But cutting boards don't have a coating/sealant on them as wooden toys do.

I've soaked one of my wooden toys in a bleach water solution for a bit with no problems. I wouldn't leave it to soak overnight or for several hours, though, just to be safe.

I typically use warm to hot water with antibacterial soap to clean my wooden toys. The sealant makes them nonporous.



As far as wearing down the sealant/glaze, I don't see that happening unless you just toss the toy into a drawer with lots of rough objects to continuously rub against it. But you don't do that with your glass toys or your jelly toys, do you? So just take the normal care you would take with your other toys with your lovely wooden toy. Keep it in a toy pouch or in a sock where no hard, abrasive objects can rub against it. (I think you would pretty much have to actively sand it off, though, unless you are talking about a period of several decades of sliding around in a sandpaper-lined drawer . . .)

One thing is for sure: the sealant will certainly not rub off from thrusting against the delicate membranous tissues of the genitalia. I loved the "sandpaper vagina" comment!