Favorite girth for dildos

Contributor: Jgurthy Jgurthy
My wife tells me to this day that anything thicker than me would hurt her... little does she know i found her hidden dildo collection years ago and every one in there is at least 2" thick.
06/11/2017
Contributor: DILF DILF
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Originally posted by Jgurthy
My wife tells me to this day that anything thicker than me would hurt her... little does she know i found her hidden dildo collection years ago and every one in there is at least 2" thick.
Interesting...

With 51 total votes on this poll, safe to say that's enough to form an accurate observation:

Average erect male girth = roughly 1.5 inches diameter.
Most desired dildo girth (by FAR) on this poll = between 1.75 - 2 inches

That's between 17 to 33% larger than the average guy. A rather large discrepancy, yes???

So, ladies...care to explain this rather large discrepancy???
06/28/2017
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by DILF
Interesting...

With 51 total votes on this poll, safe to say that's enough to form an accurate observation:

Average erect male girth = roughly 1.5 inches diameter.
Most desired dildo girth (by FAR) on this poll = between 1.75 - 2 ... more
Well, probably we, ladies evaluate dildo just as a dildo (which may be smaller or bigger, with texture or without, and so on). A real person is more than just the girth of his penis. It's his temper, skills, and sexual behavior...
06/29/2017
Contributor: DILF DILF
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Originally posted by Lena Eden
Well, probably we, ladies evaluate dildo just as a dildo (which may be smaller or bigger, with texture or without, and so on). A real person is more than just the girth of his penis. It's his temper, skills, and sexual behavior...
Not really a good answer, sorry to say.

We are simply talking about size, nothing more or less.

Has to be a reason why there is such a "preferred" girth difference. It is NOT by accident...
06/29/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by DILF
Not really a good answer, sorry to say.

We are simply talking about size, nothing more or less.

Has to be a reason why there is such a "preferred" girth difference. It is NOT by accident...
What are you getting at . And who says the average guy is only 1 1/2 " in girth.
Op asked about dildos. And is it not possible the women that answered like their hubbies / SO the way they are . However if asked about Choice of dildo wanted a larger one.

I think most women have relations with their husbands 80-90% of the time. And once in a while play with a girthier dildo Every now and then.

Perhaps you can ask EF ," What sells more 1 1/2 " vibrators or 2 " ones. The fact that the majority or vibraters are sized about 1 1/2 " should tell you something.

I think / hope you would agree many use vibes before having sex.
Anyway I glad you like to stir up controversy and discussion.
06/30/2017
Contributor: DILF DILF
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
What are you getting at . And who says the average guy is only 1 1/2 " in girth.
Op asked about dildos. And is it not possible the women that answered like their hubbies / SO the way they are . However if asked about Choice of dildo ... more
Yes, the average erect penis girth is roughly 4.75 inches circumference - which is nearly exactly 1.5 inches diameter; plenty of sources state that.

I'm not sure I stir up controversy...I'm just the kind of guy who like to know how and why things are the way they are. 99% of the time, things happen for a reason and are not just random coincidences.

Just to be clear, we are talking about dildos, not vibes. There is a difference - the MAIN job of a vibe is just as the name implies, so penetration is not often important. A dildo's main function is to penetrate.

It really is very simple. There is a large discrepancy between the preferred dildo girth most women like vs. the average guy's girth. Sure, not all dildos are 1.75-2 inches in girth. But most fall in the range of 1 to 3 inches. That average is 2 inches. Dildo manufactures are not dumb...just like any other business that manufactures products - they make what people will buy. The ones that don't get bought become dinosaurs...as in extinct.

Its not surprising that most women would prefer a size larger than what they currently have (unless the guy is super large, why go lower, as my wife says). So it should be expected that when women buy a dildo, they choose a size girthier than their SO's. I just didn't think it would be THAT much larger...as in about 25% larger. And I don't think its "once in a while", as you state.

I'd just would like to hear from a gal who can come clean and disclose the truth. No cover-ups, no beating around the subject. I'm a big boy...I can handle the truth
07/04/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by DILF
Yes, the average erect penis girth is roughly 4.75 inches circumference - which is nearly exactly 1.5 inches diameter; plenty of sources state that.

I'm not sure I stir up controversy...I'm just the kind of guy who like to know how and ... more
I hear you man. mine is the same way. All her " dil- bf's are quite a bit larger than me , but she'll always say prefers mine. Guess she falls into the " can't come clean " category. Needless to say she doesn't want to hurt my feelings.
07/04/2017
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
I hear you man. mine is the same way. All her " dil- bf's are quite a bit larger than me , but she'll always say prefers mine. Guess she falls into the " can't come clean " category. Needless to say she doesn't want to ... more
Most women are well aware of how fragile men's egos are - so they are not at all above saying whatever they think will inflate us!

