowly, which I kind of like because it makes the pressure a bit lower when we will eventually get around to having "actual" sex.
09/06/2012
Contributor: hem hem
I think it's important to remember that you're asking a very select group of people (those who have accounts on a sex toy website), so this is probably not very accurate to the average in the ~real world~
09/06/2012