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What's the First Thing You Look For When Shopping For a Realistic Dildo/Dildo?

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Contributor: krisvida krisvida
Size & I love waterproof
05/11/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
Size and shape are most important.
05/11/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Based on my response, I don't have a real "first thing". I do want my toys to be sterilized, if possible but so many other things are also important. If the dil is higher priced, I guess I want everything.
At this point, I am buying fewer toys but going for toys that will satisfy my needs.
05/11/2011
Contributor: LostBoy988 LostBoy988
Size, color, texture, safety
05/12/2011
Contributor: CarmenGore262 CarmenGore262
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Originally posted by Sera
I'm wondering, because I've been doing some really picky shopping lately. I mean, if I'm going to spend my money on a toy, it better be one I'm really going to use and enjoy. You know?
size
05/14/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
Quote:
Originally posted by Sera
I'm wondering, because I've been doing some really picky shopping lately. I mean, if I'm going to spend my money on a toy, it better be one I'm really going to use and enjoy. You know?
material and size! too many toys are made of poor material
05/16/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
safety, then size and design for me
05/16/2011
Contributor: REDRUM REDRUM
G-spot hitting shape, glass.
05/21/2011
Contributor: ToyBoy ToyBoy
I look to make sure it is silicone, a good size, and the brand
05/26/2011
Contributor: bigfuckindicksDOTnet bigfuckindicksDOTnet
me too, i cant decide on one to save my life
05/28/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Sera
I'm wondering, because I've been doing some really picky shopping lately. I mean, if I'm going to spend my money on a toy, it better be one I'm really going to use and enjoy. You know?
Cyberskin
06/02/2011
Contributor: Dave5000 Dave5000
Size and Cyberskin!
06/02/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Most of the time for me, Its shape than size.
08/17/2011
Contributor: toysforall toysforall
size is the most important initial information i look at
08/18/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Length, girth, and shape. In that order.
08/18/2011
Contributor: Marziba Marziba
Texture. I really, REALLY dislike very bumpy textures. I've had repeated UTIs before and the one toy I do have has veins so rough that it makes me feel like I've got a UTI brewing... ack. Same reason I go for materials that are fairly safe and washable, too. After that, color. If I can, I prefer to get clear/blue/red/purple items.
08/18/2011
Contributor: MR Chickhabit MR Chickhabit
when i go for realism, i go for vixskin.

they offer as close to the real thing as you can buy, without possibly being the subject of a sting operation.
08/19/2011
Contributor: haley730 haley730
size
08/24/2011
Contributor: ashboo32 ashboo32
vixskin is my favorite, but also look for silicone, size, and shape. cannot deal with unsafe materials.
03/17/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
The main thing I look for is material safety, then size and shape.
03/17/2013
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
Material is most important, then size.
03/19/2013
Contributor: lilyflower lilyflower
Size. When I'm looking for a new dildo, the first thing I go to is Eden's refine by diameter search. I usually like them to be close to 2 inches. I won't go any smaller than a 1.5 diameter. Material would be my next concern. I won't do jelly or rubber.
03/20/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Shape and material.
03/20/2013
Contributor: Taz Demann Taz Demann
Size especially the thickness (2-3")then shape and appearance, must be realistic, then material. Length not that important.
09/08/2018
Contributor: aznbbgirl aznbbgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Sera
I'm wondering, because I've been doing some really picky shopping lately. I mean, if I'm going to spend my money on a toy, it better be one I'm really going to use and enjoy. You know?
I've not shopped for a dildo myself, but I'd say size and shape are pretty important to me.
08/01/2020
Contributor: ToyLover99 ToyLover99
Insertable length and girth. I usually stick between 1.5 - 2.5 for girth. I prefer the length to be over 7”.
12/08/2020
Contributor: CuriousFun CuriousFun
Size and material are the first things I look for. If it's too big or too small, or made from an unsafe material, it's a no-go. It's got to be silicone, glass, or stainless steel. Size-wise, I look for something between 4-5 inches in circumference. Length is a little less important, but I usually like it to be at least 5 inches and less than 8 inches (I can't insert much more than 6 inches, and too much excess length just makes it awkward to use).

After size and material, I consider shape and texture. I like to have a variety of shapes and textures, so there isn't one single thing I look for there.

Lastly, I consider things like price and aesthetics. Obviously I need to be able to afford it and I'm not made of money, so price has to be at least a consideration. How a toy looks definitely isn't one of the first things I look at, but I'd be lying if I said I didn't find myself drawn towards toys that I find aesthetically pleasing. I enjoy toys that come in fun, bright colours as opposed to flesh tones. It's probably the least important thing to me, but it does still play at least a small factor in which products appeal most to me.
12/09/2020