Call it enlightened self-interest!
07/06/2017
Contributor: Taz Demann Taz Demann
2.25"-3" diameter, anything less and she doesn't get that full feeling, yes the toys are quite a bit bigger than me but we have worked it out for our mutual satisfaction.
09/08/2018
Contributor: Iluvgirth69 Iluvgirth69
I’ve gotten up to 2.5 I think. I want to try the girthy giant. I like being stretched. I like going back and forth between a few. The material is just as important as the size. Length is kinda irrelevant.
10/27/2018
Contributor: Iluvgirth69 Iluvgirth69
The real thing wouldn’t have to be that big but I like my toys huge.
10/27/2018
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
I definitely like it under 1.75"
I'm quite small, while my partner is a bit on the girthier side, so without proper arousal, I sometimes feel discomfort. However, on good days, I even have him wear penis extensions - the things our lady parts are capable of taking in are marvelous
10/29/2018
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by GingerAnn
I definitely like it under 1.75"
I'm quite small, while my partner is a bit on the girthier side, so without proper arousal, I sometimes feel discomfort. However, on good days, I even have him wear penis extensions - the things our lady ... more
I agree with you - it's amazing to see what a woman can do!

I have male friends who say how awful it would be to be a woman - because of menstruation.

My wife on the other hand feels sorry for me. She can go on all night with orgasm after orgasm - I think the record was about 20 in one weekend - compared to my one/day.

I'll admit as a younger man I could do more than that - but that's kind of the cruel trick of nature, the sexual capacity of men decreases just as a woman's capacity for sex skyrockets!

Take advantage of your youthful partner - it doesn't last for ever!
10/29/2018
Contributor: adventurous1 adventurous1
My wife says "the bigger the toy, the bigger the joy" she switches between toys from 2.25" up to 3" depending how aroused and the mood she's in. Sometimes she wants a good stretch and other times she enjoys the smaller toys - 2.25" - 2.50". She prefers the realistic dildos. She doesn't care for vibrators as she says they are too intense and prefers oral stimulation on her clit. Her favorite play is when I do oral on her and insert a large dildo as she becomes aroused, this really gets her off.Its a turn on for me as well as I see and hear her enjoying my efforts by increasing her satisfaction by stimulating her pussy with my tongue and a huge dildo. She always has multiple climaxes this way, loves the full feeling the dildo gives her. Makes for some wonderful sex!
11/24/2018
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
For me, it depends heavily on the purpose. If we're using a toy for a DP experience, I'd go for something on the slimmer side, less than 1.75", since my fiance is quite thick. If I'm flying solo, definitely 2" or higher.
12/03/2018
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by GingerAnn
For me, it depends heavily on the purpose. If we're using a toy for a DP experience, I'd go for something on the slimmer side, less than 1.75", since my fiance is quite thick. If I'm flying solo, definitely 2" or higher.
Yes - my wife would completely agree with your analysis
12/05/2018
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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02/19/2019
Contributor: Smooth69 Smooth69
I like to penetrate my ass with a 1.75” 8” dildo , I’m ready to try a 2” it would be no problem
I can’t wait to back onto it pull my cheeks apart and work it in then ride it hard!
02/25/2019
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Originally posted by Smooth69
I like to penetrate my ass with a 1.75” 8” dildo , I’m ready to try a 2” it would be no problem
I can’t wait to back onto it pull my cheeks apart and work it in then ride it hard!
Wow, good luck with that, Smooth69!
May I recommend you a couple of options?

For example, here is one of our newest arrivals, the marvelous Dr.Hot. It is completely safe for anal since it has a comfy suction cup - so it's good for mounting and riding, too Its insertable length is exactly 8 inches, and the diameter is slightly bigger than your last endeavor was - 1 7/8. The design is also quite alluring - after all, a red hot flamin' dildo is always a catch

Another quite nice, yet more "rough" kind of option is the gorgeous Emperor. Sleek design and majestic black coating - it's just too good to be true. Its diameter is about the same as your last dildos should have, but its insertable length, even with that beautiful realistic scrotum, is 8 1/2" - quote a long pole, huh?

And last but the least, our funky champion, the Indigo. Just like you love'em dildos - 8 inches of insertable length, two full inches in diameter.

Hope this helps!
02/26/2019
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Smooth69
I like to penetrate my ass with a 1.75” 8” dildo , I’m ready to try a 2” it would be no problem
I can’t wait to back onto it pull my cheeks apart and work it in then ride it hard!
The mighty Caesar should be right up your alley. It's 2" girth should fill you up! It's a squishy but firm BBC with a suction cup. It also will fit in the Eden Lux Rider harness.
03/03/2019
Contributor: BP addictive BP addictive
1.75 to 2.25 feels the best to me
03/03/2019
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
The mighty Caesar should be right up your alley. It's 2" girth should fill you up! It's a squishy but firm BBC with a suction cup. It also will fit in the Eden Lux Rider harness.
Agreed!

Don't know how I've missed the Caesar - it fits your description perfectly!
03/04/2019
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by GingerAnn
Agreed!

Don't know how I've missed the Caesar - it fits your description perfectly!
And Caesar gives one a great sense of accomplishment when fully taken. Or even close. It just feels so good
03/28/2019
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
For me... The softer the material the toy is made of, the girthier I prefer it to be. A ridgid toy, like stainless steel, glass or ceramic? Two inch or just a little bit bigger. I have The Sasha Grey Signature Large 2-3/8" diameter glass plug (purchased from EF, now discontinued) and I really have to work to get that one in.
04/04/2019