If I never met them before of coarse looks is what is going to lure me in but if they arent compatible with my personality then there looks no longer attract me
What first attracts you?
08/13/2011
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The eyes
Originally posted by
sexyintexas
What is the first thing that attracts you to another?
08/13/2011
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Well, I have varying sets of "attraction".
Originally posted by
sexyintexas
What is the first thing that attracts you to another?
For a sexual attraction, I go for looks, because no matter how hard I try, the good looking win out in that department.
For personal attraction, as in who I make friends with and enjoy spending my time around, it's intelligence and personality, followed by sense of humor, with looks pulling up the rear.
Combine those two, and I'd have my ideal relationship. It can't get sexual without physical attraction, and I won't be able to stand being around them without intelligence and personality.
08/14/2011
Humor.
08/15/2011
I'm going to go for the obvious/shallow and say looks. Just because it's the first thing that I see about a person, really. Everything else either further qualifies them, or disqualifies them. I'm extremely picky (hence single, lol), but I'm not into model good looks, I have my own unique sense of aesthetics that I'm going on.
Intelligence is close second, and only second because it's not as easy to pick out from a distance! I have yet to meet someone without a sense of humor, but different people have different styles so it's just a matter of getting to know them. Other personality traits are all mixed in there, but if someone has got intelligence (I'm not talking about astrophysics, but it's nice to have someone not afraid of dating a neurosurgeon) then they should be smart enough to know how to be a good and effective person for the most part.
Intelligence is close second, and only second because it's not as easy to pick out from a distance! I have yet to meet someone without a sense of humor, but different people have different styles so it's just a matter of getting to know them. Other personality traits are all mixed in there, but if someone has got intelligence (I'm not talking about astrophysics, but it's nice to have someone not afraid of dating a neurosurgeon) then they should be smart enough to know how to be a good and effective person for the most part.
08/15/2011
Looks then personality. Sometimes they look good but have a horrible personality and thats a NO NO for me
08/19/2011
I said other. It's gotta be a combination. Looks aren't the 100% thing, it might draw you to someone, but it doesn't really mean anything. Intelligence, humor, "aura", eloquence , looks, all play into it.
08/19/2011
I have to say other. The reason I was attracted to my now fiancee is the whole package! She's perfect!
08/19/2011
The first thing is looks, but looks quickly fade if you are unintellegent and unhumorous. Looks will get my attention for a short time, its just icing if you have the total package.
08/19/2011
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Looks and personality (how they carry themselves). The downside is looks can be decieving.
Originally posted by
sexyintexas
What is the first thing that attracts you to another?
08/19/2011
Yup, gotta go with a combo "shot" here...
08/19/2011
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First thing I notice about a guy is his eyes and lips.If I find him attractive then I go to body language..you can tell alot about how they carry themselves.Then personality.I am not very materialistic so his finances dont mean anything to me.
Originally posted by
sexyintexas
What is the first thing that attracts you to another?
08/19/2011
Looks are the first things I see, it's the thing that's OUT THERE, you know? but humor and intelligence keeps me coming back.
08/29/2011
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i like personality, also love a great smile =]
Originally posted by
sexyintexas
What is the first thing that attracts you to another?
08/29/2011
I am hooked if a guy can keep me laughing.
08/29/2011
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Compatibility. That thing that just clicks, you know? It hasn't much to do with individual traits in themselves, but the sum of those traits working in conjunction with oneself.
When I met my lover he told me I'd be his.
I knew he was right, even though I fought it. Here we are.
When I met my lover he told me I'd be his.
I knew he was right, even though I fought it. Here we are.
08/30/2011
It's important for him to be friendly and easy to talk to. I'm shy, and it's hard for me to talk to new people most of the time.
08/31/2011
That's really hard to say. I mean, I suppose looks would be the first thing since that is the first thing you see.... But what really gets my attention is that he's got a brain... and he uses it! Intelligence is sexy IMO
09/04/2011
I'm pretty goofy myself and I need to laugh, so I'm attracted to a man's sense of humor before I start to notice all the other things.
09/28/2011
Personality is not no the list?
09/28/2011
Sense of humor definitely, someone who takes things seriously all the time is hard to deal with.
09/28/2011
A brain can make a man I was never physically attracted to before completely irresistible.
10/07/2011
The very first thing that attracts me to a women are her eyes! Then her intelligence; if she is noticeably vacuous I find it hard to even converse with her.
10/20/2011
I'd be lying if I didn't say looks are first what attracts me to someone. After that it's personality and sense of humor.
10/20/2011
If we're talking very very first, looks. Beyond that, overall personality and sense of humor are attractive to me.
12/12/2011
Looks get my attention, then it's the personality that gets me to stick around.
12/12/2011
eyes and smile
12/12/2011
Intelligence I can talk to someone who is an idiot.
02/11/2012
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I went with "Looks", because I don't care who you are and how deep you try to sound, the "First" thing you notice as attractive about anyone is their looks. You may quickly realize that the attractive person is a terrible individual personality wise and that the not-so-good looking person is your Mr/s Right, but the first thing you notice when you walk into a room is their physical features. (Online dating is an obvious exception to this, and even then you see their profile picture first.)
Originally posted by
sexyintexas
What is the first thing that attracts you to another?
02/14/2012
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Eyes and a beautiful smile. If you look into the eyes you can sometimes see the inner beauty!
Originally posted by
sexyintexas
What is the first thing that attracts you to another?
02/14/2012