I personally don't like firm insertable toys! Stuff like glass, wood, hard plastic and so on seem so unappealing to me, I want something softer, that will bend and shape to my body. For anal use, I'm more open to firm toys. Vaginally, it's uncomfortable to me, maybe because one of the toys I have is rather large, AND hard plastic, which almost hurts to use even though I can comfortably use larger soft toys. However I noticed that a LOT of people on EF love hard insertable toys, why? Maybe someone can change my opinion of them, please recommend good products if you know any less